w4t? Wow. That’s quite an opening bet!

Yes, I imagine that men, in general, will have less response (I’ve never tried it, but I will), but the point is really to put your fantasy out in the atmosphere (and then to share it with us!). So don’t let that […]

Explains a lot, doesn’t it.

Very funny. We could start a little notebook fetishists club.

Get it back, Anonymous! Getting wet’s a good start, I’d have to say. And then eye contact: it may be the absolute sexiest thing there is, don’t you think?

I can be very patient (if I have to) if foreign sexuality is involved. In the meantime, good luck with exams.

She’s not shy, is she, Chris?

Bravo! With a name like ForeignSexuality, I don’t see how you can go wrong! And please write back with the results – in my experience putting it out there is a big part of the fun.

Great idea to post with a link to your blog (see the link from her name, everyone else), Lola. Some of the other bloggers who lurk here might try the same. And I agree with the netbook, but then…she asked for […]

Yeah, I’m rather interested in that basement too. Great that you’re going with a friend – that should be fun. Let us know how it goes!

Scary? No. Maybe you could even take him along. If he’s not as adventurous as you are, I’d say follow along with the wife’s experiment, more or less. Forget about your husband for a moment and find something that […]

Thanks, Loverboy. I think you’re absolutely right. There seem to be two types of experiments: those that are successes if you can simply pull them off, and those that are successes if you can pull them off right. […]

Thanks, Cheeky Minx. The right column will take you through the whole experiment in order. While you do that, I’m going back over to your website to…peruse it a bit further. I’m obsessed, and you know how to wear a hat.

Thanks, Margot. High praise from a woman who has her way with words. Since your previous post (this one: http://laravaudeuse.blogspot.com/2011/04/weights.html) I’ve been planning and re-planning to get to the gym. […]

Again, I think I like you!

Oh, Ludie. I do understand that, and I think I like you. I’ll be sure to bring along those miniature scissors. We’ll be able to say that your underwear and stockings died in a good cause.

Ha! I have no idea what you just said.

Merci! Je crois bien. J’ai de la chance, non?

Thanks, Chris. I agree, but then the intense excitement of the end of the night couldn’t have existed without the build-up of the rest of the night. Most of sex is foreplay, it seems to me.

Thanks! I’ll be very curious to hear how you entice your husband back into a burning hot bed. In the end everyone likes to have the sense that there are unexpected possibilities out there, so I have hope for your hubby.