@ellariasand
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ellariasand likes ‘s activity 11 years, 2 months ago
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 2 months ago
Few things shorter of me being the woman to do it myself would give me greater pleasure than to find out that she keeps him locked in a chastity device. However, one of those cages would be difficult to conceal beneath bib shorts or a skinsuit, chamois or no. Bonus humiliation at any rate.
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There is a story in the making with that little fantasy Ellaria!
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ellariasand posted an update 11 years, 2 months ago
Update regarding the dirty lad on two wheels… To my joy, there was a good deal of flirtation and innuendo and the revelation that he was curious about kink and serving/being punished by me. Unfortunately, well… here’s the short version:
him: so uh, there is nothing i want more than to be totally controlled by you
me: Really? Is there a…[Read more]-
Thanks for the update! Maybe he can go into commitment training with this other gal. Maybe there will be a different ending, later.
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Few things shorter of me being the woman to do it myself would give me greater pleasure than to find out that she keeps him locked in a chastity device. However, one of those cages would be difficult to conceal beneath bib shorts or a skinsuit, chamois or no. Bonus humiliation at any rate.
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There is a story in the making with that little fantasy Ellaria!
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Oh and I’m not sure I lump this one in with totally unlucky… Sounds like there was lots of fun had along the way… No?
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Very true, Lake. The tension and flirtation were delicious to the point it was well worth the anxiety he caused and inevitable rejection.
I do have a saying about how the best sex is the sex you’re NOT having. In a way, I won in the sense that he may always wonder what I taste like, how hard I would hit him with my crop, etc. Likewise, I’ll…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 4 months ago
I obtained some intel from one of our mutual male friends this weekend that apparently there are ladies in the bike scene who hate him who have actually NEVER slept with him.
First two words: “Stay away.”
Paraphrased: “It would be one thing if he was a straight-up womanizer. It’s just that for guys like [name redacted], they know only how to do…[Read more]
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You like the ride a lot, but I think you love the chase.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years, 4 months agoThe Bicycle Experiment 2.0: Escalation
As the result of the most recent race where I encountered my favorite dirty lad on two wheels followed by a series of saucy messages sent back and forth, I’ve had this scenario running through my mind.
Context: I was pre-riding the course so I’d have some idea of what I was getting into (as this was one of…[Read more]
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Mmmm makes me want to get chased in the woods!!
Question, so I assume his reputation as a heartbreaker is because he has sex without converting these encounters into long term relationships, but do you know whether he actually misrepresented his intentions to the women who are mad at him for this? Being manipulative is very different than being a flirt.
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I obtained some intel from one of our mutual male friends this weekend that apparently there are ladies in the bike scene who hate him who have actually NEVER slept with him.
First two words: “Stay away.”
Paraphrased: “It would be one thing if he was a straight-up womanizer. It’s just that for guys like [name redacted], they know only how to do…[Read more]
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You like the ride a lot, but I think you love the chase.
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 4 months ago
I’d be honored. Would I need to abridge or edit anything?
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These are fabulous. He is dreamy, and so are YOU! It’ll be a lucky man, he who does hook into your high-spirit, delicious curves, and romantic mind.
I have no doubt I would love this sport. I did a fair bit of trail riding, when I was in my early thirties, if I had found this then, I’m sure I would have become completely…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 4 months ago
As much as I pride myself on my anonymity and keeping my various personas isolated from each other, I couldn’t resist:
http://spokenshutter.zenfolio.com/p177816863/h78155682#h78155682
http://www.russcam.com/cycling/131013_mrccx/content/RCP-131013-0253_large.htmlThe lad in…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 4 months ago
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Love this shot!
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 4 months ago
One of my favorite repositories of cx hotness: http://cyclocrosshotties.tumblr.com/
It’s my goal to get one of my pictures featured here… if I can’t upgrade categories, I might as well look good. I’m surprised I haven’t seen anyone I know here yet (especially him).
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and oh so romantic too: http://cyclocrosshotties.tumblr.com/post/63461445817/a-kiss-for-good-luck-jeremy-and-gabby-durrin-at
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Love this shot!
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This sport looks awesome! I am struggling telling myself I can’t possibly find the time to start something like this, but oooo do I have an urge to. I’m so jealous. Do share one of your pictures here!
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years, 4 months agoThe Bicycle Experiment 2.0
So, almost exactly a year since the original bicycle experiment, I’ve found a new object of lust (the subject of the conversation experiment did not return my feelings, as it were). My odds of ensnaring him are rather low, but he is rather flirtatious online.
I’m getting ahead of myself.
As a result of a few dri…[Read more]
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I envy the boldness with which you seek and satisfy your desires.
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This is really hot!!! Thank you for rejoining the conversation…I am sure this will push many of us further along in our own!!!
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This is what I would call a win, win, win! Sexy intriguing guy, motivation for getting great exercise, and fodder for multiple inspired fantasies!
Great ride, great story telling … I’m definitely caught up and wanting to know where this goes! Not to mention, now it have to google cyclocross 🙂
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One of my favorite repositories of cx hotness: http://cyclocrosshotties.tumblr.com/
It’s my goal to get one of my pictures featured here… if I can’t upgrade categories, I might as well look good. I’m surprised I haven’t seen anyone I know here yet (especially him).
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and oh so romantic too: http://cyclocrosshotties.tumblr.com/post/63461445817/a-kiss-for-good-luck-jeremy-and-gabby-durrin-at
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Love this shot!
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This sport looks awesome! I am struggling telling myself I can’t possibly find the time to start something like this, but oooo do I have an urge to. I’m so jealous. Do share one of your pictures here!
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Had been saving this, and now that I’ve gotten to it, I really love it. There’s something about the combination of all those technical bike details with the fucking that’s really exciting somehow. Thanks for posting, and would love to post up on the blog if you’re game.
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I’d be honored. Would I need to abridge or edit anything?
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I think it’s a good length, but if you could look it over and see if there are any little edits or typos, then message it to me, that will be great. And then I’ll give it the once-over too.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Sex & Music 11 years, 8 months agoI suppose this also qualifies under the “your fantasies” category since I had made a pass at the young man with the guitar, but he did not seem interested or was possibly attached.
Anyway, I thought I had long outgrown the phase in which I was a sucker for a sensitive young man with an acoustic guitar. I suppose there are just some things you’re…[Read more]
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 12 years, 2 months agoThe Conversation Fantasy
It appears that the mourning period for my former partner-in-crime from The Bicycle Experiment has passed… although I have the conundrum of being attracted to one of his friends from the cycling scene. What can I say about this particular young man? If a comprehensive visual dictionary existed, his picture would be…[Read more]
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Our lives today are very much high speed and remote. I am old fashioned and believe that your thoughts on conversations are quite accurate. It is a little harder to hide in conversations. Conversations do take time. And time, enough of it, will be the true test of sustenance and consistency. Investment in time is necessary to learn about him…[Read more]
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I also really relate to your points around the deterioration of the real art behind conversation… Funny you should mention Jane Austen in the same story, whose dialogue is so concise and loaded with meaning and innuendo and tradition… And so different from the way we approach ‘trendy’ dialogue today. I am not just old fashioned, I’m actually…[Read more]
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Your sensitivity is seductive as always, E. Here’s to other bicycle paths and the laps of men who know how to talk.
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Well there clearly is consensus in these parts around the notion of how technology can act as a barrier to real intimacy. Connecting directly with others is as fundamental to our well being and happiness as anything else we could do (I actually think it is more important than anything else). The real problem lies in the fact that modern…[Read more]
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Incredibly well said, James. Special butterfly kisses for you, anywhere you want them.
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ellariasand changed their profile picture 12 years, 2 months ago
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Love the red!
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Love the slope of the waist from both directions!
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 3 months ago
Thanks, Mallory and Mr. X. If anything, I’ve learned how to be more impulsive and forthcoming in taking what I want. Also, I’d rather have it out now than wait it out three months to find out that he hadn’t invested as much emotionally in our arrangement as I had.
I guess I shouldn’t mistake tenderness in private for actual intimacy,…[Read more]
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I completely agree with you.
Get out there. Take what you want. And always expect more.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Sex & Music 12 years, 3 months agoSo, it looks like my Bicycle Experiment has reached its conclusion. The short version is I developed feelings (mostly of the mad, green-eyed possessive sort), he… didn’t.
Fortunately, I have the knowledge that I could walk into any bar in town and probably find a suitable replacement and the music of Tom Waits.
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Big hug!
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Big kiss. You’re out there living it, and that’s everything. Probably still hurts now, bit I saw a quote today: “Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.”
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Thanks, Mallory and Mr. X. If anything, I’ve learned how to be more impulsive and forthcoming in taking what I want. Also, I’d rather have it out now than wait it out three months to find out that he hadn’t invested as much emotionally in our arrangement as I had.
I guess I shouldn’t mistake tenderness in private for actual intimacy, considering…[Read more]
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I completely agree with you.
Get out there. Take what you want. And always expect more.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Sex & Music 12 years, 3 months agoLove/lust as the ultimate form of idolatry. Also, bonus points to whoever posted this for combining the song with BBC Sherlock (Irene Adler is a woman after my own heart.)
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This is terrific. Perhaps to go on the Holiday Wish List is having it all: love, lust, and attachment.
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 12 years, 4 months ago
Thanks for the cleaning/sterilization tips! I ordered one from a medical supply store. I’ll definitely keep scarves in combination with handcuffs in mind. All of the under-the-bed restraint systems seem to just be nylon with velcro… and I guarantee he’d pretty much be out of that in a heartbeat and I’d be completely at his mercy.
… not…[Read more]
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