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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTHE GAME
So our three weeks are up. I can add up the points, but I think it is safe to say the women totally dominated this contest. I’ll even give everyone to the end of the weekend, if the guys want to try to make a run.
Now I just have to remember, did we say ALL the men have to pay up or just the ones that participated? Actually, given…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Find a way to masturbate today, that you’ve never done before. Use something new, touch yourself in a different place, in a different way. Go somewhere new, think about or watch something unusual.
And of course extra points if you write up the story and share!
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoPick your top two: communication, sexual fulfillment, being taken care off, trust, commitment, humor
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Trust and communication.
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Ditto
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Well, I have to agree but disagree…
I agree with the importance of Trust and Communication above the others from your list.
But I think your list is lacking what I believe is THE most important part which allows people to not only have great communication but also to build trust….ACCEPTANCE!
If you can not accept yourself for who you are…[Read more]
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I certainly agree with you that acceptance is critical. lake’s list, I believe, is in no way meant to be finite. We should include acceptance, along with probably a bunch of others.
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My intent with the list was more about weighing the five in that list against each other than listing the top five ( and James you never actually answered that question!). But I do love where this has gone, however now it’s gotten me philosophical which
I really try not to do to overdue here, but I can’t resist on this one now. Hey, good…[Read more]-
Oh wait… Sorry you did answer! Seems we are all on the same page on that one too… Hmmmm, it must be more than I coincidence, I think it may mean we should at least be considering a threesome, I mean we wouldn’t want to piss off the fates by ignoring such a clear sign!?!
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Well said. I think that you actually have captured the true meaning of acceptance as I was suggesting.
Accepting others in general is not so difficult in school or at work or with a friend or family member you see on rare occasions, but with a partner, in a day to day relationship, over years if not decades?!?
Holy hell…actually…[Read more]
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As someone who knows myself… that is a lot of acceptance! I do hope you don’t embarrass easily… Oh, wait, scratch that, we all already know that you don’t!
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Well, I can say that despite considerably efforts in this regards, I have not yet been able to rise above the point of becoming embarrassed entirely (or feeling shame or being humiliated for that matter), but I have become better able to place all of that in context! That stems from really working to accept oneself and, when pushed closer to the…[Read more]
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lake posted an update 11 years, 1 month ago
But if in your fear you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness
and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh,
but not all of your laughter,
and weep, but not all of your tears.– Kahlil Gibran
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lake likes Mallory‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
Here on Earth by Alice Hoffman
In case lake cannot find the other book, here is another suggestion.
“She was only fourteen, but she knew what she wanted. She wanted him to look at her that way…….That was when she began to wonder if the scent of sulfur wasn’t fury but desire, and if perhaps, it might not be rising from her own skin. She’ll…[Read more]
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lake likes ElizaC‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What are some of your unique, quirky turn-ons? Things that aren’t generally or traditionally thought of as erogenous, but for some reason give you a thrill or feel like a treat.
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Solitude.
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wrists, pale skin, bald heads, collarbones
Enthusiasm and playfulness 🙂
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Laughter, playfulness, giddiness. Also, just looking into someone’s eyes for a long time. For some reason for me it’s impossible not to be turned on by extended eye contact. It’s like your peering into somebody’s soul, seeing them exposed for who they really are. As long as someone has uncovered eyes, they will always be naked to me.
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This is similar to what I would say about feeling very present with someone.
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Really luxuious bed linens.
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Umph…this is definitely high on my list! Ideally fresh, clean, cool, crisp, white 100% linen sheets! I love high thread count cotton sheets as well, but NOTHING beats real linen sheets!
I love how they get so rumpled and stretched out and folded and create large puddles of luxuriousness after a long vigorous nights use!
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They do have trains that would bring you to NY you know.
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Hands…
All types…large, strong purposeful ones; thick, rough industrious ones; impossibly long thin delicate ones; short, stubby well maintained ones…
For me someones hands say a lot about who that person is…they tell a story…it is a part of them that cant be faked and often doesn’t perfectly match the rest of their well crafted…[Read more]
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Oh my, a man after my own heart.
I believe I requested hands from @dukeofmontmorency a long while back.
Perhaps you would show us yours, James?
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And if they happen to be ‘touching’ yourself in the ways you described in that post we wouldn’t mind that either!
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Funny enough I was just reading about a road trip that a photographer just took filming a variety of alternative and erotic “models” as he followed the old Route 66…stopping at all the iconic landmarks and quirky oddities and attractions that businesses would erect to attract travelers on the old interstate highway system and thought to…[Read more]
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Funny I was in a private train car recently and had a similar series of thoughts, though your description is much more enticing, romantic, and imaginative. I mean really how much do we like rambunctious women, drinking at honky tonks, treating hang-overs with pancakes, and wide open spaces! Lick my soul James?!?
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoREUNION
It had been ten days since my hands had rested upon Master’s chest. Ten days since his caresses had traveled down the length of my spine. I was ragged, restless, and hungry for his body, his touch, and oh yes, his cock. I was one hour now from having it all! I’ll I could think about was what would please him most. My mind was f…[Read more]
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Oh crud, somehow I cut and pasted wrong and lost the last three paragraphs… Now that is frustrating!
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Write it again, I need to know!
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I am such a lazy writer, and I hate re doing something after its done… Only you could get me to go back to this. This is not as good as the first version (that is my story and I’m sticking to it) but I tried to get the gist of it down again. Hope you enjoy.
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REUNION (continued)
The push was too much, I needed to find some control, I switched to focusing on my breathing, using my breath to circulate all the energy… push it out to my extremities and pull it away from my center. At the same time, i was careful not to inhale too quickly or too deeply, which i knew could easily start moving me in the…[Read more]
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OMG, lake, thank you. I felt every bit of that raw hunger you have for each other.
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What a lovely recounting of your experience…I am sure that your M was very proud of you!!!
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lake likes Mallory‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
Dare
Go shopping at a boutique for one item of underwear for a lover. Go through their entire selection, examining the styles, the textures, the lines. Feel it on your hands, drag the texture along your forearm. Imagine it on him/her, imagine removing it, imagine it against his/her skin. Imagine it on a fellow shopper, let that imagination…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
If you are reading these and not playing… Why not?
If you are, say something encouraging to the people who aren’t.-
Give it go, everyone! You may surprise yourself.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
Do you think your libido is stronger than average? Do you wonder why? What is your theory?
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Yes, stronger than average, more in different ways than average. Because I’m not average.
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I really like this answer. Can I prod on the ‘different ways’ part?
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I always question what ‘average’ is I think people have more than they express, I also think people suppress and lose contact with their libidos and the energy available in it to draw from. The further down that path you go, the easier it becomes to keep going down the path. I think I got on the opposite path (which is also self reinforcing)…[Read more]
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I’m not sure if this has been mentioned . . . especially given how ubiquitous it is around the subject of music and sex – anything by the German group Enigma. I’ve had some truly incredible sex with this as background music! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4sDLxxlpkk
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoTRUTH
What do you sleep in?
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PJs
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T-shirt and panties at home. Drop the t–shirt in hotels.
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Nude in hotels.
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Just one more very good reason, I need to get you to a hotel 😉
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month agoDARE
Tell your lover or your crush or your best friend one of the most insightful things you know about them, think about it ahead of time, so that you can describe well why you appreciate this about them so much.
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lake likes Mallory‘s activity 11 years, 1 month ago
DARE
Pick a fantasy roleplay and act it out.
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lake posted an update in the group
Erotic Photos 11 years, 2 months agoDare challenge – L- 7
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For this dare, I knew immediately I wanted to be in a library (for obvious reasons) and since I’m in NY figured I might as well take advantage and go to the pick one. I had no plan beyond that. I ended up picking this room after walking around for about ten minutes, letting the tension of the dare build. I stood in the long corridor behind the…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 2 months agoTRUTH CHALLENGE – L – 8
What do you really need for your own fulfillment?
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To be seen as who I really am, to give all that I am capable of.
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lake posted an update 11 years, 2 months ago
Leaving work early today, not going straight home… Wanna bet how many of these dares I can knock out between now and when I do get home?
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I completed one infill (seethe library dare) and made a strong attempt at a second (see the convince someone else to let you take an erotic photo dare). So all in all got five points for the women’s team. Follow along or better yet join in, in the ‘your experiments’ group.
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 2 months agoDARE CHALLENGE – L – 7
Talk someone else into letting you take an erotic picture of them to post on SE 🙂
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I thought I had a lock on this one, as I was seeing an X on Friday (well not exactly an X – someone i used to work with and sleep with 8 years ago, but not date) and I was sure I’d be able to talk him into it (and just as sure you all would thank me for this pic, his body is gorgeous). When I told I’m I was going to post it, he wouldn’t let me do…[Read more]
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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 2 months agoDARE CHALLENGE – L – 6
Walking down the street, just yell out. This should be loud, like you are at a concert or a sporting event. Afterwards breathe as deeply and if anyone is looking at you just smile, let them know you are okay. But reflect inward how do you feel?
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I feel like I have more space. The world feels less oppressive. It reminds me that the rules are all made up anyway.
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TGIF 🙂 love it!
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And I think hands down, lake won most of the points for the women! YAY, lake!
Finally, I win something, i was trounced in that last photo orgy game, i dont think i won a single week! Now we need to seriously talk about payoffs!