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  • Doris posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 10 years, 11 months ago

    Sitting indoor, in front of the window. Autumnal nostalgia.

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 10 years, 11 months ago

    Since there had been a number of “threesome” conversations (or was it conversations about threesomes…) I thought I would share a photo (which sadly is not my own)…which might inspire more conversations (or at least thoughts about threesomes!). Enjoy

    -James

    • Flesh, flesh, and more lovely flesh.

    • Hmmm…it is a hot picture, but you are so right it is the story behind it that really conjures the fantasy material, isn’t it?!?
      When I posted it I was imagining that the woman standing there was the wife/girlfriend/partner of the man and that the woman on the bed was the ”third”…
      But your comments made me want to consider all of the possibili…[Read more]

      • Mistress dressed, brought home this man, unknown to her pet, who is now being fucked by him.

        • Ohhh! I like this!!

          Its giving me a few ideas. Dominants can always learn from one another…and the submissive is usually no worse for wear either!

      • They are shooting a porn movie, the woman dressed is in the next scene. This is one of her first movies.

        • Maybe she is in her 40’s…just got out of a long term relationship and is looking to really live out all of her longest held fantasies

    • Wife dressed, has made a bet with her husband who thinks she is frigid. He has to make this girl cum to win the bet.

    • They are sex toy inventors and they are experimenting with a new product.

      • I haven’t been watching “Masters of Sex” on Showtime but I could definitely be a product tester for sex toys…any volunteers?!?

        • Hmmm… Which toy line are we talking Sir?

          I crack myself up… as if anyone believes I’d be picky when it comes to you James…

    • Oh my, YES THAT ONE!! Va va va vroooom

      • What I am loving most about your contributions @Barrister is that you can transition from lovely expressions of how you feel about the Mrs…to stories about how have found such wonderful ways to relate on such a passionate level…to how you are pushing and experimenting with those boundaries…al the way to this which is clearly in the “fantasy”…[Read more]

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 10 years, 11 months ago

    Not as revealing…not as conceptual…and not as high a quality as I am accustomed to sharing, but this has a quality far and away better than almost all the others…IT IS REAL!!!

    Thats, right…a real shot…a real woman…a real car…a real street in New York City (an avenue actually)…and taken by ME!

    So what is this? Well…it is obviously a woman…[Read more]

    • You are out of control, James. I hope she is ready for you tomorrow.

      • Sometimes I wonder myself if I am out of control…and then see things like this happening around me and I realize…no… there really aren’t many consequences when it comes to safe, sane, and consensual play when done thoughtfully!

        What’s the saying…”If you can’t beat them join them”?

        I am definitely in the “join them” camp, because their…[Read more]

    • Maybe she dropped something and he was ‘helping’ her find it! Lol

    • Also very interesting is a drive with trucks on the road! But you’re right, it is more interesting to entice the man in the stiff business suit to whip out his, uh, phone.

    • Wow, there’s always a story behind the photo, and this story is so very exciting. I undressed myself once on the Autobahn, while hubby was driving. Even took some pics but they were shabby. Dunno when I’ll have the courage to do this in town (not mine for sure). Thanks for the great story! 🙂

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    This is an experiment, and it has to do with involving a third party in your sexual adventures. Mr. Barrister has been clearly expressed lately about what it would mean to him to see his wife become more expressed and open about her own sexuality and how willing and desirous he is of seeing her be more sexual with others. Mr X hasn’t been too…[Read more]

    • I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.

      • Fair enough…and it WAS quite revealing…but Adding Lexi was an experience wasn’t it? I wasn’t looking you had wasn’t it?

        I wasn’t looking for too much color, just some insight into the conversation…who brought it up…how the other reacted…whether the one who was told some interest also revealed their own interests and desires in…[Read more]

        • Adding another woman was discussed many, many years ago simply as a shared bucket list item. Over the years, we have known that this item would be something seriously considered if opportunity presents itself.
          Recently, there was an opportunity and Adding Lexi describes basically how we thought we would like it to happen. What was not discussed…[Read more]

    • This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]

    • Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]

      • That is an extraordinarily account of private negotiations within an atypical marriage. Thank you for sharing it.

        • P.S. I think adding Lexi is emotionally, just about one of the hardest possible set ups for a threesome… bit of emotional masochism for the person in the role you gave yourself.

          I know you are competitive and demanding of yourself. I am very curious if you did that on purpose?

          • Yes, the role I gave myself is precisely how I want it. It is not because I am masochistic. I want “Lexi” to be someone with whom he has a real relationship, someone he cares about [to some degree], with whom he can even do things he cannot with me. The “threat” of real competition makes it much hotter for me. Dalliances are not that…[Read more]

    • “The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas

      • Just read more of his quotes, he has many good ones. Here is another for this conversation.

        “True love always makes a man better, no matter what woman inspires it.”
        ― Alexandre Dumas

  • ellariasand posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 10 years, 11 months ago

    The Bicycle Experiment 2.0

    So, almost exactly a year since the original bicycle experiment, I’ve found a new object of lust (the subject of the conversation experiment did not return my feelings, as it were). My odds of ensnaring him are rather low, but he is rather flirtatious online.

    I’m getting ahead of myself.

    As a result of a few dri…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    Cult of Personality

    I was horny this (Thursday) morning. Master has been a particularly entrancing devil and what he’s done to me I can not even begin to describe. It makes me bolder when I am like this. Always, awed by the power of our innate sexuality… our deepest forms of being. I take risks, I grab what I want, set backs and…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    Same question for the men:

    1. What melts you ?
    2. What arouses you?
    3. What wins your devotion?

    • Come on guys… I want you to spill it! I’ll even put some skin in the game, if three people answer, I’ll post a new pic.

    • I meant three guys have to answer this question… However, since I find the two of you completely irresistible and I love Duke’s answers, AND I am horny now… I will go and post. Note, this game is not over, if we still get to three, I will… shall we say… up the ante on what I post… Either better focus or less clothes… we shall see how…[Read more]

    • 1) Melts me…witnessing the shudder of a woman as a wave of pleasure momentarily overwhelms her and she relaxes into it…accepts it…embraces it and allows it to course through her body and take her deeper into her head…more into the moment and less concerned with whatever else is going on around her

      2) Arouses me…glimpses of unfiltered…[Read more]

      • One and two are so very you James, three surprised me, not that it doesn’t fit, but that it was your response to that particular question. At first it seemed too passive, but then I realized it is all about acceptance and being or authenticity, and that fit well with your comments about separating or not associating love directly with someone’s…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    For the women :

    1. What melts you ?
    2. What arouses you?
    3. What wins your devotion?

    • I will answer the easiest first. Aroused most by anticipation, variety, sensuality, intelligence, generousity, attention to detail.

      • I’m gonna go out on a limb here Mallory and say… I think you would find me very arousing… Now if only I could get you to let me test this theory!

    • Devotion–
      Relentless desire to maintain discovery process.

    • What melts me?

      I don’t know.

    • You know 😉

    • What Melts Me
      Guys are wonderful at saying they are going to savor every inch of your body. I melt when I am with someone that makes me feel this… experience every inch as a wonderland and reminds me of it all the time, not just when we are making love. Hands slowly moving down the full length of my waist and over the top of my ass when we…[Read more]

      • Check…Check…and…Double Check!!!!

        Well then…it is settled…at least in these regards it seems that we might be a perfect match!

        Considering that I am one who is always ready willing and able to celebrate good fortune (others as much as my own!), it seems that all we have left to do now is consummate our incredible luck in having found…[Read more]

        • Well then if it’s settled 🙂 … And of course you are going to need someone to take pictures for you to satisfy Mallory… It almost seems like fighting destiny to resist at this point, and I definitely wouldn’t want to do that.

    • What Melts Me?

      I thought about this one a lot. I really did not have a ready answer, lake. I think what could really get to me is the rare occasion when someone sees with great clarity, a part of me that no one else bothers to understand or uncover.

      • I can’t yet claim to have a complete picture of you just yet Mrs. Mallory (you are a complex one – but you already knew that didn’t you!), but I do believe I have already formed a a pretty exceptional insight in you and SEE many parts of your true (and often hidden) self much more clearly than you are probably ready to admit! I guess I say this…[Read more]

    • To instill trust, to be trustworthy, to protect and nurture and respect those thoughts, feelings, and wants of another person that make them feel most revealed, most vulnerable… What more powerful way is there to build a heartstopping, unforgettable bond and to cultivate a dynamic infused with reverie?

    • Thank you barrister, your participation is absolutely counted, enjoyed, and anticipated. I shall attempt my upload again… See if it works.. Then I have to run to dinner!

    • I love this, I am sure you have made everyone quite jealous of Mrs Barrister!

    • Oh, there is much Mrs Barrister has to be thankful for, but my jealousy tends more towards Mr. Barrister! One would think that having someone so unselfishly devoted to them in the ways Mr. barrister has described as the ideal, but it actually works both ways…I am jealous of his having found a woman who will let him inside to such a degree…to…[Read more]

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    According to scientists, women are most attracted to the smell of cucumber mixed with the candy Good & Plenty.

    Move over, trick-or-treaters, that candy\’s mine.

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years ago

    This isn\’t an experiment so much as it is an honest question (so a \”truth,\” I guess). For those who have experienced it, what is it like to suck a man\’s cock? I am decidedly not gay but there is just something about sucking off a thick, warm cock and having a man\’s sticky, steamy juices gushing into my mouth that I find so appealing…

    • I can only give you my perspective, Andrew. “Sucking a man’s cock” for me is a more complex process than just the mere act of sucking. It is a series of sensual pleasures I want to give, a series of mind blowing intensities I want him to experience. On the receiving end, I savor the texture, the taste. I feel the pulsing, the urgency.…[Read more]

      • Mmmm…you do have a gift Mrs. M! Both for words AND for the fearless way you can express your tactile, sensory perceptions and connect with the more primal feelings and emotions which underpin them. This is beautiful!

    • Just out of curiosity Mr. Flemming…there is a slight but potentially relevant difference in the way you described what it is that you find appealing and what Mallory expressed…more of an offering…giving more than taking.

      Which do you find more arousing…the physical sensations (sight, texture, smell, taste) and mental and emotional aspects…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      @James, i think the two things your talking about are both real aspects, but not separate, maybe not even distinct. At a certain point giving and taking converge and are not distinguishable. I’d compare it to having a raging hard on while you eat pussy. Thrilling in what your sensing and all of both of your reactions. In a way, i find it…[Read more]

      • I never thought of it that way mrs. L…but now that you mention it, I suppose that would be a bit of a game changer wouldn’t it. The same would hold true for women I suppose (going with the notion that if it were physically more practical for men it might be for women as well…), I suppose that blowjobs and cunnilingus would each become more…[Read more]

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 11 years ago

    The inspiration that Mrs. Mallory provided me continues…This is a second installment of the same “Fantasy” which resulted from Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…

    I previously told a story that set the stage and made the result clear enough, but I never really explained what happened between those two points…[Read more]

    • This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.

      • I admit this is my own totally imagined version of what I often think that women are thinking…how they position and process and contextualize certain things. After I posted it, I got a little self conscious because I realized that I could be totally off, and if I was, I certainly would be showing just how clueless I really am…in fact in how…[Read more]

        • I found your account fascinating because it is rare to get this much thought detail from a man’s perspective. For example, even in roleplaying, my male partner(s) can get into numerous details about the physical events from mundane to sexual. However, it is rare to hear as much about the thoughts and emotions.

          I do not let people in easily, t…[Read more]

          • Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!

            Good color on you as well…

            Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?

            I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]

            • I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.

              I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      “unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉

      I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]

      • lake replied 11 years ago

        I will also add, I think wonderful women feel passed over or feel ‘invisible’ to men every bit as much as you’ve described. I think it has a lot more to do with being human than being a man or a woman. I also believe it has so much less to do with the fact that people haven’t noticed you, or don’t want you, or are trying to protect against you…[Read more]

        • Agreed!

          And I am “passed over” all the time!

          • For whatever reason the comments by both lake and Mallory remind me of a comment I made a while back about the wonders (and consequences) of modern technological advancements in how we are socializing. First, the wonderful ability to take a few risks and put ourselves out there so much more fearlessly (at least on a preliminary basis) are so much…[Read more]

    • James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    As a follow-up to lakes TRUTH: Unique/Quirky Turn Ons question…

    Mallory suggested nice sheets to which I suggested 100% linen being the absolute best! Well, here are my rumpled 100% linen sheets for all of you to contemplate! I posted a picture with me in them over in the Photo Orgy group!

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 11 years ago

    This “Fantasy” was a result of Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
    If you haven’t signed up to the group, you will certainly get the picture, although I much prefer to see her version rendered in the flesh (or at least pixels!)…well…for now!!!

    My first thought when I saw you posed like that was…”what if some…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Holy shit… I am speechless. I have to tell you that really messed with my head… But I suspect that will come as no surprise.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      The real fun twist with this, is all the explicit dialogue (internal or otherwise) around not wanting to loose control, when it is so clear that the truth is the opposite. It is a fabulous metaphor for the conundrum of human sexuality in our culture.

      Aren’t we all begging, yearning, craven for the opposite? To be that free primal sexual…[Read more]

    • I’m dizzy from your fantasy and flattered you got SO VERY inspired, James.

      Just how did I end up here, bent over, and ready to show you all of me? I’m going to let you have me, use me however you like because you are going to somehow, in your gentlemanly and cavemanly way, let your best friend know what the possibilities are down my erotic and…[Read more]

      • Mmmm…

        I suspected you would be dizzy…that’s probably the best sign yet!

        I cant think if a better way for us to become acquainted…can you?

        PS: My friend would NEVER find out…a treasure such as yourself would be worth protecting and you would definitely be under my protection from that moment forward!

        Not only that, I expect that with…[Read more]

        • Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”

          Umph!…

          • lake replied 11 years ago

            I loved that thought too.

            And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    My Second Love –

    I was 21, in grad school, 6% body fat, and poor as a church mouse. I lived in a rented room in an apartment with three girls. I had a mattress and a stack of books in my room. Some clothes in the closet, not much else. I worked in a lab 9 to 5 part paid, part sponsorship doing research for my thesis. I took classes from 6 to…[Read more]

    • When we were young and living with little, and by the same token, living without many obligations, we had the freedom to love like we have never been hurt. Our youth did not necessarily give us the wisdom to hold that trust dear, or the strength to withstand the crushing burden of evolving duties on love and desire.

    • I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment. It is absolutely the truth that love and desire do evolve profoundly over time and with familiarity and that the duties increase as well and often seem to become a burden (and sometimes a crushing one)!

      But that is really where I have struggled most in my own life…that is what has frustrated me the…[Read more]

      • lake replied 11 years ago

        There is so much here that I would love to respond directly to, but I will just say relative to what you wrote, I do think you are on to a profound point. One that is very counter to conventional thinking ( and we all know how successful that is).

        I think love and desire are fundamental aspects of our being and biology. I think in their native…[Read more]

  • Doris posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    Geography is nevertheless important, no?!

    • Very!

    • Doris dawn, we do so like it when you share!

      This one is so fun with your playful expression… Reminds me I’m overdue for doing some ‘stylized’ photos. Any ideas on ‘costume’ anyone – this is so not my strength.

      • How about your Birthday Costume?
        It always works wonders for me. 🙂

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          I have to agree, nothing beats birthday costume…

          Feeling like I want to get creative and surprise M with some ‘themed’ photos, need to pick a theme though!

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years, 1 month ago

    THE GAME

    So our three weeks are up. I can add up the points, but I think it is safe to say the women totally dominated this contest. I’ll even give everyone to the end of the weekend, if the guys want to try to make a run.

    Now I just have to remember, did we say ALL the men have to pay up or just the ones that participated? Actually, given…[Read more]

    • And I think hands down, lake won most of the points for the women! YAY, lake!

    • Finally, I win something, i was trounced in that last photo orgy game, i dont think i won a single week! Now we need to seriously talk about payoffs!

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years, 1 month ago

    DARE

    Find a way to masturbate today, that you\’ve never done before. Use something new, touch yourself in a different place, in a different way. Go somewhere new, think about or watch something unusual.

    And of course extra points if you write up the story and share!

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