These can be as short or as long as you like. Here are two that have come to mind for me.

This was more than ten years ago. The whole thing happened in less then a couple of minutes, but I still remember every moment of it in the most visceral way. I was out with a group of friends. We had all been drinking. We were walking from one bar to…[Read more]

I once asked for and received the tshirt from someone I’ve gotten to know a little bit, but have not met. When I sunk my face into it, I plunged into that chemistry. When I put on the tshirt, I soared.

Very sexy… I think you must be her office crush.

Thank god for that one, you made it super thrilling for all of us!

I was at a holiday party. It was the end of a great night, everyone is clearing out. The owner of the company hosting the party walks up to me and takes my hand. He says, ‘I’m not one to throw a lot of parties, but if I was, I’d invite you to all of them’.

I think you are definitely a member.

About 17 weeks ago or so, I had an encounter as mentioned in Lake’s post. I felt compelled to document my thoughts and feelings about the encounter but I’ve yet to express them to anyone. It was as if this was my own little secret that I happily kept to myself. I’ll spare all of the details as my thoughts just kept rambling on and on.

I spotted…[Read more]

Extra points for having just meet the person on the plane… I’ve needed the double blanket traveling with someone I’m in a relationship with, but never with someone I’ve just met… Fantasized about it many times though. You have definitely been holding out on us Luis!

Here is one that is not really sexy (sorry), but definitely was an overwhelming feeling and rush of unexpected emotion that I will not forget.

I was with my team about an hour before a large presentation, we were testing, setting up, etc. I misplaced one of my folders and had become very frustrated with my inability to find it and had given up…[Read more]

What is the saying, ‘ In the end what we regret most is all the things we didn’t do’?

Having seen your picture… this doesn’t surprise me 🙂

A while back, I had hired someone to provide expert opinion in a litigation. He was extremely well spoken, articulated his points with an incredible level of expertise and he conveyed his message with a great deal of passion. He remained calm, passionate, and factual under cross examination. We did not share any special “moments,” but I could…[Read more]

Okay so I’m freak, but do try to also remember that you love me when you read this. Plus it’s not totally my fault, James did ask for a fantasy that is ‘out there’.

So slight preamble. I believe at our core we are all light, love, and energy… infinite capacity without bounds and connected to everything. That upon that we are layer upon laye…[Read more]

If you walk up to a woman that you’ve been making eye contact with in a bar, simply take her hand and walk to the dance floor, slither against each other and under each other’s clothes for an hour, then take her hand again, walk her this time to the bathroom where you fuck her, and all of that without ever saying more than two words to each…[Read more]

1. The No List: humiliation, real pain
2. ISTJ
3. Total number of lovers: 6
4. Commitment weary

1. I once screwed up a date with a supermodel, by going to the wrong meeting place.
2. I’ve been shot with a BB gun more times than you have fingers.
3. I was a straight A student and a virgin when I entered college.
4. I minored in bible.
5. My mother once beat me in an archery tournament, and I’m still mad about it writing this.
6. I was a live…[Read more]

Okay, how long do we wait to reveal the real answers Mallory, I am very curious. Maybe we should only tell the real answers in private to the people who post so that there are some stakes…

I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.

This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]

Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]

“The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas

Come on guys… I want you to spill it! I’ll even put some skin in the game, if three people answer, I’ll post a new pic.

I meant three guys have to answer this question… However, since I find the two of you completely irresistible and I love Duke’s answers, AND I am horny now… I will go and post. Note, this game is not over, if we still get to three, I will… shall we say… up the ante on what I post… Either better focus or less clothes… we shall see how…[Read more]

1) Melts me…witnessing the shudder of a woman as a wave of pleasure momentarily overwhelms her and she relaxes into it…accepts it…embraces it and allows it to course through her body and take her deeper into her head…more into the moment and less concerned with whatever else is going on around her

2) Arouses me…glimpses of unfiltered…[Read more]

I will answer the easiest first. Aroused most by anticipation, variety, sensuality, intelligence, generousity, attention to detail.

Devotion–
Relentless desire to maintain discovery process.

What melts me?

I don’t know.

You know 😉

What Melts Me
Guys are wonderful at saying they are going to savor every inch of your body. I melt when I am with someone that makes me feel this… experience every inch as a wonderland and reminds me of it all the time, not just when we are making love. Hands slowly moving down the full length of my waist and over the top of my ass when we…[Read more]

What Melts Me?

I thought about this one a lot. I really did not have a ready answer, lake. I think what could really get to me is the rare occasion when someone sees with great clarity, a part of me that no one else bothers to understand or uncover.

To instill trust, to be trustworthy, to protect and nurture and respect those thoughts, feelings, and wants of another person that make them feel most revealed, most vulnerable… What more powerful way is there to build a heartstopping, unforgettable bond and to cultivate a dynamic infused with reverie?

Thank you barrister, your participation is absolutely counted, enjoyed, and anticipated. I shall attempt my upload again… See if it works.. Then I have to run to dinner!

I love this, I am sure you have made everyone quite jealous of Mrs Barrister!

Oh, there is much Mrs Barrister has to be thankful for, but my jealousy tends more towards Mr. Barrister! One would think that having someone so unselfishly devoted to them in the ways Mr. barrister has described as the ideal, but it actually works both ways…I am jealous of his having found a woman who will let him inside to such a degree…to…[Read more]

I do like cucumber, but I’m not so big on Good & Plenty or black licorice. I want to invent a new one cucumber and orange 🙂

I can only give you my perspective, Andrew. “Sucking a man’s cock” for me is a more complex process than just the mere act of sucking. It is a series of sensual pleasures I want to give, a series of mind blowing intensities I want him to experience. On the receiving end, I savor the texture, the taste. I feel the pulsing, the urgency.…[Read more]

Just out of curiosity Mr. Flemming…there is a slight but potentially relevant difference in the way you described what it is that you find appealing and what Mallory expressed…more of an offering…giving more than taking.

Which do you find more arousing…the physical sensations (sight, texture, smell, taste) and mental and emotional aspects…[Read more]

@James, i think the two things your talking about are both real aspects, but not separate, maybe not even distinct. At a certain point giving and taking converge and are not distinguishable. I’d compare it to having a raging hard on while you eat pussy. Thrilling in what your sensing and all of both of your reactions. In a way, i find it…[Read more]

When we were young and living with little, and by the same token, living without many obligations, we had the freedom to love like we have never been hurt. Our youth did not necessarily give us the wisdom to hold that trust dear, or the strength to withstand the crushing burden of evolving duties on love and desire.

I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment. It is absolutely the truth that love and desire do evolve profoundly over time and with familiarity and that the duties increase as well and often seem to become a burden (and sometimes a crushing one)!

But that is really where I have struggled most in my own life…that is what has frustrated me the…[Read more]

And I think hands down, lake won most of the points for the women! YAY, lake!

Finally, I win something, i was trounced in that last photo orgy game, i dont think i won a single week! Now we need to seriously talk about payoffs!

Ha! I was just going to add a truth, ‘is monogamy your ideal? Is it your partners ideal?’

For me, one person can be enough, but more and more at this point in my life, ‘enough’ is not the goal? The goal that is evolving for me is a connection in which we honor one another’s absolute truth. Live without built in boundaries. Live to the…[Read more]

My truth is no, one person is not enough. And nor have I been truly just one person over the course of my life.

James let me state this for the record… Rights or no rights you should feel free to insert yourself (via the Dr Seuss rule) here or there, ANYWHERE as far as I’m concerned. Oh, and I would also add often… Hmm and repeatedly, yes definitely repeatedly.

Good to see you, James. Can lake be any clearer with regard how she likes it?

Trust and communication.

Ditto

Well, I have to agree but disagree…

I agree with the importance of Trust and Communication above the others from your list.

But I think your list is lacking what I believe is THE most important part which allows people to not only have great communication but also to build trust….ACCEPTANCE!

If you can not accept yourself for who you are…[Read more]

My intent with the list was more about weighing the five in that list against each other than listing the top five ( and James you never actually answered that question!). But I do love where this has gone, however now it’s gotten me philosophical which
I really try not to do to overdue here, but I can’t resist on this one now. Hey, good…[Read more]

Master always.

Freedom, acceptance, courage, love, intimacy, play, being caught up in wild raucous moments, epiphany, connection, being taken, being impressed, being surprised, being cared for, being valued, being seen and understood, acknowledgement, perfect service, meaning, growth, expansion, integrity, vulnerability, inspiration, sensation,…[Read more]

TRIPLE DARE: Both of you together!

I’m inspired by your inspiration! Bravo… What was it like listening to it afterward without any visual accompaniment? What did you notice that you had not before?

Mmmm…perfect, I do think this one of the best things about photos or videos or records even writing or having conversations about an special experience, all the ways it allows you to experience that moment again! Which leads to the next experience!!