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  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    I am now in my mid 60s (which is great, if I need cheap bus tickets!). Thankfully, my health is good, I feel and look good. I was blessed with being just over 6 feet and have kept most of my hair. I was never the guy girls went up to my buddy and wanted an introduction. I was kind of shy, very much a gentleman and always had good manners. What I…[Read more]

    • Would love to continue reading about your adventures. You write beautifully and clearly have stories to tell.

    • It would be an honor to hear about your stories. I am particularly interested in learning more about the emotional side of your erotic encounters, what moved you toward them, how did you both feel at the time, and the consequential impact afterwards.

      • I am not proud of the fact that I strayed as a husband, a married man but something inside of me said that I could not go on with a sameness in my life. We were very young when we married, barely 21 in my case, she younger. I continued to grow and yet she was content to play the part of wife, mother and not grow in interests, in life. I read a…[Read more]

        • Thank you very much for sharing such an important part of yourself. I did not ask my questions to make any kind of judgement but rather to learn more about your experiences.

        • Thanks for sharing this, and I think you touch on some of the reasons that attract us to a place like this. I’ll be curious to hear more of your adventures as time goes on.

  • thereselalune posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    This weekend my partner and I will be joining several of our friends for a weekend of camping and tubing–that is, our group’s yearly excuse to get out of the city and into the woods to drink and socialize.

    Since we have our own tent which we do not share with anyone else, we’ve never had any trouble finding opportunity to have sex on this trip,…[Read more]

    • I think you should use this weekend to put to use your seduction skills. I suggest:
      1. Sweet, erotic, sensual, and assertive touches for everyone to witness: jawlines, sides of breasts and torso, a finger tracing lips, a pinch of ass cheek, a quick tweak of nipple, a hand slipping between thighs………
      2. Bring a few sexy stories and read them…[Read more]

      • #1 is definitely something I’d do, as well as #4. #3 may be tricky as I’m not sure the logistics of where we are going, but it does sound tempting!

    • Love Mallory’s ideas. My old standby is the Fantasy Experiment. Type out a fantasy in which you won’t be identified, print it out, and leave it somewhere (slightly off in the woods) so that someone in the group will discover it. Then get incredibly excited wondering who’s getting incredible excited by it.

    • I love all of Mallory’s ideas, especially her idea of announcing that you are going skinny dipping! Late at night after everyone has loosened up with a few drinks is always nice and on the few occasions I have had to do this with friends, I have always found it be a big turn on even though everyone pretends that it is no big deal and certainly…[Read more]

      • #5 is so incredibly sexy to me and I loved the way you described it, but I’m unsure that he’d go for it. Too bad too, since having sex in public with everyone else none the wiser has always been a fantasy of mine. #6, however, is something I am sure he’d go along with and something we’ve done to some degree on these camping trips. One of my most…[Read more]

  • kinkynewlywed posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    So this weekend I’m going out of town with my mom and sister. I won’t really have any alone time. I’m wondering if anyone could think of an experiment to try under these circumstances.

    • Would you include your mom and/or sister? Tell us a little more about the out of town circumstances.

      • No not include, but maybe something I can get away with doing without getting caught. That being the thrill of course.

        • Also we will be sharing a hotel room, and I’m married so no sex with strangers (unless my husband is there to watch, which he won’t be sadly)

          • I have several dares for you.
            1. Leave your wedding ring behind, at home, boldly displayed for your husband to find and see.
            2. Depending on your activities with your mom and sister, do not wear certain or all underwear.
            3. Be sure to take a few pictures of your nakedness under your clothes and send them to your husband.
            4. Now, for the real…[Read more]

            • Wow! The young Mallory shows a distinct talent for this. I’ll be eagerly waiting to see if you can pull of some of her dares.

            • Oh I like those dares! I’m going to try, #1 I’ve already left home with my ring on so I’ll be very diligent to complete the others and report back!

              • Oh darn, ok, then you can incorporate this theme into #4. One of your flirtations might be to let the man see you playing with your ring: taking it off, putting it on, taking it off, putting it on….. ??

                • I think Mr. X is right…you do have knack for coming up with all sorts of deliciously naughty thoughts to go along with an incredibly diverse set of situations/circumstances… I am not sure what we did without you around and shudder to think of what we would do without your creative, thoughtful and timely contributions!

              • I love the enthusiasm, both in asking for the dares and in responding to those submitted by the lovely Mallory. Please don’t hold back on sharing the results!

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    This coming week, the lady and I are going to meet someone for an adventure behind closed doors. Young, virile and experienced with a couple. Will let you know how it plays out. If my lady was to be likened to a movie star, she would be Eva Marie Saint when that lady was young and in her prime. Natural beauty, blonde, classy and with savoir faire.…[Read more]

    • Can’t wait for the details! Lucky lady, and you!!

      • Will post after the private party this Thursday. One thing about bringing in a 3rd party, they have bravado, but then don’t show up or if so, cannot perform. Hoping that this shall not be a disappointment.

    • As always, looking very much forward to hearing the result.

    • You have been away for too long Alan…None of us can wait to hear how your lady is evolving and striving to reach her full sexual self and how you have been able to help her accomplish that. Very inspiring story and damn what I wouldn’t give to be that “young, virile, experienced with a couple” guy who gets to open your woman’s heart, mind and…[Read more]

      • James, “young and virile” is interesting. I am 65 and due to changes in diet, health I have never felt better in and out of the bedroom. I thought, when I was dating, after my marriage ended that I would never perform well in the bedroom again. Due to reading Wheat Belly, I dropped 25 pounds and have maintained that well. Due to having a loving…[Read more]

        • One of the things that I am always impressed by most, is how open and thoughtful and sincere you are about all of this. At the end of the day, no matter our age, our physical condition or our specific talents, we all want to be heard, understood and loved unconditionally. The unspoken truth is that, in the world we live in, it is very, very…[Read more]

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    I do not know exactly what category to put this into so please accept that. One of the most erotic events that I witnessed was by pure accident. I have been to some wild parties, seen a fair amount of open and explicit sex and have participated. One of the more erotic adventures was when I went to walk my dog. It was a very hot summer’s night and…[Read more]

    • Beautifully described, and as I find myself repeating, its all those little details that turn one on – the tree line, the billowing dress, the backlighting. Really great. Thanks.

    • This is a beautifully described story. There is something about the long, slow heat soaked days of summer that always turn me on…and to come across such a pure and unadulterated display of two people who can not contain their sexuality and embrace the sultry eroticism of being outside at night on a hot evening…I would agree that it is hard to…[Read more]

      • Thank you – never know if anyone is out there, reading. Would be great to see a simple Like button like on Facebook to encourage postings

        • This is a great idea, and I’m going to try to figure it out ASAP. I absolutely love your updates from the edge of possibility, and I’m sure many others do too. It would be great to give them an easy way to show that.

  • kinkynewlywed posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 12 years, 3 months ago

    Just started reading this blog and it’s got me thinking about my fantasies. A new one I’ve been thinking about is me coming home from work or out with friends and finding my husband with a sexy woman. Someone he met at a bar and brought home. When I walk in he will be sitting on the couch with her mouth around his cock. She seems surprised to see…[Read more]

    • That is my personal favorite!! Welcome!

    • I love this one and (of course) share it.

    • I think I speak for most men in suggesting that we could all use a wife with such a compassionate understanding of the male libido…

      Do you think he has the same fantasy- of either having you walk in on him being pleasured or of walking in on you being pleasured? Have you spoken about it? Would you ever want to see it happen or is it just a…[Read more]

      • I’ve told him about this fantasy of mine and he said he’s interested in making it happen of course. He also said he wants the same thing, he would like to come home and find me with another woman. He is always ready to see me with another woman and has a few times.

  • Jackalak posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 12 years, 3 months ago

    I’ve always had a fantasy of getting caught jerking off by my wife’s close friend. Catching me in the act, feeling a little embarrassed but wanting me to continue. I apologise but she sits down in front of me and insists I keep going. She rubs the top of her thighs and knees and keeps crossing her legs asking me how it feels to rub my cock in fro…[Read more]

    • Very, very sexy. Thanks for sharing it with us.

      • Thanks, as I was coming home from work today (wearing a tux), she was just getting out of her car to take my wife out for a couple of drinks. She said”Wow! you look great!) I played it off but all I could think was going inside the house, and fucking both her and my wife right then and there (Talk about you’re penthouse forum situation). Anyway…[Read more]

        • I love the fantasy. I’m trying to decide whether I would like to be the wife or her friend.

          • I would love to see you in BOTH those roles (or even hear all about it). Seems to be a theme to your own fantasies which I am finding very attractive!

    • This is an incredibly hot fantasy. Thank you so very much. There is just something so ingrained (more like conditioned) in men and women to hide their sexuality which makes the highly personal act of masterbation so embarrassing and shameful. Who didn’t have a parent (usually of the opposite sex) walk in on them to find them blatantly exposed…[Read more]

  • Mr. X posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    So here’s an experiment for you all: take a naked photo, as discreet as you wish, and join us in the Photo Orgy – http://www.thesexexperiment.com/groups/photo-orgy/

  • pGroup logo of Your Fantasiesosted an update in the group Your Fantasies 12 years, 3 months ago

    I love the art of seduction, to me walking into a club and spotting an attractive couple and getting them both in my bed is always a fantasy especially if they both have dark features. Being blonde and light skinned I’m attracted to darker features, it adds to the excitement.

    • Suppose you have been vacationing on a beautiful tropical island and spotted an attractive couple. They really caught your eye and the second time you spotted them, you were the lucky voyeur witnessing an anniversary celebration evidenced by the gorgeous eternity band he presented to her. Now you see them again, engrossed with each at the…[Read more]

      • I would make sure they both caught my eye, and I would wait for the woman to hit the restroom. I would go by the table and cast a flirting glance to the man, then head to the restroom where I would feel her out as to how open she was.

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 3 months ago

    My husband always had this reoccurring fantasy of interracial sex. I have always been ahead of my time as I dabbled in bisexuality and interracially back in high school but my husband had never crossed the color barrier so it was a mission of mine to satisfy his urge of both being with a black woman and at the same time seeing me with a black man.

    • Yum. And? Don’t leave us hanging!

      • I always feel things will happen naturally if you’re open and aware of your surroundings. The first opportunity came at a Halloween party sponsored by a local radio station. We have always loved Halloween parties and it’s an open excuse to let your hair down and be adventurous. My husband and I went as a Nurse and Doctor. In order to set my plan i…[Read more]

        • Oh, please cum more soon!

        • My husband got ready first and was watching football on the TV while I took my time preparing myself to be the bait for a fun filled erotic evening. Legs shaved, pussy trimmed, nails, hair and makeup done. I slipped on my outfit and came out for my husband to see. He loved it as I knew he would, it’s every red blooded man’s fantasy to have a hot…[Read more]

  • laxhoorah posted an update in the group Group logo of Your FantasiesYour Fantasies 12 years, 3 months ago

    I would love to have Skype sex with a dominating woman. Both of us covering who we really are but with her calling the shots and telling me what she wants.

  • pGroup logo of Your Experimentsosted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months ago

    Not exactly an experiment, but this seems like it would be the best place for it, so a question for all of you. I’m a virgin (as you might know if you’ve seen some of my other posts). I’ve read a lot online, and from what I’ve read it seems that guys tend to orgasm before their partners more often than not (hence the tips to ‘distract’ yourself…[Read more]

    • Stressing about that kind of thing for your first time, will kill any enjoyment you will get from the experience. You always remember your first time, and if it was a horror story, you set yourself up for failure for a long time to come. I’ve had guys that were done before they even got in, I’ve had guys go for three hours and still not be done.…[Read more]

      • Great sex is not an isolated event; it is a continuous work-in-progress. Start the “work” when you meet her and you know you are interested. Each communication, each interaction, each date should be part of the the seductive work-in-progress. Mr. X has detailed how to do this very well; read up. Keep making her hot. When you finally get to…[Read more]

      • Good advice from the ladies, here. We all do incredibly embarrassing things – the charm comes from laughing about it.

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