In reviewing all the activities of late, I realized that I had not given this post the proper level of attention that it so clearly deserves!

This picture to me approaches perfection.

It is so damn hot for so many reasons I can barely stand it!

I WANT…I NEED!!!

Most of all, I find it very interesting how little the physical appeal of the woman (my impression and opinion and attraction to the beauty of her face and body) has much less to do with creating that visceral urgent desire and appreciation within me than I would have thought.

For me it all starts with the 1st person point of view (POV). I like the impression that I am an active participant in the moment captured. OK, ok… I will admit that I find the thought of actually standing there and taking THAT picture of THIS woman engaged with me in THIS way to be an especially pleasurable one, but the arousal this image creates for me is really way beyond the simple adolescent fantasy of me being the man behind the camera (although I will admit to being jealous of the lucky bastard!!!)

Moving on the to the genre – blow job pics – they come in all shapes and sizes and are certainly one of the most prevalent amateur, self-pic meme’s out there. Now I love a good blow job as much as the next guy – scratch that…I actually think that I love (and more importantly appreciate – is there a more selfless act of desire and adoration and devotion?) a good blow job WAY more than the average guy – so whenever I see a picture depicting a blow job, I am always judging the performance and wondering if others are struck by just how god-awful unsatisfying most of them look to me. Trust me, I know all too well how hard it is to take a good picture of a blow-job – especially when it is on yourself, so I do grant a little latitude to all involved assuming that the picture just may not sufficiently capture what is really going on there. On the other hand, I have a lifetime of experience to remind me just how bad many/most of the blow-jobs I have ever gotten have really been. I would say that the strength of my interest in and unbridled appreciation for those women with significantly above average skills, interests and devotions of the oral variety is almost limitless [N.B. I AM referring to you my slave!]

I guess I would give props to a lot of these guys (some of them for being able to get a blow-job at all) and for the gracious accommodating efforts of their lady friends both for making their efforts and for allowing themselves to be photographed in a way that could so easily be construed as compromized and/or degrading (I have kids – a boy AND a girl – so don’t even get me started about how irresponsible, reckless or exploitative many of these pictures probably are!). I think what is important to note is that anything that starts to feels surreptitious or unexpected or exploitative or taking advantage of someone quickly renders the image worthless for me (if not an outright turn-off) and guess what? A large majority of these blow-job pics do have that feeling even if in most instances both parties fully consent to them.

I give you this background because I want to make it clear that despite the fact that to a large degree this genre doesn’t work well in a photograph there are very few sexual acts that convey the strength and intensity of the feelings that a woman has for a man than a good blow-job. However, I absolutely love, love, love the entire concept of what the picture depicts and is trying to convey and despite the pretty awful track record for the genre in general, this one seems to nail it!

For me, the D/s elements – the collar, lead, waspie/harness, the way he is holding the lead/keeping her on a short leash, her pose/position, etc. are the seemingly relevant parts of the picture. (Did anyone else find how he accessorized his pet/slut/slave as pretty as I do?) While these elements add considerably to my own appreciation of the picture, even if they weren’t present, I still think I would love this picture. It all has to do with the look in her eyes and the expression on her face and how relaxed and comfortable the whole thing looks and feels. At the end of the day, the FEELING that this picture conveys – wide open, accepting, intense, connected, fully present, and for lack of a better term “serious business” experience that I desire/demand regardless of how it is brought about (i.e. through a D/s power dynamic or just two wildly unabashed souls willing to literally turn themselves inside out to bring the other the maximum amount of pleasure).

It certainly appears that she has done her job well otherwise her expression would almost certainly be different…she is attentive, focused, observant, looking (more like searching!) for any sign or instruction about what else she could doing to produce more pleasure in her partner, comfortable with, or accepting of, or (at the very least) supremely confident in her partners acceptance of who she is in this moment – her sexuality, her body, the validity of her emotional desires and needs (all of her!), she must also be supremely comfortable with and desirous of her partner, every potential hang up or reservation or hesitation appears to be pushed from her mind – open and unfazed in the least by any and all of the ‘by-products” of being unabashedly sexually intimate with another may be. The bottom line is that her wants and desires really do appear to be focused on her partner (you try sitting there with someones hard twitching cock inches from your face, dripping the last of his cum all over your face and body, and held “on point” by your lead with a partner who you really don’t like!),

Lastly, the cum on her face speaks volumes. I get how this may appear to some to be an act of degradation, and maybe on some level it is, but if it is a consensual and enjoyable part of their “thing” then I have a hard time with anyone who would judge what it might mean to others, but to me it is a very important symbol of my partners acceptance of my sexuality, my virility, my manliness and my offering to them. To me this is the physical and metaphorical essence of what we share in our relationship and therefore it borders on sacred and seeing it coating her cheeks and lips and chin and her accepting it in this way is beautiful!!! (BTW: I view women’s fluids and on some level even their menstration as fair corollaries deserving equal and reciprocal respect – so this isn’t just a D/s thing for me).

When I see a picture like this, it reminds me to cum like this on my slave more often that it really is a beautiful sight to behold…but personally, I have a thing for having my slave consume every last drop of my cum. I can not logically explain the way that having her do so arouses me so completely (even in a moment when my “arousal” would ordinarily be released from within me), how much it completely drains the last ounces of stress and anxiety from my body and replaces it with such an incredible renewed energy to face the world, but it does. It “completes” my release like nothing else ever has. Knowing that she is doing that for me in the throughs of my release makes me feel loved and accepted and appreciated like you wouldn’t believe…but when I actually stop and watch her do it…THAT is perfection!…pure bliss…and so fucking hot!!! It fuels my desires for her and makes me burst with pride for how well she serves me.

I think this picture is super hot, even if it will take an immense amount of willpower for me to try and create my own memories based on what this has inspired for me.

-James

PS: Video does go a long way in solving the technical limitations, but if you think there are very few good honest photos of cock worship, try finding a good video of one…