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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Is one person enough?
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoPick your top two: communication, sexual fulfillment, being taken care off, trust, commitment, humor
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Trust and communication.
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Ditto
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Well, I have to agree but disagree…
I agree with the importance of Trust and Communication above the others from your list.
But I think your list is lacking what I believe is THE most important part which allows people to not only have great communication but also to build trust….ACCEPTANCE!
If you can not accept yourself for who you are…[Read more]
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I certainly agree with you that acceptance is critical. lake’s list, I believe, is in no way meant to be finite. We should include acceptance, along with probably a bunch of others.
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My intent with the list was more about weighing the five in that list against each other than listing the top five ( and James you never actually answered that question!). But I do love where this has gone, however now it’s gotten me philosophical which
I really try not to do to overdue here, but I can’t resist on this one now. Hey, good…[Read more]-
Oh wait… Sorry you did answer! Seems we are all on the same page on that one too… Hmmmm, it must be more than I coincidence, I think it may mean we should at least be considering a threesome, I mean we wouldn’t want to piss off the fates by ignoring such a clear sign!?!
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Well said. I think that you actually have captured the true meaning of acceptance as I was suggesting.
Accepting others in general is not so difficult in school or at work or with a friend or family member you see on rare occasions, but with a partner, in a day to day relationship, over years if not decades?!?
Holy hell…actually…[Read more]
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As someone who knows myself… that is a lot of acceptance! I do hope you don’t embarrass easily… Oh, wait, scratch that, we all already know that you don’t!
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Well, I can say that despite considerably efforts in this regards, I have not yet been able to rise above the point of becoming embarrassed entirely (or feeling shame or being humiliated for that matter), but I have become better able to place all of that in context! That stems from really working to accept oneself and, when pushed closer to the…[Read more]
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
For what and/or for whom do you yearn?
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Master always.
Freedom, acceptance, courage, love, intimacy, play, being caught up in wild raucous moments, epiphany, connection, being taken, being impressed, being surprised, being cared for, being valued, being seen and understood, acknowledgement, perfect service, meaning, growth, expansion, integrity, vulnerability, inspiration, sensation,…[Read more]
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I yearn most for TRUTH. For the wild and unexpected and beautiful and seemingly endless inspiration which comes from TRUTH! And although there are a few universal truths, to be clear those are largely not the ones I seek. The TRUTH I speak of is largely NOT some universal thing…it is often situational…it varies…it changes over time…it…[Read more]
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There was a time, when I thought certain things about myself were fact – just always going to be so about me. After the fourth or fifth time of having one of these ‘facts’ completely unravel in new situations or because of a shift in my thinking, I too stopped believing that who I know myself to be is fixed. I think we are so much more infinite…[Read more]
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Make an audio recording of yourself climaxing.
DOUBLE DARE: Share it here.
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TRIPLE DARE: Both of you together!
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I’m inspired by your inspiration! Bravo… What was it like listening to it afterward without any visual accompaniment? What did you notice that you had not before?
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Mmmm…perfect, I do think this one of the best things about photos or videos or records even writing or having conversations about an special experience, all the ways it allows you to experience that moment again! Which leads to the next experience!!
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What do you regret?
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Surprisingly, very little of what I actually did… Much more what I didn’t do, so not being braver earlier in life. Not knowing how to channel my feelings in constructive ways and burying them instead for far too long.
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I agree 100% with lake on this one…just how much i didn’t know and how unprepared all of us really are to process so much of how I related with others when I was younger. Time and experience and wisdom would have allowed me to take so much more from the glorious (in hindsight) variety of experiences which were right in front of me. Lets just…[Read more]
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Wrongful joy.
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What is wrongful joy?
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Are you a…
Breasts/Pecs or Ass or Legs….
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Really, you want me to eliminate any one of those? I am not strong enough at present, I shall have to ponder it more.
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Pecs like Dukeofmontmorency.
Legs like lake.-
Indeed! Makes me want to put on a short skirt and start to reminisce of being in my twenties again
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I’d be into you in a nice kilt! Or well… Anything!
Makes me think of another dare, where people have to go out wearing some completely over the top garment.
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoFirst, put yourself in a place where you will be able to strike up a conversation with a stranger without it being too out-of-the-blue. A coffee shop or library could work well; personally I used a classroom. Once you are in your place, find a stranger who excites you sexually. Give them a name and a personality, maybe even a backstory if you’re…[Read more]
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Andrew scores for the gentlemen… We’re still creaming y’all though 😉
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Who makes you hotter? Bad guy/girl or Nice guy/girl?
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Hmmm, can’t I say both?! If I have to pick, Bad girls and Nice guys
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A bad girl but not in a trashy sense. It’s more like a girl with class who knows exactly what she wants sexually.
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Nice guy with a mind for bad.
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It depends on where you are in the spectrum. I personally enjoy both. There is not much that I find hotter than working to make a good girl turn bad, and there is nothing that makes me want to step up to the plate faster than a bad girl turning her sights (and skills) on me!!! I guess that I want to show the good girls what they have always…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What are some of your unique, quirky turn-ons? Things that aren’t generally or traditionally thought of as erogenous, but for some reason give you a thrill or feel like a treat.
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Solitude.
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wrists, pale skin, bald heads, collarbones
Enthusiasm and playfulness 🙂
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Laughter, playfulness, giddiness. Also, just looking into someone’s eyes for a long time. For some reason for me it’s impossible not to be turned on by extended eye contact. It’s like your peering into somebody’s soul, seeing them exposed for who they really are. As long as someone has uncovered eyes, they will always be naked to me.
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This is similar to what I would say about feeling very present with someone.
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Really luxuious bed linens.
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Umph…this is definitely high on my list! Ideally fresh, clean, cool, crisp, white 100% linen sheets! I love high thread count cotton sheets as well, but NOTHING beats real linen sheets!
I love how they get so rumpled and stretched out and folded and create large puddles of luxuriousness after a long vigorous nights use!
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They do have trains that would bring you to NY you know.
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Hands…
All types…large, strong purposeful ones; thick, rough industrious ones; impossibly long thin delicate ones; short, stubby well maintained ones…
For me someones hands say a lot about who that person is…they tell a story…it is a part of them that cant be faked and often doesn’t perfectly match the rest of their well crafted…[Read more]
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Oh my, a man after my own heart.
I believe I requested hands from @dukeofmontmorency a long while back.
Perhaps you would show us yours, James?
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And if they happen to be ‘touching’ yourself in the ways you described in that post we wouldn’t mind that either!
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Funny enough I was just reading about a road trip that a photographer just took filming a variety of alternative and erotic “models” as he followed the old Route 66…stopping at all the iconic landmarks and quirky oddities and attractions that businesses would erect to attract travelers on the old interstate highway system and thought to…[Read more]
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Funny I was in a private train car recently and had a similar series of thoughts, though your description is much more enticing, romantic, and imaginative. I mean really how much do we like rambunctious women, drinking at honky tonks, treating hang-overs with pancakes, and wide open spaces! Lick my soul James?!?
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoREUNION
It had been ten days since my hands had rested upon Master’s chest. Ten days since his caresses had traveled down the length of my spine. I was ragged, restless, and hungry for his body, his touch, and oh yes, his cock. I was one hour now from having it all! I’ll I could think about was what would please him most. My mind was f…[Read more]
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Oh crud, somehow I cut and pasted wrong and lost the last three paragraphs… Now that is frustrating!
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Write it again, I need to know!
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I am such a lazy writer, and I hate re doing something after its done… Only you could get me to go back to this. This is not as good as the first version (that is my story and I’m sticking to it) but I tried to get the gist of it down again. Hope you enjoy.
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REUNION (continued)
The push was too much, I needed to find some control, I switched to focusing on my breathing, using my breath to circulate all the energy… push it out to my extremities and pull it away from my center. At the same time, i was careful not to inhale too quickly or too deeply, which i knew could easily start moving me in the…[Read more]
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OMG, lake, thank you. I felt every bit of that raw hunger you have for each other.
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What a lovely recounting of your experience…I am sure that your M was very proud of you!!!
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDare
Go shopping at a boutique for one item of underwear for a lover. Go through their entire selection, examining the styles, the textures, the lines. Feel it on your hands, drag the texture along your forearm. Imagine it on him/her, imagine removing it, imagine it against his/her skin. Imagine it on a fellow shopper, let that imagination…[Read more]
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDare
Watch yourself in the mirror as you build toward and achieve an orgasm, alone or not.
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I just did this today, I swear – are you sure you aren’t psychic? I may even post a story about more of this story… have to see if it works when I try to write about it.
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OH Goodie! I want to read!!!
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDare
Get your favorite ice cream on a cone and enjoy it in a public place. Eat it, lick it, devour it as provocatively as you can while you watch people, attract their gaze, evoke their senses.
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They just added ‘bourbon’ as a flavor at my neighborhood shop that makes all their ice cream on premise. It’s $4.75 for a cone, but it will be perfect for this!
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Do they have peanut butter???
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Omg yes, and it is soooo good. I’ll add this place to the must visit list.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
If you are reading these and not playing… Why not?
If you are, say something encouraging to the people who aren’t.-
Give it go, everyone! You may surprise yourself.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Do you think your libido is stronger than average? Do you wonder why? What is your theory?
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Yes, stronger than average, more in different ways than average. Because I’m not average.
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I really like this answer. Can I prod on the ‘different ways’ part?
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I always question what ‘average’ is I think people have more than they express, I also think people suppress and lose contact with their libidos and the energy available in it to draw from. The further down that path you go, the easier it becomes to keep going down the path. I think I got on the opposite path (which is also self reinforcing)…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What do you sleep in?
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PJs
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T-shirt and panties at home. Drop the t–shirt in hotels.
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Nude in hotels.
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Just one more very good reason, I need to get you to a hotel 😉
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Tell your lover or your crush or your best friend one of the most insightful things you know about them, think about it ahead of time, so that you can describe well why you appreciate this about them so much.
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Mallory posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Pick a fantasy roleplay and act it out.
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Omg I’m terrible at this, I must be the absolute worst actress in the world.
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Months before a rendezvous, we roleplayed online. He, the predator, and I, the ingenue he groomed and woo’ed. And then we agreed to “meet.”
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Ha! I was just going to add a truth, ‘is monogamy your ideal? Is it your partners ideal?’
For me, one person can be enough, but more and more at this point in my life, ‘enough’ is not the goal? The goal that is evolving for me is a connection in which we honor one another’s absolute truth. Live without built in boundaries. Live to the…[Read more]
So well said, lake. Love your self understanding.
It helps to be old, one figures themselves out eventually 🙂
I do think this is so individual. One of my life long friends is in an open relationship for the last 12 years. Her girlfriend has had a handful of other ‘partners’, but she never has once (and I know she gets offers), she just truly is not interested, she has a natural type of love…[Read more]
My truth is no, one person is not enough. And nor have I been truly just one person over the course of my life.
You know your just encouraging me… Aren’t I insufferable enough?
Yes but accompanied by so much charm and intelligence!
Lol, perfect response – you do that to me in person and I’d sweep you right up and ravish you!
I have no idea from whence these thoughts eminated…and I am definitely stepping right in the middle of something that I have no right to do…but I just log back in for the first time in a while and for some reason this chain was one of the first things that appeared. All I can say is, the thought of two incredibly delicious lovelies…[Read more]
James let me state this for the record… Rights or no rights you should feel free to insert yourself (via the Dr Seuss rule) here or there, ANYWHERE as far as I’m concerned. Oh, and I would also add often… Hmm and repeatedly, yes definitely repeatedly.
Good to see you, James. Can lake be any clearer with regard how she likes it?
If I make it any clearer, I shall have to take dr Seuss out of the picture, he is too much of a hero, I’d feel I had used his name in vain.
Well, I must say that with the either of you, I am sure that I would insert myself here or there, well…just about anywhere. In a house (I’d skip the mouse), or in a box (forget the fox!), in a car, in a tree, on a train, in the dark, umm…not with a goat…but definitely on a boat!
Where would you like me to insert myself?
Please tell…[Read more]
Here in my mouth so soft and wet. Eager to suck, to lick, to open.
There in my cunt so warm and slick and sweet. Push through and control me.
Anywhere… So hot and tight, impale me, break me, fill me.
Here in my erotic mind what lusts do you find.
Lol… We are a perfect pair… I take the low road and you take the high, it’s damn fabulous.
Well, James, lake has declared it. She and I are perfect. If you are smart, you’d insert yourself between the two of us.
Mmmm…
I’ve long believed that you and lake together would come about as close to “perfection” as I could imagine.
All I have to figure out now is whether this is a tease or an offer?
Also, I would like to point out that inserting myself between you two lovelies in all the ways I am imagining has slightly more to do with my libido than my IQ…[Read more]
Oh James, how you have been missed!
I assure you THAT feeling is mutual! Is there a plural version of mutual…I wouldn’t want to somehow exclude lake from that sentiment! It feels nice to be back
Yes, yes do NOT exclude lake… you are not the only one with those concerns, I just spent two days imagining one hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while the other pulls your cock into my mouth… I know a bit about pressure.
Really?!? That’s funny…I spent the last two days imagining your hand firmly and vigorously working between Mallory’s legs while your other hand was pulling my cock into your mouth also!
In fact, the only real difference was that her mouth was buried deeply between your legs and her hands were playing with my balls and toying with my…[Read more]
I can’t say I don’t agree… Though I would say I don’t so much like to handle pressure as I like to relieve pressure… Mallory how fast can you get here?
Oh my goodness! I just got here. Wow I really suck.
What are you talking about?!? Based on all that you have said in the past, I accepted the depth and skill with which you “suck” to be among your most rewarding qualities!!!
-James
Only that I a little late to the party. Not that lateness will stop me!