This is terrific. Perhaps to go on the Holiday Wish List is having it all: love, lust, and attachment.

You need to get a medical grade Wartenberg in stainless steel or chrome; they are not that expensive (under $20). Please properly disinfect by soaking in antibacterial soap with a little bleach, rinse, and running boiling water for final rinse. Store in clean ziplock bag.

For restraints, how about trying oblong scarfs? And since he is a bit of…[Read more]

You might also consider giving him a shave with a straight edge blade (see my post below).

I’ll throw my vote to rope as well, ultimately I believe it’s going to give you the broadest range of options (including burns or no burns 🙂 and inescapable) because of the different types of rope and because there are so many ways to keep expanding your repertoire.

And thanks for adding fuel to the fire, I have to think getting you to…[Read more]

I personally have zero interest in pain. To me the Wartenberg Wheel (along with an infinite list) represents sensuality in a couple of important dimensions: sense and fear of the unknown. Erotic fear of uncharted territories is a huge aphrodisiac. Imagine the pins of the wheel on the lower, outer quadrant of a breast, it gets close but never…[Read more]

Absolutely love this, and it must explain why I’ve been feeling a little randy this Thanksgiving week. Thanks.

Sex Results

Game Result #1
Some wrestling to start, followed by my getting handcuffed, whipped, gagged,and hair yanked. The fucking is long, hard and furious.

Game Result #2
Picture caveman tossing me onto bed or chair. My arms tied with scarfs, legs spread eagle and tied to bed or chair. The fucking is hard and fast.

Game Result #3
He wants…[Read more]

I really like these. Problem is, my team (a Thanksgiving team) tends to fall under one of those first 2 results, which if you ask me are real libido killers. Big wins and big losses are less anguishing somehow.

A man whose cock does not have a refractory period is meant for at least two women simultaneously, one wearing “ride a cyclist” tshirt, the other wearing the “ride a cowboy” tshirt. No wonder you have been away!

Somehow I’d missed this! Loved the update on your intriguing relationship, which does seem to have taken on some of the weight of a true romance. And your writing is superb – vivid – so I look forward to reading how the sex (and romance) develops.

Very good. So much romance with the passion, and this one’s really got an edge. I wasn’t at all clear about who that “her” screaming was, but maybe that even added to the strange atmosphere of this one.

Very sexy, very romantic letter. Love it (and hope he got there).

Very excited for you that this has taken off, and absolutely dying to see this experiment played out. Please, please put it to him!

Totally thrilled for you and I am drooling over all the possible results of your experiment.

Based on your question I assume the point of fucking yourself with the cigar would be to get it wet (or as wet as possible) and have it smoked later laced with your essence… A very naughty and interesting question indeed. I can’t claim to have specific knowledge of how to best execute on your idea, but I can say that having the tobacco wrapper…[Read more]

Further investigations are most definitely required.