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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 11 months agoSame question for the men:
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 11 months agoFor the women :
1. What melts you ?
2. What arouses you?
3. What wins your devotion?-
I will answer the easiest first. Aroused most by anticipation, variety, sensuality, intelligence, generousity, attention to detail.
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I’m gonna go out on a limb here Mallory and say… I think you would find me very arousing… Now if only I could get you to let me test this theory!
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@Mall on devotion – oh yes, yes, yes
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What melts me?
I don’t know.
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You know 😉
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What Melts Me
Guys are wonderful at saying they are going to savor every inch of your body. I melt when I am with someone that makes me feel this… experience every inch as a wonderland and reminds me of it all the time, not just when we are making love. Hands slowly moving down the full length of my waist and over the top of my ass when we…[Read more]-
Check…Check…and…Double Check!!!!
Well then…it is settled…at least in these regards it seems that we might be a perfect match!
Considering that I am one who is always ready willing and able to celebrate good fortune (others as much as my own!), it seems that all we have left to do now is consummate our incredible luck in having found…[Read more]
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Well then if it’s settled 🙂 … And of course you are going to need someone to take pictures for you to satisfy Mallory… It almost seems like fighting destiny to resist at this point, and I definitely wouldn’t want to do that.
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What Melts Me?
I thought about this one a lot. I really did not have a ready answer, lake. I think what could really get to me is the rare occasion when someone sees with great clarity, a part of me that no one else bothers to understand or uncover.
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I can’t yet claim to have a complete picture of you just yet Mrs. Mallory (you are a complex one – but you already knew that didn’t you!), but I do believe I have already formed a a pretty exceptional insight in you and SEE many parts of your true (and often hidden) self much more clearly than you are probably ready to admit! I guess I say this…[Read more]
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To instill trust, to be trustworthy, to protect and nurture and respect those thoughts, feelings, and wants of another person that make them feel most revealed, most vulnerable… What more powerful way is there to build a heartstopping, unforgettable bond and to cultivate a dynamic infused with reverie?
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Thank you barrister, your participation is absolutely counted, enjoyed, and anticipated. I shall attempt my upload again… See if it works.. Then I have to run to dinner!
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I love this, I am sure you have made everyone quite jealous of Mrs Barrister!
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Oh, there is much Mrs Barrister has to be thankful for, but my jealousy tends more towards Mr. Barrister! One would think that having someone so unselfishly devoted to them in the ways Mr. barrister has described as the ideal, but it actually works both ways…I am jealous of his having found a woman who will let him inside to such a degree…to…[Read more]
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Gentlemen, you restore my faith in our species.
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years agoAccording to scientists, women are most attracted to the smell of cucumber mixed with the candy Good & Plenty.
Move over, trick-or-treaters, that candy’s mine.
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I do like cucumber, but I’m not so big on Good & Plenty or black licorice. I want to invent a new one cucumber and orange 🙂
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Interesting image as well.
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This one is close orange sanguine by atelier cologne
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I will go experience it.
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I swear, wtf, even you saying that just turned me on.
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years agoThis isn’t an experiment so much as it is an honest question (so a “truth,” I guess). For those who have experienced it, what is it like to suck a man’s cock? I am decidedly not gay but there is just something about sucking off a thick, warm cock and having a man’s sticky, steamy juices gushing into my mouth that I find so appealing…
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I can only give you my perspective, Andrew. “Sucking a man’s cock” for me is a more complex process than just the mere act of sucking. It is a series of sensual pleasures I want to give, a series of mind blowing intensities I want him to experience. On the receiving end, I savor the texture, the taste. I feel the pulsing, the urgency.…[Read more]
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Mmmm…you do have a gift Mrs. M! Both for words AND for the fearless way you can express your tactile, sensory perceptions and connect with the more primal feelings and emotions which underpin them. This is beautiful!
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Just out of curiosity Mr. Flemming…there is a slight but potentially relevant difference in the way you described what it is that you find appealing and what Mallory expressed…more of an offering…giving more than taking.
Which do you find more arousing…the physical sensations (sight, texture, smell, taste) and mental and emotional aspects…[Read more]
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@James, i think the two things your talking about are both real aspects, but not separate, maybe not even distinct. At a certain point giving and taking converge and are not distinguishable. I’d compare it to having a raging hard on while you eat pussy. Thrilling in what your sensing and all of both of your reactions. In a way, i find it…[Read more]
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I never thought of it that way mrs. L…but now that you mention it, I suppose that would be a bit of a game changer wouldn’t it. The same would hold true for women I suppose (going with the notion that if it were physically more practical for men it might be for women as well…), I suppose that blowjobs and cunnilingus would each become more…[Read more]
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years agoThe inspiration that Mrs. Mallory provided me continues…This is a second installment of the same “Fantasy” which resulted from Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
I previously told a story that set the stage and made the result clear enough, but I never really explained what happened between those two points…[Read more]
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This was an enlightening look at how a first date can be negotiated and played. It is pretty fascinating for me. Makes me wish I tick a different way. All the men in my life, past and present, have a level of patience rivaling that of saints.
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I admit this is my own totally imagined version of what I often think that women are thinking…how they position and process and contextualize certain things. After I posted it, I got a little self conscious because I realized that I could be totally off, and if I was, I certainly would be showing just how clueless I really am…in fact in how…[Read more]
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I found your account fascinating because it is rare to get this much thought detail from a man’s perspective. For example, even in roleplaying, my male partner(s) can get into numerous details about the physical events from mundane to sexual. However, it is rare to hear as much about the thoughts and emotions.
I do not let people in easily, t…[Read more]
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Interesting…I definitely know that I am different from most men, so I will take that as a compliment!
Good color on you as well…
Last question, is there any “truth” to my characterization of the potential thought process of a woman along the lines depicted?
I guess my own experience is that absent being the best looking man or being the…[Read more]
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I do think there are women who would respond and think as you described.
I think you are wrong that smart, sensitive, thoughtful guys are passed over. I think it is harder for both men and women with greater depth to break the ice with each other. I find it very hard to answer your question, perhaps because there is not a general one to give?
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“unexpected, unsolicited, wildly enthusiastic blow-job equivalents” go a long way in both directions… also just sayin 😉
I don’t know that I would say it is the norm for all women, but I’ve seenexperienced a version of this with a certain type of woman. Personally, I’m about as guarded and hesitant as a hungry three year old in a candy…[Read more]
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I will also add, I think wonderful women feel passed over or feel ‘invisible’ to men every bit as much as you’ve described. I think it has a lot more to do with being human than being a man or a woman. I also believe it has so much less to do with the fact that people haven’t noticed you, or don’t want you, or are trying to protect against you…[Read more]
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Agreed!
And I am “passed over” all the time!
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For whatever reason the comments by both lake and Mallory remind me of a comment I made a while back about the wonders (and consequences) of modern technological advancements in how we are socializing. First, the wonderful ability to take a few risks and put ourselves out there so much more fearlessly (at least on a preliminary basis) are so much…[Read more]
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James, your fantasy together with the conversations here got me fantasizing about getting hit upon and possibly being picked up. I decided to hijack the Erotic Collaboration you and I started (Untitled), as the setting for this fantasy. I hope you do not mind.
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But of course…what better way to build off of something than to use what has already been established!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years agoAs a follow-up to lakes TRUTH: Unique/Quirky Turn Ons question…
Mallory suggested nice sheets to which I suggested 100% linen being the absolute best! Well, here are my rumpled 100% linen sheets for all of you to contemplate! I posted a picture with me in them over in the Photo Orgy group!
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Alix James posted an update in the group
Your Fantasies 11 years agoThis “Fantasy” was a result of Mrs. Mallory’s recent post in the Photo Orgy section of the website…
If you haven’t signed up to the group, you will certainly get the picture, although I much prefer to see her version rendered in the flesh (or at least pixels!)…well…for now!!!My first thought when I saw you posed like that was…”what if some…[Read more]
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Holy shit… I am speechless. I have to tell you that really messed with my head… But I suspect that will come as no surprise.
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The real fun twist with this, is all the explicit dialogue (internal or otherwise) around not wanting to loose control, when it is so clear that the truth is the opposite. It is a fabulous metaphor for the conundrum of human sexuality in our culture.
Aren’t we all begging, yearning, craven for the opposite? To be that free primal sexual…[Read more]
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I’m dizzy from your fantasy and flattered you got SO VERY inspired, James.
Just how did I end up here, bent over, and ready to show you all of me? I’m going to let you have me, use me however you like because you are going to somehow, in your gentlemanly and cavemanly way, let your best friend know what the possibilities are down my erotic and…[Read more]
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Mmmm…
I suspected you would be dizzy…that’s probably the best sign yet!
I cant think if a better way for us to become acquainted…can you?
PS: My friend would NEVER find out…a treasure such as yourself would be worth protecting and you would definitely be under my protection from that moment forward!
Not only that, I expect that with…[Read more]
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Oh…and I meant to also mention that I absolutely LOVE the thought of your “erotic and sexual abyss!”
Umph!…
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I loved that thought too.
And as for this, “your true path lies with those who see you for who you really are, and choose to accept all of you, and are able to support and nurture the whole you in the ways that you want and need the most in life.” I say AMEN!!
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years agoMy Second Love –
I was 21, in grad school, 6% body fat, and poor as a church mouse. I lived in a rented room in an apartment with three girls. I had a mattress and a stack of books in my room. Some clothes in the closet, not much else. I worked in a lab 9 to 5 part paid, part sponsorship doing research for my thesis. I took classes from 6 to…[Read more]
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When we were young and living with little, and by the same token, living without many obligations, we had the freedom to love like we have never been hurt. Our youth did not necessarily give us the wisdom to hold that trust dear, or the strength to withstand the crushing burden of evolving duties on love and desire.
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Oh to keep on loving… Hard and full and unbridled
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I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment. It is absolutely the truth that love and desire do evolve profoundly over time and with familiarity and that the duties increase as well and often seem to become a burden (and sometimes a crushing one)!
But that is really where I have struggled most in my own life…that is what has frustrated me the…[Read more]
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There is so much here that I would love to respond directly to, but I will just say relative to what you wrote, I do think you are on to a profound point. One that is very counter to conventional thinking ( and we all know how successful that is).
I think love and desire are fundamental aspects of our being and biology. I think in their native…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTHE GAME
So our three weeks are up. I can add up the points, but I think it is safe to say the women totally dominated this contest. I’ll even give everyone to the end of the weekend, if the guys want to try to make a run.
Now I just have to remember, did we say ALL the men have to pay up or just the ones that participated? Actually, given…[Read more]
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And I think hands down, lake won most of the points for the women! YAY, lake!
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Finally, I win something, i was trounced in that last photo orgy game, i dont think i won a single week! Now we need to seriously talk about payoffs!
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Find a way to masturbate today, that you\’ve never done before. Use something new, touch yourself in a different place, in a different way. Go somewhere new, think about or watch something unusual.
And of course extra points if you write up the story and share!
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Is one person enough?
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Ha! I was just going to add a truth, ‘is monogamy your ideal? Is it your partners ideal?’
For me, one person can be enough, but more and more at this point in my life, ‘enough’ is not the goal? The goal that is evolving for me is a connection in which we honor one another’s absolute truth. Live without built in boundaries. Live to the…[Read more]
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So well said, lake. Love your self understanding.
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It helps to be old, one figures themselves out eventually 🙂
I do think this is so individual. One of my life long friends is in an open relationship for the last 12 years. Her girlfriend has had a handful of other ‘partners’, but she never has once (and I know she gets offers), she just truly is not interested, she has a natural type of love…[Read more]
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My truth is no, one person is not enough. And nor have I been truly just one person over the course of my life.
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You know your just encouraging me… Aren’t I insufferable enough?
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Yes but accompanied by so much charm and intelligence!
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Lol, perfect response – you do that to me in person and I’d sweep you right up and ravish you!
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I have no idea from whence these thoughts eminated…and I am definitely stepping right in the middle of something that I have no right to do…but I just log back in for the first time in a while and for some reason this chain was one of the first things that appeared. All I can say is, the thought of two incredibly delicious lovelies…[Read more]
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James let me state this for the record… Rights or no rights you should feel free to insert yourself (via the Dr Seuss rule) here or there, ANYWHERE as far as I’m concerned. Oh, and I would also add often… Hmm and repeatedly, yes definitely repeatedly.
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Good to see you, James. Can lake be any clearer with regard how she likes it?
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If I make it any clearer, I shall have to take dr Seuss out of the picture, he is too much of a hero, I’d feel I had used his name in vain.
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Well, I must say that with the either of you, I am sure that I would insert myself here or there, well…just about anywhere. In a house (I’d skip the mouse), or in a box (forget the fox!), in a car, in a tree, on a train, in the dark, umm…not with a goat…but definitely on a boat!
Where would you like me to insert myself?
Please tell…[Read more]-
Here in my mouth so soft and wet. Eager to suck, to lick, to open.
There in my cunt so warm and slick and sweet. Push through and control me.
Anywhere… So hot and tight, impale me, break me, fill me.
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Here in my erotic mind what lusts do you find.
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Lol… We are a perfect pair… I take the low road and you take the high, it’s damn fabulous.
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Well, James, lake has declared it. She and I are perfect. If you are smart, you’d insert yourself between the two of us.
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Mmmm…
I’ve long believed that you and lake together would come about as close to “perfection” as I could imagine.
All I have to figure out now is whether this is a tease or an offer?
Also, I would like to point out that inserting myself between you two lovelies in all the ways I am imagining has slightly more to do with my libido than my IQ…[Read more]
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Oh James, how you have been missed!
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I assure you THAT feeling is mutual! Is there a plural version of mutual…I wouldn’t want to somehow exclude lake from that sentiment! It feels nice to be back
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Yes, yes do NOT exclude lake… you are not the only one with those concerns, I just spent two days imagining one hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while the other pulls your cock into my mouth… I know a bit about pressure.
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Really?!? That’s funny…I spent the last two days imagining your hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while your other hand was pulling my cock into your mouth also!
In fact, the only real difference was that her mouth was buried deeply between your legs and her hands were playing with my balls and toying with my…[Read more]-
I can’t say I don’t agree… Though I would say I don’t so much like to handle pressure as I like to relieve pressure… Mallory how fast can you get here?
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Oh my goodness! I just got here. Wow I really suck.
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What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
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Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoPick your top two: communication, sexual fulfillment, being taken care off, trust, commitment, humor
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Trust and communication.
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Well, I have to agree but disagree…
I agree with the importance of Trust and Communication above the others from your list.
But I think your list is lacking what I believe is THE most important part which allows people to not only have great communication but also to build trust….ACCEPTANCE!
If you can not accept yourself for who you are…[Read more]
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I certainly agree with you that acceptance is critical. lake’s list, I believe, is in no way meant to be finite. We should include acceptance, along with probably a bunch of others.
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My intent with the list was more about weighing the five in that list against each other than listing the top five ( and James you never actually answered that question!). But I do love where this has gone, however now it’s gotten me philosophical which
I really try not to do to overdue here, but I can’t resist on this one now. Hey, good…[Read more]-
Oh wait… Sorry you did answer! Seems we are all on the same page on that one too… Hmmmm, it must be more than I coincidence, I think it may mean we should at least be considering a threesome, I mean we wouldn’t want to piss off the fates by ignoring such a clear sign!?!
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Well said. I think that you actually have captured the true meaning of acceptance as I was suggesting.
Accepting others in general is not so difficult in school or at work or with a friend or family member you see on rare occasions, but with a partner, in a day to day relationship, over years if not decades?!?
Holy hell…actually…[Read more]
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As someone who knows myself… that is a lot of acceptance! I do hope you don’t embarrass easily… Oh, wait, scratch that, we all already know that you don’t!
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Well, I can say that despite considerably efforts in this regards, I have not yet been able to rise above the point of becoming embarrassed entirely (or feeling shame or being humiliated for that matter), but I have become better able to place all of that in context! That stems from really working to accept oneself and, when pushed closer to the…[Read more]
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
For what and/or for whom do you yearn?
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Master always.
Freedom, acceptance, courage, love, intimacy, play, being caught up in wild raucous moments, epiphany, connection, being taken, being impressed, being surprised, being cared for, being valued, being seen and understood, acknowledgement, perfect service, meaning, growth, expansion, integrity, vulnerability, inspiration, sensation,…[Read more]
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I yearn most for TRUTH. For the wild and unexpected and beautiful and seemingly endless inspiration which comes from TRUTH! And although there are a few universal truths, to be clear those are largely not the ones I seek. The TRUTH I speak of is largely NOT some universal thing…it is often situational…it varies…it changes over time…it…[Read more]
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There was a time, when I thought certain things about myself were fact – just always going to be so about me. After the fourth or fifth time of having one of these ‘facts’ completely unravel in new situations or because of a shift in my thinking, I too stopped believing that who I know myself to be is fixed. I think we are so much more infinite…[Read more]
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Make an audio recording of yourself climaxing.
DOUBLE DARE: Share it here.
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TRIPLE DARE: Both of you together!
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I’m inspired by your inspiration! Bravo… What was it like listening to it afterward without any visual accompaniment? What did you notice that you had not before?
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Mmmm…perfect, I do think this one of the best things about photos or videos or records even writing or having conversations about an special experience, all the ways it allows you to experience that moment again! Which leads to the next experience!!
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What do you regret?
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Surprisingly, very little of what I actually did… Much more what I didn’t do, so not being braver earlier in life. Not knowing how to channel my feelings in constructive ways and burying them instead for far too long.
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I agree 100% with lake on this one…just how much i didn’t know and how unprepared all of us really are to process so much of how I related with others when I was younger. Time and experience and wisdom would have allowed me to take so much more from the glorious (in hindsight) variety of experiences which were right in front of me. Lets just…[Read more]
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Wrongful joy.
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What is wrongful joy?
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Are you a…
Breasts/Pecs or Ass or Legs….
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Really, you want me to eliminate any one of those? I am not strong enough at present, I shall have to ponder it more.
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Indeed! Makes me want to put on a short skirt and start to reminisce of being in my twenties again
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I’d be into you in a nice kilt! Or well… Anything!
Makes me think of another dare, where people have to go out wearing some completely over the top garment.
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoFirst, put yourself in a place where you will be able to strike up a conversation with a stranger without it being too out-of-the-blue. A coffee shop or library could work well; personally I used a classroom. Once you are in your place, find a stranger who excites you sexually. Give them a name and a personality, maybe even a backstory if you’re…[Read more]
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Andrew scores for the gentlemen… We’re still creaming y’all though 😉
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Who makes you hotter? Bad guy/girl or Nice guy/girl?
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Hmmm, can’t I say both?! If I have to pick, Bad girls and Nice guys
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A bad girl but not in a trashy sense. It’s more like a girl with class who knows exactly what she wants sexually.
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Nice guy with a mind for bad.
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It depends on where you are in the spectrum. I personally enjoy both. There is not much that I find hotter than working to make a good girl turn bad, and there is nothing that makes me want to step up to the plate faster than a bad girl turning her sights (and skills) on me!!! I guess that I want to show the good girls what they have always…[Read more]
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Come on guys… I want you to spill it! I’ll even put some skin in the game, if three people answer, I’ll post a new pic.
I hope I count as a people. If yes, we only two of you guys!!
I meant three guys have to answer this question… However, since I find the two of you completely irresistible and I love Duke’s answers, AND I am horny now… I will go and post. Note, this game is not over, if we still get to three, I will… shall we say… up the ante on what I post… Either better focus or less clothes… we shall see how…[Read more]
1) Melts me…witnessing the shudder of a woman as a wave of pleasure momentarily overwhelms her and she relaxes into it…accepts it…embraces it and allows it to course through her body and take her deeper into her head…more into the moment and less concerned with whatever else is going on around her
2) Arouses me…glimpses of unfiltered…[Read more]
One and two are so very you James, three surprised me, not that it doesn’t fit, but that it was your response to that particular question. At first it seemed too passive, but then I realized it is all about acceptance and being or authenticity, and that fit well with your comments about separating or not associating love directly with someone’s…[Read more]