The Sex Experiment

These can be as short or as long as you like. Here are two that have come to mind for me.

This was more than ten years ago. The whole thing happened in less then a couple of minutes, but I still remember every moment of it in the most visceral way. I was out with a group of friends. We had all been drinking. We were walking from one bar to…[Read more]

I once asked for and received the tshirt from someone I’ve gotten to know a little bit, but have not met. When I sunk my face into it, I plunged into that chemistry. When I put on the tshirt, I soared.

Very sexy… I think you must be her office crush.

Thank god for that one, you made it super thrilling for all of us!

I was at a holiday party. It was the end of a great night, everyone is clearing out. The owner of the company hosting the party walks up to me and takes my hand. He says, ‘I’m not one to throw a lot of parties, but if I was, I’d invite you to all of them’.

I think you are definitely a member.

About 17 weeks ago or so, I had an encounter as mentioned in Lake’s post. I felt compelled to document my thoughts and feelings about the encounter but I’ve yet to express them to anyone. It was as if this was my own little secret that I happily kept to myself. I’ll spare all of the details as my thoughts just kept rambling on and on.

I spotted…[Read more]

Extra points for having just meet the person on the plane… I’ve needed the double blanket traveling with someone I’m in a relationship with, but never with someone I’ve just met… Fantasized about it many times though. You have definitely been holding out on us Luis!

Here is one that is not really sexy (sorry), but definitely was an overwhelming feeling and rush of unexpected emotion that I will not forget.

I was with my team about an hour before a large presentation, we were testing, setting up, etc. I misplaced one of my folders and had become very frustrated with my inability to find it and had given up…[Read more]

What is the saying, ‘ In the end what we regret most is all the things we didn’t do’?

Having seen your picture… this doesn’t surprise me 🙂

A while back, I had hired someone to provide expert opinion in a litigation. He was extremely well spoken, articulated his points with an incredible level of expertise and he conveyed his message with a great deal of passion. He remained calm, passionate, and factual under cross examination. We did not share any special “moments,” but I could…[Read more]

Don’t approach me like a thing. I am a woman grown, I expected to be treated as a fully-fledged capable human being complete with ambitions, emotions and frailties. I know the beauty and complexity of my soul, and though it may be a mystery to the male mind at times, do not fear or shy away from it… else you’ll never learn to truly master…[Read more]

I love this story a lot. In many ways it parallels my own “upbringing” and the conflict that I have at times experienced when trying to “manage” my more primal wants and needs and urges (and of course the considerable guilt that goes with them). I also appreciate lakes response for the same reason, although I would add one other thought to…[Read more]

I really enjoyed that and can’t wait to read your take on the other senses. Don’t forget that touch should also include focus on the body’s energy centers like the nape of the neck, the small of the back. And I think the use and feel of different textures (fur, feathers, spikes) arouse the sense of touch.

I love the idea of using the five senses as the backdrop for this exploration. The things you described are all certainly romantic and sensual and would be lovely to have happen.

Since you asked for feedback, the thing I would say is, I think you could have gotten a more emotional reaction from me, if there was more context.

Now that I’ve recovered from this, I am going to try to articulate myself.

Well damn it, lake, you had me blushing.
You had me really horny.
You had me lusting to the finish for you and also for your Master (I will assume I would like him since he makes you happy).

I want to know in formulating the fantasy as you did, whether it effected you…[Read more]

This is actually, a funny story. I was headed to bed after a day of kids, cards, basketball, trash talking, overeating, and being lectured by my mom… and it crossed my mind that it would be virtually impossible for me to have a sexual thought tonight. I didn’t set it up or expect anything to come at all. All I remember thinking was ‘park’,…[Read more]

Mmmm makes me want to get chased in the woods!!

Question, so I assume his reputation as a heartbreaker is because he has sex without converting these encounters into long term relationships, but do you know whether he actually misrepresented his intentions to the women who are mad at him for this? Being manipulative is very different than being a flirt.

Okay so I’m freak, but do try to also remember that you love me when you read this. Plus it’s not totally my fault, James did ask for a fantasy that is ‘out there’.

So slight preamble. I believe at our core we are all light, love, and energy… infinite capacity without bounds and connected to everything. That upon that we are layer upon laye…[Read more]

If you walk up to a woman that you’ve been making eye contact with in a bar, simply take her hand and walk to the dance floor, slither against each other and under each other’s clothes for an hour, then take her hand again, walk her this time to the bathroom where you fuck her, and all of that without ever saying more than two words to each…[Read more]

1. The No List: humiliation, real pain
2. ISTJ
3. Total number of lovers: 6
4. Commitment weary

1. I once screwed up a date with a supermodel, by going to the wrong meeting place.
2. I’ve been shot with a BB gun more times than you have fingers.
3. I was a straight A student and a virgin when I entered college.
4. I minored in bible.
5. My mother once beat me in an archery tournament, and I’m still mad about it writing this.
6. I was a live…[Read more]

Okay, how long do we wait to reveal the real answers Mallory, I am very curious. Maybe we should only tell the real answers in private to the people who post so that there are some stakes…

I have. Adding Lexi was based on that conversation, what we want and how we see it happening.

This is perfect. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Again, the “conversation” isn’t necessarily about including others, it is every bit as much about learning about and understanding your partners attractions and arousals (or their past!). It is also about finding a way to share more of yourself…more of what makes you tick…what turns you…[Read more]

Over the course of decades, I’ve had this discussion with different people and with variant outcomes; successfully, unsuccessfully, and with mutually accepted compromises… and a total of five threesomes. I’ve also been on both sides of it (the one who was resistant and the one who was advocating for it). I think whether you are negotiating for…[Read more]

“The chain of marriage is so heavy that it takes two to bear it; sometimes three.” ― Alexandre Dumas

I envy the boldness with which you seek and satisfy your desires.

This is really hot!!! Thank you for rejoining the conversation…I am sure this will push many of us further along in our own!!!

This is what I would call a win, win, win! Sexy intriguing guy, motivation for getting great exercise, and fodder for multiple inspired fantasies!

Great ride, great story telling … I’m definitely caught up and wanting to know where this goes! Not to mention, now it have to google cyclocross 🙂

Had been saving this, and now that I’ve gotten to it, I really love it. There’s something about the combination of all those technical bike details with the fucking that’s really exciting somehow. Thanks for posting, and would love to post up on the blog if you’re game.

Come on guys… I want you to spill it! I’ll even put some skin in the game, if three people answer, I’ll post a new pic.

I meant three guys have to answer this question… However, since I find the two of you completely irresistible and I love Duke’s answers, AND I am horny now… I will go and post. Note, this game is not over, if we still get to three, I will… shall we say… up the ante on what I post… Either better focus or less clothes… we shall see how…[Read more]

1) Melts me…witnessing the shudder of a woman as a wave of pleasure momentarily overwhelms her and she relaxes into it…accepts it…embraces it and allows it to course through her body and take her deeper into her head…more into the moment and less concerned with whatever else is going on around her

2) Arouses me…glimpses of unfiltered…[Read more]

I will answer the easiest first. Aroused most by anticipation, variety, sensuality, intelligence, generousity, attention to detail.

Devotion–
Relentless desire to maintain discovery process.

What melts me?

I don’t know.

You know 😉

What Melts Me
Guys are wonderful at saying they are going to savor every inch of your body. I melt when I am with someone that makes me feel this… experience every inch as a wonderland and reminds me of it all the time, not just when we are making love. Hands slowly moving down the full length of my waist and over the top of my ass when we…[Read more]

What Melts Me?

I thought about this one a lot. I really did not have a ready answer, lake. I think what could really get to me is the rare occasion when someone sees with great clarity, a part of me that no one else bothers to understand or uncover.

To instill trust, to be trustworthy, to protect and nurture and respect those thoughts, feelings, and wants of another person that make them feel most revealed, most vulnerable… What more powerful way is there to build a heartstopping, unforgettable bond and to cultivate a dynamic infused with reverie?

Thank you barrister, your participation is absolutely counted, enjoyed, and anticipated. I shall attempt my upload again… See if it works.. Then I have to run to dinner!

I love this, I am sure you have made everyone quite jealous of Mrs Barrister!

Oh, there is much Mrs Barrister has to be thankful for, but my jealousy tends more towards Mr. Barrister! One would think that having someone so unselfishly devoted to them in the ways Mr. barrister has described as the ideal, but it actually works both ways…I am jealous of his having found a woman who will let him inside to such a degree…to…[Read more]

I do like cucumber, but I’m not so big on Good & Plenty or black licorice. I want to invent a new one cucumber and orange 🙂

I can only give you my perspective, Andrew. “Sucking a man’s cock” for me is a more complex process than just the mere act of sucking. It is a series of sensual pleasures I want to give, a series of mind blowing intensities I want him to experience. On the receiving end, I savor the texture, the taste. I feel the pulsing, the urgency.…[Read more]

Just out of curiosity Mr. Flemming…there is a slight but potentially relevant difference in the way you described what it is that you find appealing and what Mallory expressed…more of an offering…giving more than taking.

Which do you find more arousing…the physical sensations (sight, texture, smell, taste) and mental and emotional aspects…[Read more]

@James, i think the two things your talking about are both real aspects, but not separate, maybe not even distinct. At a certain point giving and taking converge and are not distinguishable. I’d compare it to having a raging hard on while you eat pussy. Thrilling in what your sensing and all of both of your reactions. In a way, i find it…[Read more]

This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.

“unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉

I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]

James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.