@ellariasand
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months ago
The Holiday Wish List Experiment – preparation stage
To continue with my ongoing bicycle experiment, lately I’ve been dreaming of procuring a wartenberg pinwheel (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wartenberg_wheel) and under-the-bed restraints with which I can engage a bit of good, old-fashioned tie and tease with the dread delight of my…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 4 months ago
As selfish as I am, I am loath to share him… 😛
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months ago
Sorry I’ve been gone awhile, but here it is:
The Bicycle Experiment Part 2
“Meet me in — Park at three. Wear a skirt.”
It was a brief text message, as was his nature, but it was definitely enough to get my mind reeling. This was the same young man who made me nearly fall off my bicycle at a stop light with a few words and a brief but bit…[Read more]
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A man whose cock does not have a refractory period is meant for at least two women simultaneously, one wearing “ride a cyclist” tshirt, the other wearing the “ride a cowboy” tshirt. No wonder you have been away!
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As selfish as I am, I am loath to share him… 😛
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I understand. Sighs……..
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Somehow I’d missed this! Loved the update on your intriguing relationship, which does seem to have taken on some of the weight of a true romance. And your writing is superb – vivid – so I look forward to reading how the sex (and romance) develops.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 12 years, 5 months ago
The Bicycle Experiment
It all started innocently enough, with a post-race hug. Yet there was something, perhaps the body heat and warmth of late summer or the peculiar cocktail of hormones and pheromones in the air that flipped a switch somewhere inside me. He went from “the attractive, but crazy guy I ride with sometimes” to newly-acquired tar…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 6 months ago
Brief update: I finally caught up with him… perhaps not actually during a bicycle race, but just as well.
Just a brief taste of what we’ve been up to: On a rainy ride back to my place, we were at a stop light waiting for the left turn signal. He asks me to move a bit closer and kisses me, fiercely, bitingly, then growls “I can’t wait to eat you…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 7 months ago
Oh, don’t encourage me…
Or please do…
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I would encourage some anecdotal testing on the impact of cycling on genital sensation with the pearls, made slippery, and gliding between your genitals at vary pace and with different pressure.
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Absolutely. Think we should be impeccably scientific about this.
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Brief update: I finally caught up with him… perhaps not actually during a bicycle race, but just as well.
Just a brief taste of what we’ve been up to: On a rainy ride back to my place, we were at a stop light waiting for the left turn signal. He asks me to move a bit closer and kisses me, fiercely, bitingly, then growls “I can’t wait to eat you…[Read more]
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Yes!
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And THEN what??!!??
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 7 months ago
Point taken. After awhile of skimming abstracts, they tend to blur together to the point where I’m not sure I’m even reading and properly procesing information anymore.
I suppose that would be one excuse for me to let a handsome, virile cyclist get in my personal space: ask him to assist in measuring my inseam and sit bone distance for my saddle…[Read more]
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I say grab your helmet, riding gloves AND bring the pearls to catch him. I can give you a few ideas on using the pearls to entice and pleasure him.
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Oh, don’t encourage me…
Or please do…
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I would encourage some anecdotal testing on the impact of cycling on genital sensation with the pearls, made slippery, and gliding between your genitals at vary pace and with different pressure.
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Absolutely. Think we should be impeccably scientific about this.
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Brief update: I finally caught up with him… perhaps not actually during a bicycle race, but just as well.
Just a brief taste of what we’ve been up to: On a rainy ride back to my place, we were at a stop light waiting for the left turn signal. He asks me to move a bit closer and kisses me, fiercely, bitingly, then growls “I can’t wait to eat you…[Read more]
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Yes!
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And THEN what??!!??
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 7 months ago
Lately, I’ve fallen in with a group of bicycle adventurists in town, hence my significant late-night absence. Go figure, I end up sneaking in quietly and immediately needing a shower for non-sexual reasons.
I entered my first race this weekend and saw one of my social group in a different light. Granted, I always found him attractive and when he…[Read more]
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Great. Love the specificity of this.
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As a daily cyclist, I would like to comment that the study discusses the decrease of genital sensation due to increased, constant pressure. I can attest that it is not a good idea to expose genital tissues to that kind of constant pressure on a regular basis. Riding does NOT reduce sexual DESIRE. Exercise increases testosterone levels along…[Read more]
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Point taken. After awhile of skimming abstracts, they tend to blur together to the point where I’m not sure I’m even reading and properly procesing information anymore.
I suppose that would be one excuse for me to let a handsome, virile cyclist get in my personal space: ask him to assist in measuring my inseam and sit bone distance for my saddle…[Read more]
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I say grab your helmet, riding gloves AND bring the pearls to catch him. I can give you a few ideas on using the pearls to entice and pleasure him.
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Oh, don’t encourage me…
Or please do…
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I would encourage some anecdotal testing on the impact of cycling on genital sensation with the pearls, made slippery, and gliding between your genitals at vary pace and with different pressure.
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Absolutely. Think we should be impeccably scientific about this.
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Brief update: I finally caught up with him… perhaps not actually during a bicycle race, but just as well.
Just a brief taste of what we’ve been up to: On a rainy ride back to my place, we were at a stop light waiting for the left turn signal. He asks me to move a bit closer and kisses me, fiercely, bitingly, then growls “I can’t wait to eat you…[Read more]
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Yes!
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And THEN what??!!??
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nd ellariasand are now friends 12 years, 9 months ago
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 10 months ago
I\’m definitely a proponent of the Safe, Sane and Consensual side of things. 😀
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 10 months ago
I usually go more for the reedy intellectual types, so I don’t know if it’s my biological clock ticking, but lately I find myself attracted to more physically-imposing men: the sort that look like they could lift me single-handed over their shoulder and walk off to have their way with me. I also tend to be attracted to villains in films. Per…[Read more]
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This is interesting (and very sexy). Of course you shouldn’t be ashamed of a fantasy like this, but it is interesting that we can be ashamed with a fantasy when it doesn’t coincide with “our image of ourselves”. I’m guessing that the fantasy tends to be closer to the truth in these situations. Or at least the truth of the moment – it’s always…[Read more]
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I’ve always been off-put by rape fantasies, perhaps because I know so many people who have been victims of sexual assault. I like yours much better– the idea of a man who throws me down and overpowers me, but only because I want him to and I am enjoying it as well as he is.
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I’m definitely a proponent of the Safe, Sane and Consensual side of things. 😀
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ellariasand commented on the post, Sex Machine: Liza’s response to her Amusement Park Ride Experiment 12 years, 10 months ago
Well, this is certainly a way to help me get over my fear of heights… although I imagine that might even heighten the orgasm: lust tempered with dread. How delightful!
I imagine the street musicians […]
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ellariasand commented on the post, The Full Body Massage Experiment 12 years, 10 months ago
Oh my. On occasions I get the peculiar craving to ride on a carousel on a hot summer day, the vertigo of spinning in a circle, the breeze through my hair, the innocent idle wonderings of what it would have been […]
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nd ellariasand are now friends 12 years, 11 months ago
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Pickup Lines 12 years, 11 months ago
The most recent line that worked for me was used at what I refer to as a “nerdy social event,” although the nerdy social event was over and the venue resumed being what appeared to be an overblown dance club.
A pickup line that didn’t work was when someone hamhandedly walked up to me and asked “Are you on television?” which reminded me of a…[Read more]
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Pickup Lines 12 years, 11 months ago
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 13 years ago
I have noticed a rise of amorous couples, walking the streets hand in hand, gazes scarcely breaking from each other. I like to imagine they all fuck like rabbits as soon as they get into the door once they get home.
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 13 years ago
Your fantasy oddly reminds me of a Pulp song (or most of them, really). I had this weird simultaneous feeling of dread as well as fantasy about one of my exes coming out of the woodwork after I’ve settled down with a stable, if sexually dull man. The old flame and I make small talk over coffee, but somehow end up back at his hotel and begin a…[Read more]
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You need to get a medical grade Wartenberg in stainless steel or chrome; they are not that expensive (under $20). Please properly disinfect by soaking in antibacterial soap with a little bleach, rinse, and running boiling water for final rinse. Store in clean ziplock bag.
For restraints, how about trying oblong scarfs? And since he is a bit of…[Read more]
Since that is one of my favorite toys, now my holiday wish list includes a paragraph or so from Mallory describing how she enjoys it.
Which is one of your favorite toys? Warterberg wheel or handcuffs/scarfs?
Waterberg Wheel… nothing against handcuffs/scarves 🙂 I hope your asking for clarification for the reason I think you are!
Thanks for the cleaning/sterilization tips! I ordered one from a medical supply store. I’ll definitely keep scarves in combination with handcuffs in mind. All of the under-the-bed restraint systems seem to just be nylon with velcro… and I guarantee he’d pretty much be out of that in a heartbeat and I’d be completely at his mercy.
… not that…[Read more]
You might also consider giving him a shave with a straight edge blade (see my post below).
I’ll throw my vote to rope as well, ultimately I believe it’s going to give you the broadest range of options (including burns or no burns 🙂 and inescapable) because of the different types of rope and because there are so many ways to keep expanding your repertoire.
And thanks for adding fuel to the fire, I have to think getting you to…[Read more]
I personally have zero interest in pain. To me the Wartenberg Wheel (along with an infinite list) represents sensuality in a couple of important dimensions: sense and fear of the unknown. Erotic fear of uncharted territories is a huge aphrodisiac. Imagine the pins of the wheel on the lower, outer quadrant of a breast, it gets close but never…[Read more]
Creative uses for the “wheel” to be sure. Thank you for suggesting them. Although I do admit to seeing the reaction to both the slow light prickling (for those with “zero interest in pain” as well as the deliberately firm sharp “tracks” it can make across all sorts of especially sensitive areas – all while still not really being more than a very…[Read more]
I had a feeling this would turn out well 🙂