I’ve said it before, one of the best things about being a woman is how much more we can get away with than men can… and I do my best to make good use of that fact!

Hi,

I used to be an insecure wife, years ago, same as yours and, may I say, same as many more. Hubby helped me with lots of patience and his camera at hand. For a few years I have posed nude only for his eyes. Then I told him that his compliments are biased because, you know, he’s in love with me. After much consideration, I allowed him to…[Read more]

Agree with Barrister that we need more information to give you some suggestions. Give me some idea of what her daily routine might be. What makes her feel sexy?

I do a lot of this now, thanks for the reminder because all of us guys don’t do this stuff enough. What I’m looking for is experiments that I can send her from( Mr X)

I do a lot of this now, thanks for the reminder because all of us guys don’t do this stuff enough. What I’m looking for is experiments that I can send her from( Mr X)

Based on what you have said, and agreeing that more needs to be learned to be truly helpful in you request, it seems that to start, much of what she may need revolves around things that she can do and experience on her own. Things that don’t “push” her so much as make her feel comfortable in going into the private safe secure headspace to wander…[Read more]

You said you set up an “anonymous email and stuff” already. Start there. Email her, tell her you saw her at ________ and you want her to know she is simply stunning. Sign it “John.” That is it. See what she does. I think she will reply. THEN the fun begins.

First there has to be a foundation, some context for the engagement. So the content of your emails should provide that. In my opinion information that gives her a sense of who you are, why you’ve become her admirer, what you desire, all work well… Also what excites you about the interaction.

I agree with everyone here, it’s about catering it…[Read more]

@lake…@mallory…this just gave me an INCREDIBLE idea!!!

… this just gave me an INCREDIBLE… uh, well let me just say, i got it in a place much lower than where the ideas are!

Think that I wouldn’t do this. Don’t ask me why…

These can be as short or as long as you like. Here are two that have come to mind for me.

This was more than ten years ago. The whole thing happened in less then a couple of minutes, but I still remember every moment of it in the most visceral way. I was out with a group of friends. We had all been drinking. We were walking from one bar to…[Read more]

I once asked for and received the tshirt from someone I’ve gotten to know a little bit, but have not met. When I sunk my face into it, I plunged into that chemistry. When I put on the tshirt, I soared.

Very sexy… I think you must be her office crush.

Thank god for that one, you made it super thrilling for all of us!

I was at a holiday party. It was the end of a great night, everyone is clearing out. The owner of the company hosting the party walks up to me and takes my hand. He says, ‘I’m not one to throw a lot of parties, but if I was, I’d invite you to all of them’.

I think you are definitely a member.

About 17 weeks ago or so, I had an encounter as mentioned in Lake’s post. I felt compelled to document my thoughts and feelings about the encounter but I’ve yet to express them to anyone. It was as if this was my own little secret that I happily kept to myself. I’ll spare all of the details as my thoughts just kept rambling on and on.

I spotted…[Read more]

Extra points for having just meet the person on the plane… I’ve needed the double blanket traveling with someone I’m in a relationship with, but never with someone I’ve just met… Fantasized about it many times though. You have definitely been holding out on us Luis!

Here is one that is not really sexy (sorry), but definitely was an overwhelming feeling and rush of unexpected emotion that I will not forget.

I was with my team about an hour before a large presentation, we were testing, setting up, etc. I misplaced one of my folders and had become very frustrated with my inability to find it and had given up…[Read more]

What is the saying, ‘ In the end what we regret most is all the things we didn’t do’?

Having seen your picture… this doesn’t surprise me 🙂

A while back, I had hired someone to provide expert opinion in a litigation. He was extremely well spoken, articulated his points with an incredible level of expertise and he conveyed his message with a great deal of passion. He remained calm, passionate, and factual under cross examination. We did not share any special “moments,” but I could…[Read more]

These really strike me more for their artistry than for their eroticism. I want to watch and be moved, I want to sketch, I feel a deep appreciation for their achievement on many levels, it is inspiring and beautiful… But I have a really hard time imagining myself with any one of them… Hmmm, interesting.

True and certainly no one is immune, and at the same time it makes no sense at the highest levels. The greatest inspirations are often found in the brilliance and accomplishment of others. I would feel at a complete loss if I was the smartest person I knew or if I didn’t see women every day a hundred times more gorgeous and stylish than myself.…[Read more]

And btw how did James get away with posting ‘prematurely’ and none of us harassed him even a little about that? We’re slipping!

Now, this is cute and lovely!!

Just gave me an idea for the prize for the next game. Guys against the gals. Guys win and the gals have to replicate the bottom photo. Gals win and the guys have to replicate … Well photo to be named. Now we just need a game and some takers…

that does so beg the question… And what did he do!?!?

Mmm… I like thinking about where that must be have been headed!

Don’t approach me like a thing. I am a woman grown, I expected to be treated as a fully-fledged capable human being complete with ambitions, emotions and frailties. I know the beauty and complexity of my soul, and though it may be a mystery to the male mind at times, do not fear or shy away from it… else you’ll never learn to truly master…[Read more]

I love this story a lot. In many ways it parallels my own “upbringing” and the conflict that I have at times experienced when trying to “manage” my more primal wants and needs and urges (and of course the considerable guilt that goes with them). I also appreciate lakes response for the same reason, although I would add one other thought to…[Read more]

I really enjoyed that and can’t wait to read your take on the other senses. Don’t forget that touch should also include focus on the body’s energy centers like the nape of the neck, the small of the back. And I think the use and feel of different textures (fur, feathers, spikes) arouse the sense of touch.

I love the idea of using the five senses as the backdrop for this exploration. The things you described are all certainly romantic and sensual and would be lovely to have happen.

Since you asked for feedback, the thing I would say is, I think you could have gotten a more emotional reaction from me, if there was more context.

Now that I’ve recovered from this, I am going to try to articulate myself.

Well damn it, lake, you had me blushing.
You had me really horny.
You had me lusting to the finish for you and also for your Master (I will assume I would like him since he makes you happy).

I want to know in formulating the fantasy as you did, whether it effected you…[Read more]

This is actually, a funny story. I was headed to bed after a day of kids, cards, basketball, trash talking, overeating, and being lectured by my mom… and it crossed my mind that it would be virtually impossible for me to have a sexual thought tonight. I didn’t set it up or expect anything to come at all. All I remember thinking was ‘park’,…[Read more]

Mmmm makes me want to get chased in the woods!!

Question, so I assume his reputation as a heartbreaker is because he has sex without converting these encounters into long term relationships, but do you know whether he actually misrepresented his intentions to the women who are mad at him for this? Being manipulative is very different than being a flirt.

Okay so I’m freak, but do try to also remember that you love me when you read this. Plus it’s not totally my fault, James did ask for a fantasy that is ‘out there’.

So slight preamble. I believe at our core we are all light, love, and energy… infinite capacity without bounds and connected to everything. That upon that we are layer upon laye…[Read more]

If you walk up to a woman that you’ve been making eye contact with in a bar, simply take her hand and walk to the dance floor, slither against each other and under each other’s clothes for an hour, then take her hand again, walk her this time to the bathroom where you fuck her, and all of that without ever saying more than two words to each…[Read more]

1. The No List: humiliation, real pain
2. ISTJ
3. Total number of lovers: 6
4. Commitment weary

1. I once screwed up a date with a supermodel, by going to the wrong meeting place.
2. I’ve been shot with a BB gun more times than you have fingers.
3. I was a straight A student and a virgin when I entered college.
4. I minored in bible.
5. My mother once beat me in an archery tournament, and I’m still mad about it writing this.
6. I was a live…[Read more]

Okay, how long do we wait to reveal the real answers Mallory, I am very curious. Maybe we should only tell the real answers in private to the people who post so that there are some stakes…