Dare for @him Mr. X:
I dare you to tell us a yet unfulfilled fantasy, the one that is on top of the list if there is a list. Describe the sexual, sensual, emotional nature of that desire. If you can make it happen, what is the extent of the yearning that would drive you to fulfill that fantasy and accept all the consequences.

My part is already written. I am sure Mr X will do a proper backdrop on it and maybe add his point of view too.

It appears I may be the one interested in seeing Mr X quaking in his boots. Part 2 of dare:
Hand write the fantasy and slip it between the pages of a Henry Miller book at the local library, requesting the finder to replace your fantasy with one of their own. Go back to library in a few weeks to check out the progress.

I dare you for the next month to write your full and unfiltered comments, answers, or responses to all posts.

Or

I dare you to post a picture of yourself (retaining your anonymity of course is fine), that gives us a strong sense of more than one aspect of your appearance, and style.

Or

I dare you to tell us one of the most interesting…[Read more]

I’ll let this ride for a few more days in case others have comments, and then I’ll get down to fulfilling a dare (gulp).

And do tell, who was the forbidden fruit?

“……….But I loved you and I wanted to know and I wanted to be with you. I thought it might even be just this one time. I started to have all kinds of doubts. I don’t remember what they were. I was afraid I might not recognize you to find you. But when I saw you, I knew it was you. I didn’t want to stare too much. I remembering walking…[Read more]

….He got up, walked around the barrier of desk. He stood behind the chair I was sitting. Then he bent his head, I felt him at my profile. I turned to look up at him. And he kissed me. Soft and strong…his mouth was so soft, but he left me no doubt of the force underlying the tenderness. Lips parted, he entered me with his tongue, and I, into h…[Read more]

I turned and tippy-toed up to say it was great to meet, to give him a polite kiss on the cheek, to bid him good night.
“No,” he said, “on the mouth, right here, right in front of the whole world.”
And I knew then I wanted in, at least a little bit, into his whole world.

Before anything else, she reached and took my hand into hers. She asked if that was okay. Yes. And we walked holding hands. Did I make the next first move? Maybe I did, I was inpatient and I think I am the more patient one. Kissing her filled my senses with the erotic sounds of her whimpers and intense trembling of her skin. I just wanted to…[Read more]

I was a complete nerd when it came to dating. My first kiss was with a boy from my church, that my mom set me up with senior year. I had never been on a date, to a dance, asked out by a boy, didn’t wear makeup, barely ever even wore a dress… none of it. I was a nervous wreck. He tried to hold my hand at several points during the evening. I…[Read more]

Mallory, fabulous question, these are all so charming to read. I want more people to share more first kisses!

YUM! I, for one, am excited already. Keep us posted, please.

Exciting! Welcome, and please keep us posted.

Not just yet. If things progress I will. Still not sure what her reaction is going to be. I have a feeling she won’t be that into it.

I have given her the first challenge. Very mild. She has accepted.

The first challenge requires only her imagination. I want to get her warmed up.

I welcome suggestions and at this point I’m pretty sure she figures it’s me. Stay tuned.

No, nothing yet

Am I still awaiting her reply. I wrote her another email, but the key with her is to let her do things at her own pace. It’s a fine line between pestering her and losing momentum. She is out of town this week on business. Not sure if that is a plus or minus. I’m hoping a plus. I will keep everyone posted.

I love that idea. Do you have any other similar questions ideas to ask?

I’m sorry all, I’ve been using my phone to post and have been posting in the wrong place.
She wrote back. She stayed slightly from the challenge but in a good way. She told me about flirting with a guy. Very innocent but sexy to think about. It’s funny though, when she described the guy it could have been me. I think that’s good, either she did…[Read more]

🙂
We would have been dangerous together in our twenties Luis

I was reminiscing of the olden days. I was ‘a bit’ of a player once… But a very nice one!

Cup me with your hand
Palpate
Wrap your arm around me
Implode or explode
Both

At the moment I have an enchantment with this movie, ‘the book of life’, so I’ve made my valentines’ day card from the cutting and pasting lyrics from some of the songs in the movie.

Live life like its a song
So turn it on and sing along
It’s alright if it goes wrong
Just keep calm and carry on

I’ll stand by you even when we fall
Now matter…[Read more]

Getting close to you
Closer and closer
Insanity
Yes closest thing to crazy
In too deep
How can wrong be so joyous

I am pretty sure, ‘in too deep’ is the story of my life… so makes me smile 😀

Wonderful! Thank you so much for reposting!

🙂

The card was a grand seductive gesture but from the bits of yourself you have shared, to me it was an extension of the generousity that is you. Generous people make the best lovers.

Thank you Mallory. Generosity I do strive to be.

#51 From out of the blue, tell him/her
“Don’t even think about making love later.”
“Why not?”
“I don’t want to make love.”
“What’s wrong?”
“Nothing. I just don’t want it.”
“What do you want?”
“I want to…… FUCK.”

52. Masturbate in plain sight.

54) go shopping at a regular store and find items that could be used during sex… Example – while grocery shopping, check out the cucumbers and zucchinis

55) still on the shopping angle – go and try on new threads – a nice dress shirt and tie for him, perhaps a sexy dress for her. flash each other while changing – or if apart – send pictures to each other

56. No panties, sitting across him, uncrossing my legs so he can see my pussy. Then nonchalantly getting up and heading towards the bedroom

57. Reading other people posts regarding Mr. X foreplay challenge

58. Watching her bade herself

59. Cooking a meal for him/her and then serving it wearing nothing but apron

60. Get into his/her calendar and input: “Sex @8pm” then set the alarm to go off early with enough time to go nuts, and get to the event.

62. In public: I brought my fingers up to his nose–my fingers were saturated with my scent.

63. Open a Google Drive or DropBox folder to share erotic photos with a small group of intimates.

65. Get out the camera — together.

66. Haiku Poetry
About desire and lust —
Juices are flowing.

67. Take an elevator ride in a tall building. See:

http://www.thesexexperiment.com/members/mal8899/activity/favorites/

Rent a room at the Standard Hotel (or similar structure) where people on the street can watch you.

http://bentandvice.blogspot.com/2009/12/letter-from-management-at-our-hotel.html?zx=d7d49ee9e7688fe4

70. Plant an item in his/her briefcase with a note, “you are going to need this later.”

72. This morning I sent an email to him that read. “I really really need a cock between my legs.” Not saying its poetic, but where things went from there… omg, glorious!

73. Up your foreplay through her pressure points:

“Location: This spot is found in the crease on the thick tendons where her legs join her abdomen near her hipbone.

How to stimulate the area: This area may be highly ticklish, so lean into these tendons gradually with the heel of your hand and apply pressure for 30 seconds to a minute. This spot…[Read more]

74. If we’re doing spots, rub, scratch! lick, kiss, and\or bite me at the very top of the split between my cheeks…

Casually, from behind the top of my jeans even, and it is very difficult for me to maintain propriety.

YUM

76. Sexy Desserts
Fig Tart With Custard, Crystallized Ginger and Almonds
http://zesterdaily.com/cooking/fig-tart-with-custard-and-crystallized-ginger-and-almonds/

77. Sexy Desserts
Pumpkin Creme Brulee
Crème brûlée is one of the sexiest desserts. You know that tap-tap moment, when the caramelized crust shatters, and you dip into the silky, luscious, creamy custard. And I don’t have to tell you about men and the scent of pumpkin.

I love that.

Yes, that’s the way to do it.

81. Go on a First Date. If you are married to each other, take off your wedding rings if you wear them.

82. Notice something important that no one else has.

85. Go shopping for shoes, wearing a short skirt, perhaps no panties. Be sure to try on many pairs of shoes requiring his assistance at your feet and his gaze up your…. eyes.

Love that and done that! All started with a red dress.

I think you should be in charge of hotel selection. This one would certainly put me in the mood.

Especially hot if the audience is formally dressed.

#89 Spend a lovely long week-end at a Nudist Camp, getting to top up the tan …. can’t wait ….

I love the way you think.

Why thank you!

92. Go to his office after lunch and deliver in person, a well-seasoned cigar, carefully preserved inside a plain white envelope.

I know you are talking bikinis here, Luis. And I’ve work really hard to have my own credit card, but there is something really hot about a man handing over his.

Well, we all know I’m pretty naughty. But if you are bringing up relevance to BDSM, then I submit to you the question of whose submission. The one handing over the credit card? Or the one accepting it?

95. Honey Do List
Print this list out and bring it to the fancy cosmetic store before you come home. I need:
1) Nars highlighter, The Multiple in Orgasm
2) Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Lolita or Underage Red
3) Cheeky Monkey nail polish in Make Me Moist

I actually think most men would refuse to do this? Might make them squirm? Um, I should do a survey here on this question.

#ONE HUNDRED!!!!
During the course of a long day, or over days, or weeks, or months, continuous, back and forth exchanges of long and/or short banter, of flirtatious, funny, biting, and/or adversarial nature, with escalating heat.

It is funny, in NYC you are more likely to randomly see someone fucking out in the open in public (say in the bathroom at a club or an dark entryway out on the street , or in the middle of a concert – totally random places) than you are to actually hear or see someone – especially your neighbors -fucking.

On the one hand, props to those who…[Read more]

read the rest of the story at http://www.vulvanews.com

1. Scavenger hunt: I hid my panties in a public place; go find it.

2) have a special signal (like burning a special candle) to signify that not only will he be getting lucky, but that tonight will be extra kinky. Light it early so he has lots of time to think about it. Even better, light it when there are others around (like when hosting a dinner party) so that only you 2 know of the meaning … and he will…[Read more]

3. You’re in the next room, but let’s Skype – and surprise me. (Happy to offer a good prize for 100. Any ideas?)

3) Undressing each other – the slower the better

4) play a game using 2 dice and a deck of cards… roll the first die (1-lips, 2-neck, 3-chest, 4-butt, 5-groin, 6-your choice) roll second die (1-kiss, 2, lick, 3-finder touch, 4-ice, 5-genitals, 6-your choice) – then one person pulls a card. if it’s red the man does the actions to the girl, if it’s black he girl does it to the man. the number…[Read more]

6) Naked Massages

7. I am going to be romantic on this one Kissing
8. Teasing me at work texting naked picks of her self
9.

13) surf the net (or your private stash) of porn to find positions to use during sex

14. Feeding him while blindfolded

Sorry people we are only up to 13.
13. Morning report (photo sent via Snapchat) of what stockings I am wearing.

14. Responding to Mr X’s #3 and Mrs M’s #4, yes let’s Skype and the game strip dice. Five articles of clothing allowed.

17. Playing with remote vibrator while eating dinner with his parents

18. Letting me know she’s not wearing panties in public

19. Having a heated and intelligent conversation about some of the projects we as a couple are working on

Touching him while he’s driving

20. Reminiscing the first time we met, we kiss, we had sex.

22. Going shopping for toys

23. Watching her flirt with someone while we are at the bar

24. Slow, artful, erotic, slutty devouring a banana.

24. Watching Alex play with beds

26) the anticipation while being tied to the bed – slowly knotting the rope, adjusting the tension… it may take 20 minutes with out any sexual touching

27. A whisper, “later…” into left ear. Or a nibble, a lick. (The left ear has been shown in some research to be the route to the emotional side of the brain.)

30. Groping — hands!!

31) play truth or dare

This is really fun. Did it at a stripper bar once with a group, a work acquaintance (that I had known for years, but we had always been somewhat awkward around each other) suddenly announced to the girls that we were married. It was perfect, and we finally became comfortable with each other after that, nothing like sharing strippers all night,…[Read more]

32) Give or receive ‘preparation’ instructions.

33) Long, deep, honest, insightful, and revealed email exchange before getting together.

34) speaking of preparation… have him shave you

Ha, we would have so much fun with this Luis!

35) I have to sit somewhere and expose myself, hold the position till he gets there.

37. Hot breath, wet tongue, nibbling teeth on neck. Thoughts on emotional, physical state, words on what actions you will take uttered into {left!!] ear.

38. No words, no touching, stare at each other for as long as it takes, with Frank Sinatra’s The Way You Look Tonight playing in the background.

39) Long hot bath or shower where you wash each other

I ADORE you, Luis.

42. Tape/hang a blindfold on the mirror in the bathroom to greet him/her in the morning. Write on the mirror: “Later…. you? or me?”

43. Email him/her, after lunch, a short audio recording of a long and tortured moan.

45.) Tell them why they enchant you.

46. Slap my ass… and keep slapping it.

47. Emailing a photo of tonight’s outfit [only].

48. Stripped naked, blindfolded, noise canceling headphones put on, a command to spread your legs, and then Vivaldi loud through the headphones.

49. The right music to match the particular mood —

50 — Reading SE together . .. There in a blatant move for site promotion, I give you #50

Impressive work so far. I feel as if we’re engaged in some very important project to change the future of fucking. Is there a Nobel Prize for sex? We should check on that. In the meantime…another prize: 1) if the prospect of reading it interests you, I’ll accept a dare from the crowd (be gentle), and 2) I’ll post a very explicit dare I asked [Read more]

1. He is laying on his back. The back of his buzz cut/bald head between my legs. My pussy pressed up against his head, rubbing until I scream.

2. I walk in to see his face buried in her cunt. I can’t move. I don’t want to move. I am fixated as he moved on to enter her.

1) I was in an old cottage bent over a table in front of a fire and taken from behind
2) usually not being in control – but this changes from time to time 🙂

1. Usually just thinking of Alex makes me come but thinking of Her playing with her self is a must
2. View of my dick as I am taking her from behind

1. Sound that Rico makes 😀
2. Reverse cowgirl does it for me

Lol, omg I have to come back to this, once a sort it out I to something coherent. Great question Mallory.

1. The two of us on a nude beach, with sexy couples around us watching my husband licking my pusssy.
2. Stranger (male or female) licking my pussy while I’m blowing my husband.

Great ones, Mallory. Got me turned on just thinking about the possibilities. Come on, sexies. Let’s do some of these, and if they get us panting (and if you wish), I’ll put some up on the blog.

Ok, so, uh like…. I ordered the wig!!!

Reddish brown!!

Okay, last weekend, met him at the bar. We had decided before hand that we would pretend we were strangers, and he would have to pick me up. I am usually modest, but was in a black dress very low cut, new pink shelf bra, stockings, makeup much heavier than usual. I walked in and panicked. the entire bar was all men, and jam packed in tight…[Read more]

Cont… Three and four

When I got there, I had become rather assimilated and was telling stories in the middle of a group of men. He came up to the bar nearby, and ordered, turned and watched, slowly worked into the conversation, then managed to get himself next to me. I was struggling to hold up the front more than he was I believe, he at…[Read more]