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  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    We have just had an amazing evening. I connected with someone via the internet and that is always both adventurous and scary. One never knows who someone is even with the passing of time so a stranger adds to the apprehension. I had spoken to my new friend a few times and just got a solid vibe. He was in town for advanced university education for…[Read more]

    • Alan, you are quickly becoming one of my favorite contributors. You have been sharing some seriously sexy stories. The one above is amazing. But also, the depth of your feeling and the evolved sophistication of your appreciation for the subtle markers of every aspect of sexuality is remarkable. I so deeply share your own view and outlook…[Read more]

      • James, I love your command of language, the way you turn a phrase. I think that we are blessed to share common respect. I think that in my life, if one song were to be played at my funeral (wish that could happen) it would be Edith Piaf belting out, Je Ne Regrette Nien (I Regret Nothing). I never thought of my life as adventurous, but people seem…[Read more]

    • Wow. This is absolutely incredible, she sounds like a dream, and your friend said it best: you’re a lucky man. Thanks so much for posting and getting me all worked up on a lazy afternoon.

    • Absolutely incredible experience that you shared. I am envious of her.

  • thereselalune posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    Just got back from camping today, a wonderful chance to get away from the city for a few days and just enjoy some time with friends. Of course, before I left, I had asked for a few ideas for “experiments” to try while away, and now is the time to divulge just how it went…

    The trip was a success, a group of approximately 15 of us enjoying…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences! It is quite a thrill to hear about them, especially considering that I/we would like to believe that we had some role in making them happen. You are a sexy, sexy, woman and I am very pleased with the way that you have begun to open up and reveal more and more of yourself here. I love the details of what…[Read more]

      • When he first started fingering me, I was a bit in shock because I never thought he’d be capable of doing something in such a public place! I’m certain that if anyone had paid a bit of close attention, they’d be able to see his arm up my skirt and the movement from him thrusting his fingers into me, playing with my clit and teasing my asshole and…[Read more]

        • I am not sure that there is anyplace I would rather find my hands on a regular basis when in public than constantly touching, pinching, pulling, stroking and probing a woman’s pussy when we are together…apparently your man’s handiwork hit the mark – I know I enjoyed you sharing it.

          I happen to have a story – which happened just moments ago -…[Read more]

    • Sounds like an absolutely perfect weekend, and I’m so pleased that the site spurred you on. I’ll dream that the campfire became an orgy.

    • So glad the weekend results were pleasurable. Here is to you, even hornier than before you went and to plotting the next camping trip with your friends. Who knows? Perhaps the next trip will be taken another few steps further.

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    I stumbled upon The SE several weeks ago and decided this past Sunday to take a nude photo of myself and post it on their website. Me, nude, on the internet. It was the step that led me on a wonderful adventure this week.

    All week long, I have been dripping wet. I get up and I dress for him. I await his elegant, seductive words; we banter. I…[Read more]

    • Fantastic, and couldn’t be happier to know that this place had gotten you buzzing.

    • I am certain that you have a lover, and I wouldn’t pretend to know a thing about your relationship, so I apologize in advance for any suggestion that this wasn’t written exclusively for his/her benefit. I even feel badly for having the audacity to comment on a post that is so clearly written for a specific person and therefore it may be…[Read more]

      • The energy you have sent my way must have been indeed massive times light speed. Week 2, day 4 I am dizzy and simply spinning with lust.

        • As long as you are willing to remain open to receiving it, I am always happy to continue sending more and more of that energy!

    • I really loved this post, but I am frustrated that I can only “Like” it once!!! [and “Like” seems so inadequate to describe how it makes me feel…Mr. X maybe you could add a “Lust” button as well (or just change the “Like” button to read “Lust”]

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    It was a summer weekend, I was between serious ladies in my life and I was bored. I decided to try a new venue and went onto one of those phone services where people can hook up. I left a simple message, would someone like to dress up, go for dinner and dancing and without any obligations, nil, nada? A few replied within the next hour and one…[Read more]

    • You were able to do something that is rare, perhaps even unheard of, for today’s uncertain, hostile, and potentially dangerous world. I know you added a great deal meaning to that lucky woman.

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    I am now in my mid 60s (which is great, if I need cheap bus tickets!). Thankfully, my health is good, I feel and look good. I was blessed with being just over 6 feet and have kept most of my hair. I was never the guy girls went up to my buddy and wanted an introduction. I was kind of shy, very much a gentleman and always had good manners. What I…[Read more]

    • Would love to continue reading about your adventures. You write beautifully and clearly have stories to tell.

    • It would be an honor to hear about your stories. I am particularly interested in learning more about the emotional side of your erotic encounters, what moved you toward them, how did you both feel at the time, and the consequential impact afterwards.

      • I am not proud of the fact that I strayed as a husband, a married man but something inside of me said that I could not go on with a sameness in my life. We were very young when we married, barely 21 in my case, she younger. I continued to grow and yet she was content to play the part of wife, mother and not grow in interests, in life. I read a…[Read more]

        • Thank you very much for sharing such an important part of yourself. I did not ask my questions to make any kind of judgement but rather to learn more about your experiences.

        • Thanks for sharing this, and I think you touch on some of the reasons that attract us to a place like this. I’ll be curious to hear more of your adventures as time goes on.

  • thereselalune posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    This weekend my partner and I will be joining several of our friends for a weekend of camping and tubing–that is, our group’s yearly excuse to get out of the city and into the woods to drink and socialize.

    Since we have our own tent which we do not share with anyone else, we’ve never had any trouble finding opportunity to have sex on this…[Read more]

    • I think you should use this weekend to put to use your seduction skills. I suggest:
      1. Sweet, erotic, sensual, and assertive touches for everyone to witness: jawlines, sides of breasts and torso, a finger tracing lips, a pinch of ass cheek, a quick tweak of nipple, a hand slipping between thighs………
      2. Bring a few sexy stories and read them…[Read more]

      • #1 is definitely something I’d do, as well as #4. #3 may be tricky as I’m not sure the logistics of where we are going, but it does sound tempting!

    • Love Mallory’s ideas. My old standby is the Fantasy Experiment. Type out a fantasy in which you won’t be identified, print it out, and leave it somewhere (slightly off in the woods) so that someone in the group will discover it. Then get incredibly excited wondering who’s getting incredible excited by it.

    • I love all of Mallory’s ideas, especially her idea of announcing that you are going skinny dipping! Late at night after everyone has loosened up with a few drinks is always nice and on the few occasions I have had to do this with friends, I have always found it be a big turn on even though everyone pretends that it is no big deal and certainly…[Read more]

      • #5 is so incredibly sexy to me and I loved the way you described it, but I’m unsure that he’d go for it. Too bad too, since having sex in public with everyone else none the wiser has always been a fantasy of mine. #6, however, is something I am sure he’d go along with and something we’ve done to some degree on these camping trips. One of my most…[Read more]

  • kinkynewlywed posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    So this weekend I\’m going out of town with my mom and sister. I won\’t really have any alone time. I\’m wondering if anyone could think of an experiment to try under these circumstances.

    • Would you include your mom and/or sister? Tell us a little more about the out of town circumstances.

      • No not include, but maybe something I can get away with doing without getting caught. That being the thrill of course.

        • Also we will be sharing a hotel room, and I’m married so no sex with strangers (unless my husband is there to watch, which he won’t be sadly)

          • I have several dares for you.
            1. Leave your wedding ring behind, at home, boldly displayed for your husband to find and see.
            2. Depending on your activities with your mom and sister, do not wear certain or all underwear.
            3. Be sure to take a few pictures of your nakedness under your clothes and send them to your husband.
            4. Now, for the real…[Read more]

            • Wow! The young Mallory shows a distinct talent for this. I’ll be eagerly waiting to see if you can pull of some of her dares.

            • Oh I like those dares! I’m going to try, #1 I’ve already left home with my ring on so I’ll be very diligent to complete the others and report back!

              • Oh darn, ok, then you can incorporate this theme into #4. One of your flirtations might be to let the man see you playing with your ring: taking it off, putting it on, taking it off, putting it on….. ??

                • I think Mr. X is right…you do have knack for coming up with all sorts of deliciously naughty thoughts to go along with an incredibly diverse set of situations/circumstances… I am not sure what we did without you around and shudder to think of what we would do without your creative, thoughtful and timely contributions!

              • I love the enthusiasm, both in asking for the dares and in responding to those submitted by the lovely Mallory. Please don’t hold back on sharing the results!

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    This coming week, the lady and I are going to meet someone for an adventure behind closed doors. Young, virile and experienced with a couple. Will let you know how it plays out. If my lady was to be likened to a movie star, she would be Eva Marie Saint when that lady was young and in her prime. Natural beauty, blonde, classy and with savoir faire.…[Read more]

    • Can’t wait for the details! Lucky lady, and you!!

      • Will post after the private party this Thursday. One thing about bringing in a 3rd party, they have bravado, but then don’t show up or if so, cannot perform. Hoping that this shall not be a disappointment.

    • As always, looking very much forward to hearing the result.

    • You have been away for too long Alan…None of us can wait to hear how your lady is evolving and striving to reach her full sexual self and how you have been able to help her accomplish that. Very inspiring story and damn what I wouldn’t give to be that “young, virile, experienced with a couple” guy who gets to open your woman’s heart, mind and…[Read more]

      • James, “young and virile” is interesting. I am 65 and due to changes in diet, health I have never felt better in and out of the bedroom. I thought, when I was dating, after my marriage ended that I would never perform well in the bedroom again. Due to reading Wheat Belly, I dropped 25 pounds and have maintained that well. Due to having a loving…[Read more]

        • One of the things that I am always impressed by most, is how open and thoughtful and sincere you are about all of this. At the end of the day, no matter our age, our physical condition or our specific talents, we all want to be heard, understood and loved unconditionally. The unspoken truth is that, in the world we live in, it is very, very…[Read more]

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    I do not know exactly what category to put this into so please accept that. One of the most erotic events that I witnessed was by pure accident. I have been to some wild parties, seen a fair amount of open and explicit sex and have participated. One of the more erotic adventures was when I went to walk my dog. It was a very hot summer’s night and…[Read more]

    • Beautifully described, and as I find myself repeating, its all those little details that turn one on – the tree line, the billowing dress, the backlighting. Really great. Thanks.

    • This is a beautifully described story. There is something about the long, slow heat soaked days of summer that always turn me on…and to come across such a pure and unadulterated display of two people who can not contain their sexuality and embrace the sultry eroticism of being outside at night on a hot evening…I would agree that it is hard to…[Read more]

      • Thank you – never know if anyone is out there, reading. Would be great to see a simple Like button like on Facebook to encourage postings

        • This is a great idea, and I’m going to try to figure it out ASAP. I absolutely love your updates from the edge of possibility, and I’m sure many others do too. It would be great to give them an easy way to show that.

  • Mr. X posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    So here\’s an experiment for you all: take a naked photo, as discreet as you wish, and join us in the Photo Orgy – http://www.thesexexperiment.com/groups/photo-orgy/

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    My husband always had this reoccurring fantasy of interracial sex. I have always been ahead of my time as I dabbled in bisexuality and interracially back in high school but my husband had never crossed the color barrier so it was a mission of mine to satisfy his urge of both being with a black woman and at the same time seeing me with a black man.

    • Yum. And? Don’t leave us hanging!

      • I always feel things will happen naturally if you’re open and aware of your surroundings. The first opportunity came at a Halloween party sponsored by a local radio station. We have always loved Halloween parties and it’s an open excuse to let your hair down and be adventurous. My husband and I went as a Nurse and Doctor. In order to set my plan i…[Read more]

        • Oh, please cum more soon!

        • My husband got ready first and was watching football on the TV while I took my time preparing myself to be the bait for a fun filled erotic evening. Legs shaved, pussy trimmed, nails, hair and makeup done. I slipped on my outfit and came out for my husband to see. He loved it as I knew he would, it’s every red blooded man’s fantasy to have a hot…[Read more]

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months ago

    Not exactly an experiment, but this seems like it would be the best place for it, so a question for all of you. I’m a virgin (as you might know if you’ve seen some of my other posts). I’ve read a lot online, and from what I’ve read it seems that guys tend to orgasm before their partners more often than not (hence the tips to ‘distract’…[Read more]

    • Stressing about that kind of thing for your first time, will kill any enjoyment you will get from the experience. You always remember your first time, and if it was a horror story, you set yourself up for failure for a long time to come. I’ve had guys that were done before they even got in, I’ve had guys go for three hours and still not be done.…[Read more]

      • Great sex is not an isolated event; it is a continuous work-in-progress. Start the “work” when you meet her and you know you are interested. Each communication, each interaction, each date should be part of the the seductive work-in-progress. Mr. X has detailed how to do this very well; read up. Keep making her hot. When you finally get to…[Read more]

      • Good advice from the ladies, here. We all do incredibly embarrassing things – the charm comes from laughing about it.

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months ago

    I’m a single mother, who gets Experimental with herself from time to time. I choose not to have a partner at the moment, but there are some days where I would love to feel teeth on the side of my neck… a tongue on the line where my toes meet the soles of my feet…. but I digress. 🙂

    My experiment lately has been to see how far I can push…[Read more]

    • Love this description. I’m vividly picturing you buzzing down the aisles of the supermarket like a horny bumblebee and will be very eager to see where that Magic Bus(driver) might take you. Well done.

      • With the bus driver, I’m not sure how far I will go. He’s on my route quite a bit, and if he totally rejects me, then it will be awkward for both of us when he pulls up and I have to get on the bus. I want to give him the poem I wrote, but anonymously so that if I don’t hear from him via the email I set up with no names, then all he knows is the…[Read more]

    • Thank you for sharing this… The part that I always find amazing is the notion that ones sexuality is such a real thing and there are endless ways that it can be expressed (both in real life and through fantasy). It is courageous to put yourself out there and admit how you are sexual and hopefully you will find it empowering to know that there…[Read more]

      • Agree with everything here, and especially the idea that everywhere you look, everywhere you turn, there are strangers as sexually obsessed in the moment as I am.

      • Thank you so much James! Yes, I love experimenting by myself, mainly because no man has ever finished what he started. If you tell them that, they get all huffy, and have even had one say to me “are you done yet?”. So if I was going to be with someone, I’d either get done myself before they arrive, or wait till they were asleep and go off by…[Read more]

        • I know very little about sext messages, but I find the notion of you “prank” sexting both as an exhibitionist and as a way to actually engage with someone as incredibly creative and incredibly sexy. Talk about brightening up someones day like you wouldn’t believe!

          • Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. But before I send the text out, I like to be at least ninety-five percent sure it will go to a man, which is why I use the phone book and choose tradesmen. There was one guy who played for a while, was lovely getting sext messages while I was down at the mall, or in the movies! And no, before you ask.…[Read more]

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 5 months ago

    I have what could, on the surface be a fairly simple experiment for virtually everyone to undertake and actually do – like right this minute…

    Texting, chat, e-mail, twitter and other forms of abbreviated communications are great, and can be hot and sexy, and have a remarkable ability to express a very “of the moment” feeling by a sender…[Read more]

    • Ha! Yes, I’ll be quite pleased if the sext dare is to “do X” to someone. I’ll go ahead and start making preparations. I really like the idea of speaking/writing/sexting past your “comfort zone”, and I’ll be eager to hear what you and hopefully others devise.

    • So I will go first…oh, wait, no one else but Mr. X seems to have even seen this…so let me kick this off by sharing my Sext…AND…to prove my point, I already have the privilege of being able to share with you the result!!! (which I will admit even I am astounded to be able to say).

      First, I do have to set this up a little bit…no there…[Read more]

      • Wow. Love everything about this. Love the self-dare, love her reactions, and love hearing the “voice” of another couple. And now I’m going to stop “loving” to read that result.

    • And the results…

      First things first…Yes, she really did take a picture of her pussy while she was sitting at her desk and send it to me. Yes is did look exactly as I described in my text. No, she has never ever done anything anywhere near that daring or salacious much less sent it to me during the work day, so I knew whatever I had said,…[Read more]

      • Oh man. Fantastic. I love how she “turned” on you, and as you can probably imagine, that fearlessness in public is a particular turn-on of mine. It’s really gotten me dreaming of NYC parks and the possibilities of picnics. It makes me nostalgic for the big city – not necessarily my city, but YOUR city, where the women wear short skirts without…[Read more]

      • I’ve always wanted to visit New York City, and this is simply another reason why! Loved reading your and your lady’s adventure in the park. I’m always so inspired by this site each time I visit 😉

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