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  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    Her [with a wry smile]: “We are going to get thrown out”
    Me: “I’m okay with that.”
    Her [laughing]: “Well should we be worried about them?”
    Me: “Group of adults drinking in a bar late at night… Nope”
    Her: “I’m beginning to think you would just let me take my shirt off right here.”
    Me: “I wasn’t going there, but now that I’m thinking about it, the…[Read more]

    • All I can see right now is that last photo of the series Luis posted most recently in Erotic Photos, but your hands, her tits.

    • Speaking of running, I’ve been meaning to say thank you to all the hard, glistening men running with their shirts off these days. Distracting indeed,

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    What things have made the biggest difference in the way you now think about and live your sexuality?

    • Attention to details to see what is inside.
      Developing great trust.
      Age / experience/ knowing myself better.
      Appreciation for “what else?”

    • Every time I learned something that I thought was so, was only something I thought, that it in fact was not so.

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    Top Characteristics for Attraction

    Luis’ point about cooking is well taken. What are the top 6-12 characteristics that make a person attractive for you?

    • 1. Passion, whether sexual or a great love of what they do.
      2. (Justified) confidence. I admit that at times I mistake arrogance for confidence, but there is something sexy about someone who is spectacular at what they do and knows it.
      3. Vulnerability. When a guy tells me something that I know very few, if no other people know, I find that it…[Read more]

      • These were interesting to read and think about Ellaria, well done. I am almost the opposite on number six though. Yes to willpower, but I am more turned on by people who can not resist me, and will not go without what they want, than those who can and do 🙂

    • My dozen, not in any particular order.
      1. Maturity
      2. Balance
      3. Confidence about who they are, what they are about
      4. Ambition and work ethnic
      5. Generosity
      6. Articulation
      7. Responsibility
      8. Decency
      9. Hands
      10. Eyes
      11. Scent
      12. Reasonable fitness

    • Alright, I’m going to write mine before I read the other answers, it is a little convoluted cause something’s are different with women than men, I’ll see if I can sort it out as I go.
      1. Depth – being interesting is very much about being interested. The broader the context and experience and possible approach the more I seem to be intrigued.
      2.…[Read more]

      • I lost my train of thought, but I think you get the idea. Ill add one more cause its important.
        9. Hunger – Drive wrapped with creativity and extraordinary vision gets extra points
        10. Physicality and sensuality, wrapped with kinky and extraordinary desire gets extra points.

    • I really liked this Luis, ” thus she’s not begging for anyone’s attention.
      These are features from people with strong personality.”

  • ellariasand posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    Ok. I think that the statute of limitations has passed and I am significantly “over it” to the point where I can finally post the once-hinted “Bicycle Experiment 3.0.”

    The Bicycle Experiment 3.0

    You know how sometimes someone rides up behind you so quietly that you don’t even notice until the breeze blows your hair into your face as they pass? T…[Read more]

    • That made my heart cry. To have a full first taste and then no more due to schedule and emotional unavailability.

    • So glad you came back to us with this story. I love your writing and your adventures. That kiss in answer to your half asked question was wonderful! If I was 20 years younger, I’d just have to find a way to join you in one of these races! I expect you have us all intrigued with this passion of yours.

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    I GROPED, THEN I GOT MY FIRST KISS

    Well that was awkward.

    We talked about a few other mundane things. He got up, walked around the barrier of desk. He stood behind the chair I was sitting. Then he bent his head, I felt him at my profile. I turned to look up at him. And he kissed me.

    Soft and strong…his mouth was so soft, but he left…[Read more]

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    I GROPED HIM

    I confessed. About wanting to grope his hand. He said no one ever admitted that before. What can I say? I want unusual things.

    Days and weeks passed. I sat across from him. His hand was on the desk. I looked at it. I put my hand on top of his. He didn’t move.

    “There,” I said. Warm, solid, he let me feel. He didn’t move.…[Read more]

    • I love everything about this. What a fantastic moment. You must be walking on air! I am so excited about the way you went for it and created this.

    • And the woman in Luis’s story too! I love the courage and the directness, the will for adventure and best of all the result!

    • Luis, for me, the “alarms” went off way before, but I know exactly what you mean.

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 4 months ago

    I SIMPLY WANTED TO GROPE HIS HAND

    A decade and more have passed since I yearn so fervently for the touch of someone else. I wanted to reach across the small round metal table, amid the public space, and touch his hand as it shifted through my papers, as he read and concentrated on responding to my question. I wanted to feel the texture of his…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 5 months ago

    Score one for the millennials 🙂

  • Mallory posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 5 months ago

    The First Kiss [of the relationship]

    What did it signify?
    Where did it lead?

    • Don’t we all LOVE the first kiss?!? The first kiss is ‘I like you’, ‘I get you’, ‘I want you’. It is possibility, it is heat, and energy, and connecting to another person. It is putting the idea that you may one day go deeper into each other on the table. My last fist kiss was Tuesday. It resulted in another date Wed 🙂

    • I can’t capture the link, but go to “Amalie first kiss” on YouTube

    • My last first kiss was last Monday. I am still speechless. It was the culmination of a very long sequence of flirtation, discovery, and “getting” each other.

    • Ooolala… You know I want to know more! This is very exciting.

      What did it signify?
      Where did it lead?

      I am assuming man, is that correct?

    • Ummm…I know I haven’t been active recently, so I will assume you have been saving your story until it might be met by a sufficiently ruptured audience!!! Consider me fully engaged not THIS development…

      I believe at least a little background and a few more scintillating details are in order. I would gladly share my own evolution were it…[Read more]

    • See more recent post above for a little more detail.

    • Anything of mine pales in comparison to your awesome adventures.

    • Agree that we want to know more, we are very interested… Come now don’t tease us 😉

    • Oh and by the way, while we are all confessing… Luis, you’ve also been quiet/distracted lately… Is there anything you might be needing to share with us? :). I am big on hearing about all types of adventures! Seems there is always something new or old to be experienced or revisited from the inspiration and provocation!

    • Yeah, James. Come now…

    • I actually meant that for you Mallory, but when you put it like that… Well, I want that for everybody!

  • ellariasand posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 5 months ago

    The Bicycle Experiment 2.5(?)

    When I told my therapist about this and wondered why he would come out of the woodwork after an extended period of radio silence, she simply stated “Guys like him ALWAYS come back.”

    I was nursing yet another case of heartache (aka The Bicycle Experiment 3.0, which I really don’t think I can write about just because…[Read more]

    • I’d also like to add that I have a fantasy where I have him bent on all fours and ask him if he even remembers any of the names of the 50-60 girls he supposedly “banged” in college. Then I would hit him with the riding crop for each one of them (if he can’t remember/stumbles on a name, I hit him progressively harder).

    • I read about your Bad Lad here and he just symbolizes so much of your rides and races. The obstacles that pop up. You know you can’t win all the time. But crossing the finish line is always a possibility. And the occasional win is so incredibly seductive, you keep going for it.

      • Sadly, I have yet to actually win a race, so this metaphor is accurate in a sad way.

        One of my teammates interjected with “it’s not a game” when I talked about sabotaging my relationships by trying to look ten moves in. I should have replied with “Well, if romance/sex isn’t a game, then why do I always feel like I’m losing?”

        Also, yes, double…[Read more]

    • From the bit you’ve written about him, he sounds to me like he is an ‘opportunist’. A guy who wants whatever the situation or the girl will allow. He takes what comes easy and via his ‘usual’ methods and he cares for it as something that is usual and came easy. I would ask you, if you actually do already know this or feel this to be true? And if…[Read more]

      • Oh I am well aware that he’s a trap and his interest in me is most likely proportional to how much attention he is or isn’t getting from others.

        Very astute observations. I told a friend of mine the story of one of my gym teachers in high school. I loathed this guy since he had the stench of failed college athlete wafting of of him in waves.…[Read more]

        • Got it! And sounds like you do too. Agree completely with the last paragraph.

          P.s. Nothing wrong with tenderness, sometimes it is in fact just exactly what we need. There is not one of us that is invulnerable nor should we be. 🙂

          P.s.s. Keep the adventures coming!

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    NEW GAME

    Ask a true or false question.
    Next person answers all previous questions then adds a question. So I\’ll start the first two:

    1st: Dark Chocolate is better than Milk Chocolate
    2nd: True
    Kissing is Better than a Massage
    3rd: This should be you… Comment below

    • alright, I’ll go third too

      True
      True
      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE

      TRUE or FALSE: The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex.

    • Oh wait! This one got skipped!

      I’d rather be in love, than be loved.

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore – true or false?

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. True or False

    • I’m not sure I’m interpreting ‘mental means’ correctly so I’m weighing the ‘mind games’ part more heavily.

      Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is n…[Read more]

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

    • Dark Chocolate is better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: TRUE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. FALSE
      Sex is made h…[Read more]

    • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
      Kissing better than massage: FALSE
      I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
      The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: TRUE
      People are finite, there is only so much that is new to discover or explore. FALSE
      Sex is made hotter by mental means and mind games. TRUE
      Sex is made hotter b…[Read more]

    • I recommend masturbating at least four times a week. TRUE

      When i hear “wet mount” i think of a microscope. FALSE (but I am definitely adding this to my vocabulary… Just not for the microscope reference)

      I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on…[Read more]

      • Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
        Kissing better than massage: FALSE
        I’d rather be in love than loved: FALSE
        The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE (I believe this has more to do with presuming that we really know each other well enough to stop trying to discover (or uncover) more and the complacency t…[Read more]

        • This is difficult, most of my answers would be “depends on the situation” except that’s clearly not an option so I’ll have to pick one.

          Dark chocolate better than milk chocolate: TRUE
          Kissing better than massage: FALSE
          I’d rather be in love than loved: TRUE
          The closer and more intimate you become, the less hot the sex: FALSE
          People are finite,…[Read more]

    • I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself TRUE

      I Would prefer insanely intense, sparingly hit… Over lifetime: TRUE (to me this was too easy to answer the way you posed it, cause it was restricted to…[Read more]

    • I am turned on by myself (my own body, mind, actions) not just I can get myself hot or jerk myself off, but literally what is turning me on is thoughts or a view or a perception of myself. TRUE
      I would prefer an insanely intense, searingly hot, unimaginably wild and fulfilling transcendental sexual affair which lasted for one summer, over a steady…[Read more]

    • I would prefer a relationship I know I can succeed in, that is sanctioned, that makes sense, that affords me comfort, security, and tremendous rewards; over one I have no idea what will come of it, that is controversial to say the least, and that most others will not understand, that affords me challenge, freedom, potential humiliation, great…[Read more]

    • Your own sexual freedom is more important than your duties to others. FALSE
      The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. TRUE

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” True or false?

    • The dog should not be allowed on the furniture. FALSE (however my husband disagrees so he is not allowed 🙁 and I have to sit on the floor all the time!)

      Real people do not talk in porn clichés: “Suck it, bitch. That’s right, take it all the way down.” Mostly FALSE (Ummm, bitch not so much, just cause I’m not a bitch, but if it were some other…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    True art is characterized by an irresistible urge in the creative artist.
    ~Albert Einstein

    Tell us something about an irresistible urge of yours. Even a fleeting one. Maybe a perpetual one. Something you\’ve yet to realize? Something you can not go a day without…

    • Oh… So the Other Master is also a salacious tease! 😉
      and when the maiden begs with her quivering lip… what mercy would you show her then Sir?

      Okay this is a little creepy, but I’m a chic and I look straight so sorry guys, i do get away with it… In the subway, walking up the longer stair cases, I like to position myself behind a lovely in…[Read more]

    • Standing at the edge… With the siren’s song rising from deep within the abyss, and the song thrums the very membrane of your cells and vibration stirs the instinct that hundreds of thousands of years of evolution has wired into every system in your body. You stand there, but that instinct whispers, ‘jump’ or maybe your a person or it’s a day…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    If the essence of my being has caused a smile to have appeared upon your face or a touch of joy within your heart. Then in living – I have made my mark.”

    Thomas L. Odem, Jr

    Some things really are just simple.
    Happy Sunday Peoples

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Fuck! I was going to be late again, and possibly late enough to lose the reservation. I wanted to text her so she would know to talk to them and ensure they held the table, but I was having a hard time admitting to myself how late I was actually going to be. It was also just a crappy way to kick off the date, so I only wrote, ‘on my way, not…[Read more]

    • I read that and it made my nipples hard and tight and tingling. Nevermind elsewhere….

    • Oh my word…. its exactly how I imagine it would be.
      More please…

      • I read your response and I was excited to see lakes story resonate for you and then I realized that there are more than one way to interpret what “exactly” you “imagin[ed] it [to] be”!
        Were you imagining what it would be like when lake met a submissive woman for dinner?
        Were you imagining what it would be like to take a submissive woman to…[Read more]

    • Well before anyone gets too invested, I have to warn you, our odds are long on this. She is genuine, sensual, earnest, beautifully non-judgemental, very much of her own mind, proud, lots of self respect, accomplished, smart, has high integrity, an adventurous spirit, and even if she is confused by how she responds to me… She clearly does…[Read more]

      • As Mallory suggested…the slow build-up can be as equally rewarding as the abandoned “all-in” approach…

        One thing is certain…if she gets comfortable and does ultimately choose submit herself under your conditions, then it will undoubtedly also allow her to give herself over as thoroughly and completely as she really longs for. That fact alone…[Read more]

        • I have developed an appreciation for the slow build up, but there comes a point when there is no longer any point in not getting what one wants…

          There comes a point when giving in is the only thing that does make sense.

          If all the pieces are in place, and she still chooses not to be comfortable, and the moments that are there, I have to…[Read more]

    • I’m smiling at the thought of that myself!!! Thanks for the response. Although you have to admit there is something inherently submissive about being so passive in allowing another woman to slowly taunt and tease you until you have been taken don’t you think? Another thought that brings a smile to my face!!!

      • I am searching through my history trying to recall ANY woman who was not into being slowly taunted and teased and eventually taken…

        closest I can think of… I did get slapped in the face once, but I don’t count that because, I was just trying to pick her up, I had not established any connection or gotten to anything physical yet (I’d had a…[Read more]

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Okay think of something you need that over the course of your life has proven to be difficult to get or difficult to get enough of.

    Now think of a time when you did… Write a bit to describe it to us… Including how you were affected.

    • I need to be seen, understood, cherished. I need to reach, be inspired, and be turned on.

      The hardest of these is to be understood and inspired. The two that have done it best have resulted in the most insanely powerful, wildly sexual long term interactions of my life.

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Okay we\’ll play fair, now

    Women need men…

    • Do you think it is more difficult to recognize and acknowledge exactly what it is that most women really do need to get that only men might provide…

      Or do you think that it is harder to actually just come right out and say it?!?

      Either way, I am still waiting for SOMEONE to comment on this!!!

      -James

      • I have to admit I did not have a ready answer for this and I have no idea why! Therefore at your prodding I will give this more thought.

      • James are you suggesting that women are hesitating to admit that they want and need to get drilled by their man?

    • To hold doors open for them. Haha…. I’m just kidding.

    • With the advent and selection of various “toys”, one could assume that women wouldn’t really need men for sex. But to quote someone “nothing feels like the real thing”. So there is still hope for us men lol

    • Women need authentic men who can offer their full, undivided presence. It is anchoring and affirming to women.

    • At a global level, women need men to sacrifice themselves so that others can live and honor that sacrifice.

    • Women need men who have balance, who know what they want, honest with themselves if they don’t, who have courage, who can do the right thing, who are generous, and who can put someone else ahead of themselves.

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Complete this sentence:

    Men need women…

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Best reasons to take a risk?

  • lake posted an update in the group Group logo of Your ExperimentsYour Experiments 10 years, 6 months ago

    Favorite sensations against your skin?

  • Another date night cumming soon lol. We are thinking of going out to a bar and mingle some, and who knows from there. ….

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