The Sex Experiment

This is a fascinating development, and I’ve really enjoyed following your adventures over the past months. I’m afraid this one’s out of my circle of knowledge, but I really hope some other readers will comment with their opinions/advice. Good luck!

Mmmm…thoughtful, measured, BDSM…sounds like a tremendous idea. Lots of fun can be had with this new aspect, and it sounds like a very promising twist on your already very liberating relationship! There is nothing more rewarding for me than connecting with someone else on a level that allows such wants and desires not only to be expressed…[Read more]

In case I wasn’t perfectly clear in my original post, I am no sadist. I am a lover not a fighter and I don’t totally get the pain thing – maybe I have just never really had the desire or willingness to go there or a partner able to expertly wield the whip – but I do know for certain that everyones reactions to pain are different. Not knowing you…[Read more]

I love this. I think that there’s something to be said about fantasizing about a real, specific person and a situation that may potentially come to fruition. Plus, I just think that your particular fantasy is incredibly sexy and it’d be interesting to see how she’d actually respond were you to proposition her like this.

What a sexy fantasy, James (and quite daring and honest, actually), and what a wonderful description of that woman. If she ever got ahold of that text, I think the words would do the work for you. Me, I always want to be consumed by a massage, to give over control and just let it all happen, but your fantasy turns the tables completely until the…[Read more]

I haven’t read this, nor do I think I will, but I’m curious to see people’s reactions to the “phenomenon” and have created a new group – Erotic Books – and a new forum – Fifty Shades of Grey – here: http://www.thesexexperiment.com/groups/erotic-books/forum/topic/fifty-shades-of-grey/

Hated it? Loved it? You can post everything in the forum, send…[Read more]

How about a photoshoot; but not just any type of photoshoot – a sexy photoshoot (rather obvious, considering where we are). Let me set the scene for you:

You both plan it ahead of time. You (or you and him) pick out a few outfits that are a little more sexy than you usually wear, but still decent for public viewing. Maybe some more skin, maybe…[Read more]

In a past relationship, on a dare we went to not-on-premises swingers club. We did not connect with others there or want to. We wanted the sexual tension in the room and to be in our own bubble. If you want to be left alone, you will be as swingers are very polite. In my present relationship, my very straight lady and I have gone to the clubs and…[Read more]

Well done. And who knows, “Are you from Vancouver” could become the new “Do you come here often”.

I think I just got a new “Experient”.

Wow, very hot. This group is becoming like a sexy job fair: first limo driver, now physical therapist.

This reminds me of my wife’s dare, although you obviously went further: http://www.thesexexperiment.com/2011/04/18/the-massage-experiment/

And yes, of course, I’m absolutely in!

One of my favorite porn series is the “Fucked Hard 18” series which is pretty much what you described. Something about that just really turns me on–perhaps the idea of getting relief and release in more way than one 😉

What a truly fantastic story! I hope others will read it and enjoy as much as I did. I’m fascinated by so much about this – the women, obviously, but also the “no sex on premises” rule and the niche thus filled by the limo driver (what a job, and what stories he must have had!). Anyway, yes, a once-in-a-lifetime night. Love it! Thanks.

Wow, that certainly would be a night to remember. As cliche as it might be, I firmly believe that many a couple lose the ability to keep their hands off one another when they are in the backseat instead of behind the wheel themselves despite their “audience” and the stories that cab drivers/limo drivers could tell are probably *very* interesting.