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  • vikkki posted an update 11 years ago

    why girls like BED BOYS
    It’s long been believed that nice guys finish last — especially when it comes to the opposite sex. The typical “bad boy” is a popular choice among even the most intelligent of females, but the reason for a woman’s attraction to a guy who is so obviously good for nothing but casual sex is often unfathomable, even to the woman herself.

    • Nice guys so not finish last. The “bad boy” is a dalliance; Luis Bunuel said “sex without sin is like an egg without salt.”

      • yeah, i love sex with sin

      • yeah, i love sex with sin

      • I wasn’t going to say ANYTHING on this topic…but after responding to @vikkki’s “How to get Noticed” post, I realized there was a parallel with this post as well…

        By the way.

        Why do you suppose “50 Shades of Grey”y is so popular? I can tell you it ain’t the writing or the story…

        It is because it features a slightly “damaged” but arguably genuinely good guy, who happens to do things “differently”, but with purpose and conviction, enough so that he is impossible to not notice (which is a bit why it is a cheap trick on the part of the author to make him so good looking and filthy stinking rich!).

        Lo and behold, it turns out he is really is a “bad boy”, but in the nicest most honest and sincere way imaginable…the type of “bad boy” who isn’t reckless or won’t put their partners in danger, or isn’t likely to run off with the next piece of hot ass that throws themselves at him.

        Yup…another pretty cheap literary “twist”, but one that does seem to prove that assuming one could actually remove all “risk” from the bad boys, almost EVERY woman in America would choose them!!!

        I like to approach it from the opposite direction…

        There are a few “nice guys” who know way more about how to maximize sexual arousal and pleasure (without resorting to all the cheap tricks or reckless risks!) than most “bad boys”.

        Darwin theories are correct, in order to find the really evolved species, you have to recognize how its learn to see all of the ways that its camouflage really is better suited for its long term survival!

        Sex WITH sin, indeed!!!

        -James

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          If you could remove ALL risk, well then there are definitely all kinds I would be choosing!