The Sex Experiment

I love everything about this. What a fantastic moment. You must be walking on air! I am so excited about the way you went for it and created this.

And the woman in Luis’s story too! I love the courage and the directness, the will for adventure and best of all the result!

Luis, for me, the “alarms” went off way before, but I know exactly what you mean.

A branding iron ….. will we find out ….?

Mallory you are definitely the master of anticipation. You should right a book on how to stoke desire and longing and ride it for every inch of what it is worth!

I want to hear more about him, what things are you noticing that make you wonder so?

You hottie you!

Lol, I am beginning surprise even myself 😉

It did throw me, he is so damn young and adorable I lost my bearings for a bit 🙂

Btw… listen closely tonight… I’m walking out to meet him now… smiles wickedly

I can’t believe you are letting me off so easy… Really no questions? 😉

I have a question…is this a random hookup or someone you are developing a relationship with? What does your Master think?

‘Relationship’ can be defined many ways 🙂 it is my intent to form a real, and authentication connection and level of caring and affection, that benefits us both in positive ways. I do not and Master does not have a pre-conceived limit on how far that can or may go. In traditional terms, I would say, he and I are ‘dating’. He is certainly…[Read more]

I’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly “banged” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).

I read about your Bad Lad here and he just symbolizes so much of your rides and races. The obstacles that pop up. You know you can’t win all the time. But crossing the finish line is always a possibility. And the occasional win is so incredibly seductive, you keep going for it.

From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]

alright, I’ll go third too

True
True
I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE

TRUE or FALSE: The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex.

Oh wait! This one got skipped!

I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore – true or false?

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. True or False

I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is n…[Read more]

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
Sex is made h…[Read more]

Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE

When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)

I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on…[Read more]

I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE

I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to…[Read more]

I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. TRUE
I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair which lasted for one summer, over a steady…[Read more]

I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great…[Read more]

Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. FALSE
The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. TRUE

Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” True or false?

The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)

Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other…[Read more]

Oh… So the Other Master is also a salacious tease! 😉
and when the maiden begs with her quivering lip… what mercy would you show her then Sir?

Okay this is a little creepy, but I’m a chic and I look straight so sorry guys, i do get away with it… In the subway, walking up the longer stair cases, I like to position myself behind a lovely in…[Read more]

Standing at the edge… With the siren’s song rising from deep within the abyss, and the song thrums the very membrane of your cells and vibration stirs the instinct that hundreds of thousands of years of evolution has wired into every system in your body. You stand there, but that instinct whispers, ‘jump’ or maybe your a person or it’s a day…[Read more]

I read that and it made my nipples hard and tight and tingling. Nevermind elsewhere….

Oh my word…. its exactly how I imagine it would be.
More please…

Well before anyone gets too invested, I have to warn you, our odds are long on this. She is genuine, sensual, earnest, beautifully non-judgemental, very much of her own mind, proud, lots of self respect, accomplished, smart, has high integrity, an adventurous spirit, and even if she is confused by how she responds to me… She clearly does…[Read more]

I’m smiling at the thought of that myself!!! Thanks for the response. Although you have to admit there is something inherently submissive about being so passive in allowing another woman to slowly taunt and tease you until you have been taken don’t you think? Another thought that brings a smile to my face!!!

I need to be seen, understood, cherished. I need to reach, be inspired, and be turned on.

The hardest of these is to be understood and inspired. The two that have done it best have resulted in the most insanely powerful, wildly sexual long term interactions of my life.

Do you think it is more difficult to recognize and acknowledge exactly what it is that most women really do need to get that only men might provide…

Or do you think that it is harder to actually just come right out and say it?!?

Either way, I am still waiting for SOMEONE to comment on this!!!

-James

To hold doors open for them. Haha…. I’m just kidding.

With the advent and selection of various “toys”, one could assume that women wouldn’t really need men for sex. But to quote someone “nothing feels like the real thing”. So there is still hope for us men lol

Women need authentic men who can offer their full, undivided presence. It is anchoring and affirming to women.

At a global level, women need men to sacrifice themselves so that others can live and honor that sacrifice.

Women need men who have balance, who know what they want, honest with themselves if they don’t, who have courage, who can do the right thing, who are generous, and who can put someone else ahead of themselves.

…to make them civilized.

To procreate.

Sounds mushy gushy, but men need women to feel complete.

For inspiration

When the reward out ways the risk involved

The rewards

For the sake of someone else.

It’s a doorway to discovery

Sunshine on my belly

Being in the water

Lips kissing skin. Especially the backside of any part of the body.

So many favorites…but come on…as a man…there is no greater “sensation on skin” that when your cock presses through the tight smooth entrance of a woman’s pussy for the first time when having sex (not just the first sexual experience, but the first penetration on each separate sexual experience same woman or not)! There are more intense…[Read more]

Cool grass on bare feet

Feet in the sand

You can even pretend not to know each other.

Tell the people you meet it’s your date night and see if they have any kinky or sexy recommendations for you! 🙂

I’d say we call that one a win win.

I have gotten some great ideas from here. So glad we found this place. I’m sure we will come up with something fun and interesting to try. It seems we push boundaries and expand ideas and experiments each day.

Oh yes, let’s go with taking a vacation day love they Idea of being truant and free. Maybe have her arrive where you two will meet ahead of you, again dressed in way that she feels exposed. Have her pick a spot to stand and wait for you, then close her eyes and be still, not to open them until she is told to. Obviously, you then have a…[Read more]

This is a great tale about how the simple unseen things can make all the difference in the world for a couple to get themselves in the right….well…mindset! I also love your choice of words…”the twist”! I simply love the art and craft of creating palpable sexual tension , pushing and pulling and twisting and turning in all the predictable…[Read more]

I’ll start.

When I can smell him on me for the rest of the day after we’ve fucked.

Sexting all day and fu $#@*g all night

When his eyes drop with that little nod then come straight back into mine, signaling it’s time to get on his cock, and I am instantly in motion.

That my fantasies don’t freak him out.

When he pulls my panties back up for me.

The way she quivers and moans as I nibble at the back of her neck and behind her ears. Mmmmmm

The way her entire body goes stiff and her breathing catches and her eyes flicker and her face goes expressionless and all intentional communication stops cold for a brief moment at my first touch – EVERY SINGLE TIME WE MEET!
-James

The way that even after we have greeted one another and settled into whatever conversation or activity, how there are certain spots that I touch…trigger points…that cause the whole process described above to happen all over again…only progressively more intensely. When I take her hand…when I wrap my arm around her waist and rest my hand on…[Read more]