Which brings us back to our previous discussion… are we so ‘civilized\polite\righteous’ that 35% of women either don’t masterbate or won’t admit that they do even in a de-identified survey?

Freedom, freedom, freedom… such the irony that it starts with ourselves.

hmmmm… I’m in the process of having my tattoo removed so i can get a new one. I don’t suppose that counts?

I tried, but I can’t resist… tell me something that has you intrigued

Ah clever answer! Thank you, I liked it and now I’m so glad I did ask 🙂

In many ways it is the same answer, I like having someone to prod and push or be pushed and prodded by.

I like to just be me and have someone react to me who is willing to be transparent about their reaction.

I like that i can take thoughts and turn them into discussions in such a way that i get something new, or change or evolve my…[Read more]

Well it is a New Year and all so Cheers to that!

Does it make a man feel closer to his release? A woman more full? a path to an end or also an end in itself? Energy that swirls through and enlivens each day, every action?

Is it about possibility?

Maybe it just reminds us that all people are fundamentally sexual beings.

Ah indeed, we consistently move further and further from our primal nature, and yet it is undeniably there. I am a big believer in the idea that it is important to connect to it.

I find that when these parts of myself remain unexpressed it affects the degree to which I feel energized and fulfilled. Plus of course, if you don’t express them,…[Read more]

…and I AM soooo fond of that ”profound good”!! Thank God for BALANCE… otherwise I might end up like one of those lab rats that die with their tiny paw on the pleasure lever 😉

Thanks for answering 😉

Great question.

Oh now that just has me wondering all kinds of new questions… what if you were the ‘instigated’? What would that offer you? What do you think is the most likely thing you will next do, that has been in the ‘wouldn’t normally do category’? and of course, Are we going to see a story about what happened ‘a few weeks ago’?… sorry inquirying…[Read more]

I agree, that it is a turn on for both is a must, and that that feedback loop is what heightens the pleasure.

I was also thinking about how submission can also be an instigating act (though it must not be done deliberately to control – well it could, but then its not really submission any longer) and one that’s awful hard to resist :)…[Read more]

It is indeed! 🙂 I find that both of those heighen things. As long as you don’t get arrested, the first is lets risky and easier to control… would your girlfriend/partner flash you and let you take a picture? That might be an easy way to start.

You know I only just recently started to really play with this… and the results just keep surprising me. Some of this game, of course is being played in the ‘Photo Orgy’ group now.

Spankings accepted 🙂 and I remember your banana story, and thinking how your Master does indeed keep you on your toes and riding your boundaries, not to mention putting your readers on the edge! I agree about it ‘flipping’ the switch, you just can’t submit to his gesture letting you know its time to blow him at the table in the restaurant if you…[Read more]