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Mr. X likes Mallory‘s activity 10 years, 2 months ago
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago
The Bicycle Experiment: Off to the Races
Oy vey. My brain and legs are now mush due to the rather huge race weekend that just happened, but it just hurts so good… I was particularly proud of myself yesterday for not only getting back up after wiping out twice on sandy, dusty corners, but still being able to ride up at least a few spots and…[Read more]
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Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago
The Bicycle Experiment 6.0
[why has it jumped to 6.0? there were a couple of targets that got away in the meantime]
The leaves are starting to turn, road season is winding down and my mind and legs are focused on one thing alone: cyclocross. Oh how I had been longing to return to the dirt (and the dirty lads who race on it).
Of all things, I…[Read more]
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Just this morning as I went on my ride, I thought of you and wonder what bad ass cyclist bad lad had you had. And I wonder no more, for now.
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I sometimes find myself praying to find a good man to settle down with… but not yet. There’s just something about those bad dirty lads on bikes. I think it’s kind of a fallacy that girls go for bad boys because they think they can fix them. At least in my case, I wouldn’t change them for the world.
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Yes… the “good man,” the man who will cushion you when you fall and shatter. And ideally, the same man who shakes up and shatters your world and keeps you hot.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 9 months ago
Ok. I think that the statute of limitations has passed and I am significantly “over it” to the point where I can finally post the once-hinted “Bicycle Experiment 3.0.”
The Bicycle Experiment 3.0
You know how sometimes someone rides up behind you so quietly that you don’t even notice until the breeze blows your hair into your face as they pass? T…[Read more]
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That made my heart cry. To have a full first taste and then no more due to schedule and emotional unavailability.
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So glad you came back to us with this story. I love your writing and your adventures. That kiss in answer to your half asked question was wonderful! If I was 20 years younger, I’d just have to find a way to join you in one of these races! I expect you have us all intrigued with this passion of yours.
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Sex & Music 10 years, 11 months ago
A reminder of all the times I raced across town in the middle of the night on my bicycle to meet or chase down a tryst. For all the names I whispered, sighed or shouted as idolatrous prayers late at night.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago
The Bicycle Experiment 2.5(?)
When I told my therapist about this and wondered why he would come out of the woodwork after an extended period of radio silence, she simply stated “Guys like him ALWAYS come back.”
I was nursing yet another case of heartache (aka The Bicycle Experiment 3.0, which I really don’t think I can write about just because…[Read more]
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I’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly “banged” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).
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I think this one needs to be double teamed for the whipping.
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I read about your Bad Lad here and he just symbolizes so much of your rides and races. The obstacles that pop up. You know you can’t win all the time. But crossing the finish line is always a possibility. And the occasional win is so incredibly seductive, you keep going for it.
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Sadly, I have yet to actually win a race, so this metaphor is accurate in a sad way.
One of my teammates interjected with “it’s not a game” when I talked about sabotaging my relationships by trying to look ten moves in. I should have replied with “Well, if romance/sex isn’t a game, then why do I always feel like I’m losing?”
Also, yes, double…[Read more]
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From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]
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Oh I am well aware that he’s a trap and his interest in me is most likely proportional to how much attention he is or isn’t getting from others.
Very astute observations. I told a friend of mine the story of one of my gym teachers in high school. I loathed this guy since he had the stench of failed college athlete wafting of of him in waves.…[Read more]
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Got it! And sounds like you do too. Agree completely with the last paragraph.
P.s. Nothing wrong with tenderness, sometimes it is in fact just exactly what we need. There is not one of us that is invulnerable nor should we be. 🙂
P.s.s. Keep the adventures coming!
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