@ellariasand
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ellariasand likes ‘s activity 10 years, 11 months ago
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Sex & Music 10 years, 11 months agoA reminder of all the times I raced across town in the middle of the night on my bicycle to meet or chase down a tryst. For all the names I whispered, sighed or shouted as idolatrous prayers late at night.
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What an interesting voice on her.
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 10 years, 11 months ago
I\’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly \”banged\” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can\’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).
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I think this one needs to be double teamed for the whipping.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 11 months agoThe Bicycle Experiment 2.5(?)
When I told my therapist about this and wondered why he would come out of the woodwork after an extended period of radio silence, she simply stated “Guys like him ALWAYS come back.”
I was nursing yet another case of heartache (aka The Bicycle Experiment 3.0, which I really don’t think I can write about just because…[Read more]
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I’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly “banged” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).
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I think this one needs to be double teamed for the whipping.
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I read about your Bad Lad here and he just symbolizes so much of your rides and races. The obstacles that pop up. You know you can’t win all the time. But crossing the finish line is always a possibility. And the occasional win is so incredibly seductive, you keep going for it.
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Sadly, I have yet to actually win a race, so this metaphor is accurate in a sad way.
One of my teammates interjected with “it’s not a game” when I talked about sabotaging my relationships by trying to look ten moves in. I should have replied with “Well, if romance/sex isn’t a game, then why do I always feel like I’m losing?”
Also, yes, double…[Read more]
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From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]
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Oh I am well aware that he’s a trap and his interest in me is most likely proportional to how much attention he is or isn’t getting from others.
Very astute observations. I told a friend of mine the story of one of my gym teachers in high school. I loathed this guy since he had the stench of failed college athlete wafting of of him in waves.…[Read more]
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Got it! And sounds like you do too. Agree completely with the last paragraph.
P.s. Nothing wrong with tenderness, sometimes it is in fact just exactly what we need. There is not one of us that is invulnerable nor should we be. 🙂
P.s.s. Keep the adventures coming!
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 10 years, 11 months ago
This is difficult, most of my answers would be “depends on the situation” except that’s clearly not an option so I’ll have to pick one.
Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 10 years, 11 months ago
Legs. What can I say? After the bicycle experiment(s), I\’m definitely a leg girl. Whether it\’s over denim, nylon or nothing at all, a brush of fingertips at the thigh or calves just does it for me.
I\’m a particular fan of thigh-high pantyhose… and having assistance in removing it. The only stipulation is that he may not use his hands.
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ellariasand likes lake‘s activity 11 years ago
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 1 month ago
Either said followers do not exist or I\’m far too wrapped up in my own unrequited feelings to notice.
I prefer the hunt to being the hunted, as I was raised to believe that nothing worth having ever comes easily.
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Including you!
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 1 month ago
Rumi always says it much better than I ever could. 😀
I\’ve admitted to this person that I would be glad to assist him with his involuntary celibacy problem, but I suppose it speaks to his character that he turned me down due to our history (and the fact that we\’re too far apart for it to go anywhere).
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You are a Diva Ms EllariaSand… I have a hard time imagining there are not true fans gathered near you. Do you turn your gaze on these poor devoted souls? Let them a turn to court you as well? Is it always the huntress in you that chooses?
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Either said followers do not exist or I’m far too wrapped up in my own unrequited feelings to notice.
I prefer the hunt to being the hunted, as I was raised to believe that nothing worth having ever comes easily.
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Including you!
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ellariasand likes ‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
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ellariasand likes ‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years, 1 month agoI just want it to be spring again…
The Bicycle Experiment (coda): Cabin Fever
I generally hate this time of year. As a daughter of Spring (April birthday), I’m at my weakest. My city has been covered in snow for the better part of the past couple of months, so I’m not getting as many miles in. Cyclocross season has been over for a month or so…[Read more]
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Very sexy, rider. And here’s the magic in which I’ve always believed: if you can imagine the fantasy precisely enough, mind and body, then you’ll make it real.
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El, I don’t think there’s anything you can set your energy and imagination on and not turn it into one helluva an adventure… Keep on riding! And bring on the spring!
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Loved that, as a fellow cyclists I loved the details, damn those bib straps;)
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ellariasand likes ‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 1 month ago
Sorry I’m late (as usual), but how could I resist the challenge of expressing myself within limits (particularly when I’m prone to being verbose)? Context: long-distance writer friend I’ve had warm feelings for over the better part of a decade, but for whatever reason (long distance or either/both of us being in relationships with other people)…[Read more]
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How I love when all you can do is dance and your mind go crazy imagining what it would be like for more.
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Loved it Ellasaria! Reminded me of one of my long time favorites:
“In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.”
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Rumi always says it much better than I ever could. 😀
I’ve admitted to this person that I would be glad to assist him with his involuntary celibacy problem, but I suppose it speaks to his character that he turned me down due to our history (and the fact that we’re too far apart for it to go anywhere).
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You are a Diva Ms EllariaSand… I have a hard time imagining there are not true fans gathered near you. Do you turn your gaze on these poor devoted souls? Let them a turn to court you as well? Is it always the huntress in you that chooses?
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Either said followers do not exist or I’m far too wrapped up in my own unrequited feelings to notice.
I prefer the hunt to being the hunted, as I was raised to believe that nothing worth having ever comes easily.
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Including you!
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Achilles’ Desire
Relationship’s push and pull, rage and jealousy tangled up with tenderness and desire.
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ellariasand posted a new activity comment 11 years, 2 months ago
Very true, Lake. The tension and flirtation were delicious to the point it was well worth the anxiety he caused and inevitable rejection.
I do have a saying about how the best sex is the sex you’re NOT having. In a way, I won in the sense that he may always wonder what I taste like, how hard I would hit him with my crop, etc. Likewise, I’ll…[Read more]
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