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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 5 months agoThe First Kiss [of the relationship]What did it signify?
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Sex & Music 10 years, 5 months agoA reminder of all the times I raced across town in the middle of the night on my bicycle to meet or chase down a tryst. For all the names I whispered, sighed or shouted as idolatrous prayers late at night.
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What an interesting voice on her.
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ellariasand posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 5 months agoThe Bicycle Experiment 2.5(?)
When I told my therapist about this and wondered why he would come out of the woodwork after an extended period of radio silence, she simply stated “Guys like him ALWAYS come back.”
I was nursing yet another case of heartache (aka The Bicycle Experiment 3.0, which I really don’t think I can write about just because…[Read more]
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I’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly “banged” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).
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I think this one needs to be double teamed for the whipping.
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I read about your Bad Lad here and he just symbolizes so much of your rides and races. The obstacles that pop up. You know you can’t win all the time. But crossing the finish line is always a possibility. And the occasional win is so incredibly seductive, you keep going for it.
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Sadly, I have yet to actually win a race, so this metaphor is accurate in a sad way.
One of my teammates interjected with “it’s not a game” when I talked about sabotaging my relationships by trying to look ten moves in. I should have replied with “Well, if romance/sex isn’t a game, then why do I always feel like I’m losing?”
Also, yes, double…[Read more]
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From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]
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Oh I am well aware that he’s a trap and his interest in me is most likely proportional to how much attention he is or isn’t getting from others.
Very astute observations. I told a friend of mine the story of one of my gym teachers in high school. I loathed this guy since he had the stench of failed college athlete wafting of of him in waves.…[Read more]
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Got it! And sounds like you do too. Agree completely with the last paragraph.
P.s. Nothing wrong with tenderness, sometimes it is in fact just exactly what we need. There is not one of us that is invulnerable nor should we be. 🙂
P.s.s. Keep the adventures coming!
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoNEW GAME
Ask a true or false question.
Next person answers all previous questions then adds a question. So I\’ll start the first two:1st: Dark Chocolate is better than Milk Chocolate
2nd: True
Kissing is Better than a Massage
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSETRUE or FALSE: The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex.
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Oh wait! This one got skipped!
I’d rather be in love, than be loved.
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
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I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.
Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
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Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: TRUE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
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I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE
When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)
I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on…[Read more]
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Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: FALSE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE (I believe this has more to do with presuming that we really know each other well enough to stop trying to discover (or uncover) more and the complacency t…[Read more]-
This is difficult, most of my answers would be “depends on the situation” except that’s clearly not an option so I’ll have to pick one.
Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
Kissing better than massage: FALSE
I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
People are finite,…[Read more]
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I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE
I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to…[Read more]
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I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. TRUE
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I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great…[Read more]
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Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. FALSE
The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. TRUEReal people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” True or false?
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The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)
Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoTrue art is characterized by an irresistible urge in the creative artist.
~Albert EinsteinTell us something about an irresistible urge of yours. Even a fleeting one. Maybe a perpetual one. Something you\’ve yet to realize? Something you can not go a day without…
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Oh… So the Other Master is also a salacious tease! 😉
and when the maiden begs with her quivering lip… what mercy would you show her then Sir?Okay this is a little creepy, but I’m a chic and I look straight so sorry guys, i do get away with it… In the subway, walking up the longer stair cases, I like to position myself behind a lovely in…[Read more]
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Standing at the edge… With the siren’s song rising from deep within the abyss, and the song thrums the very membrane of your cells and vibration stirs the instinct that hundreds of thousands of years of evolution has wired into every system in your body. You stand there, but that instinct whispers, ‘jump’ or maybe your a person or it’s a day…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoIf the essence of my being has caused a smile to have appeared upon your face or a touch of joy within your heart. Then in living – I have made my mark.”
Thomas L. Odem, Jr
Some things really are just simple.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoFuck! I was going to be late again, and possibly late enough to lose the reservation. I wanted to text her so she would know to talk to them and ensure they held the table, but I was having a hard time admitting to myself how late I was actually going to be. It was also just a crappy way to kick off the date, so I only wrote, ‘on my way, not…[Read more]
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I read that and it made my nipples hard and tight and tingling. Nevermind elsewhere….
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Funny…it wasn’t my nipples that got all hard and tight and tingling reading this! But I can definitely relate to your point about “elsewhere”!
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Yes that lake is an alluring seductress!
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You took the words right out of my mouth!
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Speaking of your mouth…
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Never mind elsewhere is not really in the realm of my possibilities.
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Oh my word…. its exactly how I imagine it would be.
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I read your response and I was excited to see lakes story resonate for you and then I realized that there are more than one way to interpret what “exactly” you “imagin[ed] it [to] be”!
Were you imagining what it would be like when lake met a submissive woman for dinner?
Were you imagining what it would be like to take a submissive woman to…[Read more]
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Well before anyone gets too invested, I have to warn you, our odds are long on this. She is genuine, sensual, earnest, beautifully non-judgemental, very much of her own mind, proud, lots of self respect, accomplished, smart, has high integrity, an adventurous spirit, and even if she is confused by how she responds to me… She clearly does…[Read more]
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As Mallory suggested…the slow build-up can be as equally rewarding as the abandoned “all-in” approach…
One thing is certain…if she gets comfortable and does ultimately choose submit herself under your conditions, then it will undoubtedly also allow her to give herself over as thoroughly and completely as she really longs for. That fact alone…[Read more]
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I have developed an appreciation for the slow build up, but there comes a point when there is no longer any point in not getting what one wants…
There comes a point when giving in is the only thing that does make sense.
If all the pieces are in place, and she still chooses not to be comfortable, and the moments that are there, I have to…[Read more]
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I’m smiling at the thought of that myself!!! Thanks for the response. Although you have to admit there is something inherently submissive about being so passive in allowing another woman to slowly taunt and tease you until you have been taken don’t you think? Another thought that brings a smile to my face!!!
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I am searching through my history trying to recall ANY woman who was not into being slowly taunted and teased and eventually taken…
closest I can think of… I did get slapped in the face once, but I don’t count that because, I was just trying to pick her up, I had not established any connection or gotten to anything physical yet (I’d had a…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoOkay think of something you need that over the course of your life has proven to be difficult to get or difficult to get enough of.
Now think of a time when you did… Write a bit to describe it to us… Including how you were affected.
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I need to be seen, understood, cherished. I need to reach, be inspired, and be turned on.
The hardest of these is to be understood and inspired. The two that have done it best have resulted in the most insanely powerful, wildly sexual long term interactions of my life.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoOkay we\’ll play fair, now
Women need men…
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Do you think it is more difficult to recognize and acknowledge exactly what it is that most women really do need to get that only men might provide…
Or do you think that it is harder to actually just come right out and say it?!?
Either way, I am still waiting for SOMEONE to comment on this!!!
-James
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I have to admit I did not have a ready answer for this and I have no idea why! Therefore at your prodding I will give this more thought.
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James are you suggesting that women are hesitating to admit that they want and need to get drilled by their man?
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To hold doors open for them. Haha…. I’m just kidding.
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With the advent and selection of various “toys”, one could assume that women wouldn’t really need men for sex. But to quote someone “nothing feels like the real thing”. So there is still hope for us men lol
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Women need authentic men who can offer their full, undivided presence. It is anchoring and affirming to women.
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At a global level, women need men to sacrifice themselves so that others can live and honor that sacrifice.
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Women need men who have balance, who know what they want, honest with themselves if they don’t, who have courage, who can do the right thing, who are generous, and who can put someone else ahead of themselves.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoComplete this sentence:
Men need women…
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To procreate.
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Sounds mushy gushy, but men need women to feel complete.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoBest reasons to take a risk?
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When the reward out ways the risk involved
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On that same note the risk of “getting caught” is pretty fun too 😉
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The rewards
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For the sake of someone else.
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Great choice
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It’s a doorway to discovery
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 6 months agoFavorite sensations against your skin?
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Sunshine on my belly
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Being in the water
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Swimming makes you horny right? Or is it all of the exposed skin?
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Oh yes swimming makes me horny. I guess it’s a feeling of being free. Skinny dipping is better though 😉
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Definitely…something about the sensation of the pressure and sensation of the water flowing across your skin how it creates a variety of different swirling vortices along different parts of the body as it moves through the water is very stimulating to the skin which combined with the effects of weightlessness and how it affects the blood flow m…[Read more]
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I swim almost every night under the summer sky. The water wraps me while music fills my ears.
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I have a couple of other ideas about how to wrap you.
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Lips kissing skin. Especially the backside of any part of the body.
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I love lips right on the side of my eye, slow and soft, so I can breathe him in when he does it.
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So many favorites…but come on…as a man…there is no greater “sensation on skin” that when your cock presses through the tight smooth entrance of a woman’s pussy for the first time when having sex (not just the first sexual experience, but the first penetration on each separate sexual experience same woman or not)! There are more intense…[Read more]
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Cool grass on bare feet
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One Eyed Willie posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 7 months agoAnother date night cumming soon lol. We are thinking of going out to a bar and mingle some, and who knows from there. ….
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You can even pretend not to know each other.
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That thought did cross our minds @ Mallory lol
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Tell the people you meet it’s your date night and see if they have any kinky or sexy recommendations for you! 🙂
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One Eyed Willie posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 7 months agoLast night my wife and I had a date night. After reading the blog, I got some ideas (thanks X). I challenged her to wear a skirt and low cut shirt, which is kind of daring for her. The kicker was that she was to wear no panties and show off as much cleavage as possible. She pulled it off like a champ but I guess the twist was that I don’t…[Read more]
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I’d say we call that one a win win.
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Now I must know… Exactly when is the next date night?
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Soon hopefully
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Soon…. My third favorite answer, after very soon, and now! 🙂
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Unfortunately date nights take some planning. Our most recent one prior to this last one was quite a while ago. I am going to have to start taking some more vacation days from shift to make then cum more often 😉 maybe next weekend 🙂
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Looking for new ideas and things to try
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Surely you have found plenty of ideas here on the blog, Your Experiments, Your Fantasies, Erotic Collaboration, and all of our comments.
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I have gotten some great ideas from here. So glad we found this place. I’m sure we will come up with something fun and interesting to try. It seems we push boundaries and expand ideas and experiments each day.
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Oh yes, let’s go with taking a vacation day love they Idea of being truant and free. Maybe have her arrive where you two will meet ahead of you, again dressed in way that she feels exposed. Have her pick a spot to stand and wait for you, then close her eyes and be still, not to open them until she is told to. Obviously, you then have a…[Read more]
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This is a great tale about how the simple unseen things can make all the difference in the world for a couple to get themselves in the right….well…mindset! I also love your choice of words…”the twist”! I simply love the art and craft of creating palpable sexual tension , pushing and pulling and twisting and turning in all the predictable…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 10 years, 7 months agoLet\’s make a list called \’These are a few of my favorite things\’
Give up the goods folks!
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When I can smell him on me for the rest of the day after we’ve fucked.
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Sexting all day and fu $#@*g all night
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When his eyes drop with that little nod then come straight back into mine, signaling it’s time to get on his cock, and I am instantly in motion.
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The way she smiles and bites her lip as I gently tease her pussy
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That my fantasies don’t freak him out.
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When he pulls my panties back up for me.
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The way she quivers and moans as I nibble at the back of her neck and behind her ears. Mmmmmm
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The way her entire body goes stiff and her breathing catches and her eyes flicker and her face goes expressionless and all intentional communication stops cold for a brief moment at my first touch – EVERY SINGLE TIME WE MEET!
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The way that even after we have greeted one another and settled into whatever conversation or activity, how there are certain spots that I touch…trigger points…that cause the whole process described above to happen all over again…only progressively more intensely. When I take her hand…when I wrap my arm around her waist and rest my hand on…[Read more]
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My, my James what have you done to this girl! 😉
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I have been myself with her and let her know exactly who I am and what I want most not just from her but from life.
As for her, I have accepted her…ALL of her!…and she knows that I will never hold or use any aspect of the beautiful sexual creature that she is against her or use her offerings in a way that would be inconsistent with what I…[Read more]
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Don’t we all LOVE the first kiss?!? The first kiss is ‘I like you’, ‘I get you’, ‘I want you’. It is possibility, it is heat, and energy, and connecting to another person. It is putting the idea that you may one day go deeper into each other on the table. My last fist kiss was Tuesday. It resulted in another date Wed 🙂
I can’t capture the link, but go to “Amalie first kiss” on YouTube
My last first kiss was last Monday. I am still speechless. It was the culmination of a very long sequence of flirtation, discovery, and “getting” each other.
Ooolala… You know I want to know more! This is very exciting.
What did it signify?
Where did it lead?
I am assuming man, is that correct?
Ummm…I know I haven’t been active recently, so I will assume you have been saving your story until it might be met by a sufficiently ruptured audience!!! Consider me fully engaged not THIS development…
I believe at least a little background and a few more scintillating details are in order. I would gladly share my own evolution were it…[Read more]
See more recent post above for a little more detail.
Anything of mine pales in comparison to your awesome adventures.
Agree that we want to know more, we are very interested… Come now don’t tease us 😉
Oh and by the way, while we are all confessing… Luis, you’ve also been quiet/distracted lately… Is there anything you might be needing to share with us? :). I am big on hearing about all types of adventures! Seems there is always something new or old to be experienced or revisited from the inspiration and provocation!
Yeah, James. Come now…
I actually meant that for you Mallory, but when you put it like that… Well, I want that for everybody!