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  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 11 months ago

    New Game!!

    Ponder Having the following ‘superpower’… Tell us what you think the pros and cons would be. 🙂

    You know those moment, when you see your lover from a different perspective. Maybe from across the room at a party you’ve arrived late to and they are already actively engaged in a group. You stand watching her, at some point she looks…[Read more]

    • Pro
      The practical me would love the time saved by this superpower.

      Con
      Missing out on the anguish, not knowing, the fantasy, the peeling of the layers, the discovery.

    • Pro: the energy and excitement you would pick up from some ‘knowings’

      Cons: The energy and excitement you might lose from other ‘knowings’

    • To be honest, I have some sneaking suspicious that this may be they type of thing that actually might exist in the future. To some degree, aren’t such a highly specific set of interests and/or “algorithms” exactly what is used to power virtually every on-line dating-site/social network/community (even this one)?

      On the one hand, I can…[Read more]

      • It is funny, I watched this movie yesterday.

      • I agree with James about this site and its community. I think we do great in exchanging ideas and experiences, and in so doing, we make some wonderful connections. That makes this place very special (@him, just so you know).

        • Makes me want to throw @him some kind of virtual party… Well, that’s what I’m settling for anyway, what it actually makes me want to do… Well, let’s just say it won’t work long distance.

  • Doris posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years ago

    Talking about fantasies, I had one (or two, must admit) like in this “old” photo.

    • Oooh la la, cherie!

    • And how about the other one? 🙂

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Like, like, like! Love this Doris so fun, and stylized, and HOT… I do so love the way your mind works! Don’t you dare stop… Ever!

      @Luis, can’t I come!?!

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Oh should not tease me… I will up and do it, I am not one to deny myself, we’ll walk heady and buzzing through the chans de lise after, I love to laugh outside and touch while we stroll… No where in particular to go…

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    In what ways is pairs figure skating a metaphor for actual relationships?

    • You have to have trust your partner’s got a hold on you, trust him/her not to let you fall, trust him/her to catch you if you do. And if you mean something to your partner, s/he will be the soft place you land when you fall.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Love that one Mallory!

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Passion readily converts into presence.

    • Paired skaters don’t get it work without daily practice or getting sloppy about they need to sync up to each other. A real relationship requires daily, routine hard work, and paying attention to each other and to all the details need to fit and move together.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I love wedding day advice… This one is fabulous.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Goes to show how just a tad bit of theatricality and emphasis, can turn some small thing into something that changes your whole life. I like him so much just from knowing this one thing about him!

  • lost posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years ago

    A lovely Invitation. What’s to come?

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    A Twist on the Valentine’s Day Experiment

    Legend has it that although Abraham Lincoln ate sparsely, he was particularly fond of a white cake made by his wife, Mary Todd Lincoln. Historians say she often made this cake for the president while they were courting and he always commented, “Mary’s white cake is the best I have ever eat…[Read more]

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    Valentine Experiment

    Saint Valentine’s Day was originally (and still is) a Roman Catholic feast day, commemorating the life of a certain Valentinus, who was martyred in Rome some time in the 3rd Century A.D. The story is, while he was imprisoned for serving as a Christian priest, he healed the jailer’s daughter from blindness and apparently, fel…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Good experiment; time to walk the walk… And I do depend on y’all to push me along this path of being ever more romantic (there is a lot of room to grow!)

    • Thank you, Luis. I am very happy it brought you intense emotions.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Ah but you did still share so much… I enjoy so much expressions of excitement and adoration and arousal, but also of course love. This made me feel so warm and happy.

    • My life means much more.
      Most important aspect of my life.
      My encouragement and courage.
      Kept me in the game, made it possible for me to hope, become better.
      A dominant force in how I define myself.
      Because of you, I have passion to fuel my will to keep going.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Alright, I wasn’t going to share, cause I’m shy about this (I don’t consider myself particularly poetic or romantic), but I’ve really enjoyed the way others have gone for it, and reading what’s been shared… and I’m nothing if not a joiner… so… here goes nothing.

      I keep a small notebook in my purse, at times when I have a particularly…[Read more]

      • First of all, how you can keep and fill the content this notebook, and do not consider yourself romantic is beyond me. It is incredibly romantic and more importantly, memorializes and cherishes those fleeting moments and those significant memories.

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          You have a point 🙂 maybe it’s a perception of myself I need to dig under a bit. xox

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I stole the idea, #5 did it for me, that book is own of my most treasured possessions. We should all steal the idea.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      They may not be writing it down Luis, but i know you too well not to know there are women out there filling their book on you in their minds.

    • Sorry I’m late (as usual), but how could I resist the challenge of expressing myself within limits (particularly when I’m prone to being verbose)? Context: long-distance writer friend I’ve had warm feelings for over the better part of a decade, but for whatever reason (long distance or either/both of us being in relationships with other people)…[Read more]

      • How I love when all you can do is dance and your mind go crazy imagining what it would be like for more.

      • lake replied 11 years ago

        Loved it Ellasaria! Reminded me of one of my long time favorites:

        “In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.”
        ― Rumi

        • Rumi always says it much better than I ever could. 😀

          I’ve admitted to this person that I would be glad to assist him with his involuntary celibacy problem, but I suppose it speaks to his character that he turned me down due to our history (and the fact that we’re too far apart for it to go anywhere).

          • lake replied 11 years ago

            You are a Diva Ms EllariaSand… I have a hard time imagining there are not true fans gathered near you. Do you turn your gaze on these poor devoted souls? Let them a turn to court you as well? Is it always the huntress in you that chooses?

            • Either said followers do not exist or I’m far too wrapped up in my own unrequited feelings to notice.

              I prefer the hunt to being the hunted, as I was raised to believe that nothing worth having ever comes easily.

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    Word Game
    Instructions: You can give a new word (tag it with ’New Word:’) or respond to another’s word. Responses can be no longer than four words.
    For example: if the New Word: is ’First Date’ a reply might be something like ’opportunity to impress’, ’smile and be present’, or ’A dance of desires’

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      New Word: ‘Valentine’s Day’

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Cursed holiday
      (for 20 years I never had a boyfriend, then my first boyfriend ever broke up with me on Valentine’s Day. #2 from the story ‘my second love’ proposed to me on valentines day. And my husband considers it pure consumerism and rejects it on the whole.)

      • I have to agree with the hubby that it has become pure consumerism, although that is true for all other holidays these days. I reject it also. Romance and passion should be in the daily details. When they are not, we have an annual grand gesture of love offerings.

        • lake replied 11 years ago

          Hmmm… Put that way, sounds more like a grand gesture of obligation than love. I have not figured it out yet, but like the idea that there is a happy medium out there some where, some cute personal tradition. Feeding him breakfast with your fingers in the open air or something.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      New Word: Possessiveness

    • New word: Pain

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      New Word: Care

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT FOR VALENTINE’S DAY?

    “According to WebProNews report titled “Valentine’s Day: What Women Really Want,” women want flowers, weekend getaways, jewelry, and favors. “If there is one thing women love, it’s watching their man clean. ”

    A man after all women’s hearts said to me yesterday: ” my plans are aside from the chore…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      lol… I assume he is beating them against the rocks with his shirt off, under a brilliant sky and dreamy music in the background… I have some ideas about what I’d like to do to him while he is hanging them on the line too.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I’ve actually got the laundry handled, but if he could fix my f’king laptop… well, NOW I’d have to tackle him and lick him all over.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I don’t know much, but is definitely know I do NOT want a cabbage.

      • I have to go with lake on this one, even broccoli would be better than cabbage.

    • I stand corrected! You had me very confused the cabbage and romance!

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Your list of flower choices was very interesting and on the mark for me. I collect orchids and one of my own paintings that is an altimeter favorite is a huge canvas with a single strelitzia… and I’m quite sure you were quite confident I would like your description of what you planned to do with the roses the moment you wrote it.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      I think you nailed that one luis

    • I want the recipe!

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Mmmm… I want

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    REVOLUTION

    I swear to God I want to start one. I need to start one. I can not settle, I can not push everything I want and need and desire aside. I require it be part of every day. I want to cry and be moved and reach so deep inside another that we both tremble with fear and power and bliss. Every day! What I know is, it can be done. It…[Read more]

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      So come now tell… Did you? There is still time you know.

    • Yes, I did. We pushed aside a week’s exhaustion. He gave me his time; he stayed. He came for me. I took a bath. I came for him.

    • lake replied 11 years ago

      Thank You Mallory. This makes me very happy. I love to know as a species, we are out there living this life, not just bearing it, not just surviving it, but really living it, it makes all the difference. I know what a struggle it is, but we have to fight for this level of inclusion. Savor those nights. I found my moments… too short and…[Read more]

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years ago

    Talk about parties I would like to attend…I came across this photo recently and said to myself…yup…something DEFINITELY cool is going on at THIS party!!!

    Enjoy,
    -James

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years ago

    Word Game
    Instructions: You can give a new word (tag it with ’New Word:’) or respond to another’s word. Responses can be no longer than four words.
    For example: if the New Word: is ’First Date’ a reply might be something like ’opportunity to impress’, ’smile and be present’, or ’A dance of desires’

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 11 years, 1 month ago

    This is a challenge that @lake inspired over in the Erotic Photos section (and that is an open wager between us right now) and I liked the overall idea so well, I am reposting it as an actual experiment for others. There is a photo I posted in erotic photos which has a suit wearing mans hand and fingers delicately (or not so delicately depending…[Read more]

    • You may have to keep reminding me that I am not eligible to volunteer for this!

      • Well…..
        I guess that you COULD volunteer!

        I might be able to figure out SOMETHING as to how to bring the “contest” into such a situation…

        Or we could just self assess the response that we were able to create in one another…

        Let’s see if we can get the volunteer, but if not, I would have to think long and hard about accommodating such an…[Read more]

    • I vote for lake volunteering and james demostrating long and hard.

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    Then there are a few moments that I apparently didn’t know existed…or at least I am friends with the wrong people!

    • Hmmm… I do still have my wedding dress… Of course it is not white, so I suppose it wouldn’t be the same. C ant help but feel I missed opportunity here… And now I can’t believe I didn’t think of getting at least one kind of naughty picture that day, these are so amped!

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    And then of course…there is the Honeymoon Suite!

    • Apparently there are a few highly popular pics men like to take of their new brides these days. I can’t really blame them, can you!

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    And then things get sloppy…

    • It sounds to me like you are saying that she is the type of bride that you could see yourself really looking forward to be the one she was leaving the reception with…
      Were you the groom of course!
      I can get behind that notion.

      -James

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    The Reception…where everyone lets loose!

  • Alix James posted an update in the group Group logo of Erotic PhotosErotic Photos 11 years, 1 month ago

    Photographers must see the darndest things…

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