@alaninontario
Active 11 years, 10 months ago-
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 4 months agoI do not know exactly what category to put this into so please accept that. One of the most erotic events that I witnessed was by pure accident. I have been to some wild parties, seen a fair amount of open and explicit sex and have participated. One of the more erotic adventures was when I went to walk my dog. It was a very hot summer’s night and…[Read more]
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 4 months ago
Exactly my point.
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 5 months ago
You are delightful. We were in a housewares store on the weekend. Saw this thing, no idea what to call it. It had a handle and at the end, it looked like a miniature cat-of-nine-tails. It was to brush on spices when cooking. So, this small instrument and the ends were rubber or silicone (I guess that negates using it on the barbeque) They had…[Read more]
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Then go back and buy it my friend! Worship her body with it! And yes, that is basically what I am talking about. Mine doesn’t have the knobs on the fingers, but lucky you, great find, and use it! Just a word of warning, don’t make it all one sided play. Let her use it on you too! I have coached someone online about how to use it, and…[Read more]
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 6 months ago
In a past relationship, on a dare we went to not-on-premises swingers club. We did not connect with others there or want to. We wanted the sexual tension in the room and to be in our own bubble. If you want to be left alone, you will be as swingers are very polite. In my present relationship, my very straight lady and I have gone to the clubs and…[Read more]
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 6 months agoHer. Such a straight, formerly long married lady. Classic in every way. Travelled extensively, dresses with flair, still turns heads as she has developed into a mature, stylish woman with a figure those half her age would kill for. Very tight lipped about her innermost thoughts but as we develop as a couple and as I bring her out of her shell I am…[Read more]
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This is a fascinating development, and I’ve really enjoyed following your adventures over the past months. I’m afraid this one’s out of my circle of knowledge, but I really hope some other readers will comment with their opinions/advice. Good luck!
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Mmmm…thoughtful, measured, BDSM…sounds like a tremendous idea. Lots of fun can be had with this new aspect, and it sounds like a very promising twist on your already very liberating relationship! There is nothing more rewarding for me than connecting with someone else on a level that allows such wants and desires not only to be expressed…[Read more]
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In case I wasn’t perfectly clear in my original post, I am no sadist. I am a lover not a fighter and I don’t totally get the pain thing – maybe I have just never really had the desire or willingness to go there or a partner able to expertly wield the whip – but I do know for certain that everyones reactions to pain are different. Not knowing you…[Read more]
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 7 months agoI am almost finished 50 Shades of Grey by EL James. Do not know if this is the right forum to comment on this book and if not, I apologize in advance but I would love to know if anyone else has read it and if so, do I stand alone in thinking that the writing and story are such drivel that I am shaking my head at the popularity of this book and the…[Read more]
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I haven’t read this, nor do I think I will, but I’m curious to see people’s reactions to the “phenomenon” and have created a new group – Erotic Books – and a new forum – Fifty Shades of Grey – here: http://www.thesexexperiment.com/groups/erotic-books/forum/topic/fifty-shades-of-grey/
Hated it? Loved it? You can post everything in the forum, send…[Read more]
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That link wouldnt work for me but I read all three books. I agree the writing was terrible. I liked the subject matter which is the only reason I continued to read. By the second book I was sick of reading the same scene over and over again. I think mr and mrs x could do much better with the story. đŸ˜‰
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Exactly my point.
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 7 months ago
Funny thing, the driver was a great guy, youngish, working hard for his family. He used to pop up all over at events and I would have casual conversations with him. He told me that more than one couple would start to get it on and then invite him to join them. He was a very married and straight guy but he was also a voyeur. For some time he had an…[Read more]
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Well I think I may have found a new occupation. And the setup seems ready-made for a book or a movie. Thanks again for sharing.
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osted an update in the group Your Experiments 12 years, 7 months agoThere are events in one’s sexual life that you replay over and over. One of my favourites happened one warm and late summer night. The lady who was in my life at the time had come out and had experimented with her bi side. Some good adventures had transpired but she was very select. She had a very tight figure as she had been a dancer, good but…[Read more]
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What a truly fantastic story! I hope others will read it and enjoy as much as I did. I’m fascinated by so much about this – the women, obviously, but also the “no sex on premises” rule and the niche thus filled by the limo driver (what a job, and what stories he must have had!). Anyway, yes, a once-in-a-lifetime night. Love it! Thanks.
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Funny thing, the driver was a great guy, youngish, working hard for his family. He used to pop up all over at events and I would have casual conversations with him. He told me that more than one couple would start to get it on and then invite him to join them. He was a very married and straight guy but he was also a voyeur. For some time he had an…[Read more]
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Well I think I may have found a new occupation. And the setup seems ready-made for a book or a movie. Thanks again for sharing.
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Wow, that certainly would be a night to remember. As cliche as it might be, I firmly believe that many a couple lose the ability to keep their hands off one another when they are in the backseat instead of behind the wheel themselves despite their “audience” and the stories that cab drivers/limo drivers could tell are probably *very* interesting.
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I had a wonderous relationship with a doctor and his wife. They were fine people, fun, really into being fit and active and fine meals at their home. We enjoyed each other’s partners, the ladies liked each other and yet we could go on outings just as friends. Miss them a great deal but they belonged to another life, another relationship that was…[Read more]
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osted an update in the group Your Fantasies 12 years, 9 months agoWe are opening up and my classy, sexy and sophisticated lady is coming out of her former suburban shell. It took a year of being together before I discovered that she does have a rather submissive side as outside of the bedroom she is control of herself and is a strong person. In bed, she wants to be dominated. So, I put it to you, now that I have…[Read more]
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Have her dress in a skirt and top that she likes, or go as far as to buy clothes for her that she is to wear, and take her out for a drink, wearing no underwear. Go to a local bar, or coffee shop, somewhere you can sit in a booth beside her, or in a private corner…. raise her skirt so you can see her, and make her keep it raised, it is yours…[Read more]
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You are delightful. We were in a housewares store on the weekend. Saw this thing, no idea what to call it. It had a handle and at the end, it looked like a miniature cat-of-nine-tails. It was to brush on spices when cooking. So, this small instrument and the ends were rubber or silicone (I guess that negates using it on the barbeque) They had…[Read more]
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Then go back and buy it my friend! Worship her body with it! And yes, that is basically what I am talking about. Mine doesn’t have the knobs on the fingers, but lucky you, great find, and use it! Just a word of warning, don’t make it all one sided play. Let her use it on you too! I have coached someone online about how to use it, and…[Read more]
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 9 months ago
First, no is no. Swingers do not push. They are polite and want people to have fun, to pleasure each other. There are so many variables, soft swing, full swing, and all points in between. I have been to a fair amount but overall the best, the absolute best is not some wild frenzy, an orgy as it can become mundane quickly and is very impersonal.…[Read more]
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Thanks Alan … for that …. I would really like to try the intimate deal …. any offers …
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I had a wonderous relationship with a doctor and his wife. They were fine people, fun, really into being fit and active and fine meals at their home. We enjoyed each other’s partners, the ladies liked each other and yet we could go on outings just as friends. Miss them a great deal but they belonged to another life, another relationship that was…[Read more]
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posted an update 12 years, 9 months ago
I have been travelling so now to tell all. The night started at 8 pm sharp when the lady arrived at my home. She knocked and the door opened to a darkened home. Immediately a blindfold was placed over her eyes. I took off her coat which revealed that she was wearing a black, silk blouse, a tight black skirt, nylons and high heels. She was dressed…[Read more]
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This is an amazing adventure, and I’m grateful that you shared it with us. No matter how open-minded your are, this kind of thing is always a delicate game (who really wants it? both? one?), but she seems to have risen to the occasion beautifully (and she seems beautiful). Now onward to young studs!
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posted an update 12 years, 10 months ago
I apologize for the delay in posting the events of the night of introducing my lady a former suburban, married lady to having an adventure with two men. I promise to get back next week and write about it. In summary, it was highly erotic. She looked gorgeous and was blindfolded during the entire adventure. After the other gentleman left, we…[Read more]
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Thrilled to hear it went so well, and will be very curious to hear about these evolving adventures.
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posted a new activity comment 12 years, 10 months ago
It is early afternoon and tonight I take my lady across a threshold. It is totally out-of-character for her. She is a beautiful woman, not just in my eyes as I am told by everyone that she is radiant. She is a young-older woman. Few guess her age. She is tall, full figured in the sense of beautiful breasts, trim stomach, round hips and gorgeous…[Read more]
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Yep. Add my voice to those clamoring for details.
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posted an update 12 years, 10 months ago
Tomorrow will be a very special night, my lady will come out and explore a sexual side that she had tucked into the shadows of her mind. She came out a typical, staid, conservative, suburban marriage. I met her about a year or so later and my experiences were not conventional. Slowly I brought her to new levels of pleasure. Getting her to be open…[Read more]
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Wow! Exciting night on hand. Well done, and please do let us know how it turns out.
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I like that you are taking time to find out what your lady desires and are overcoming your own apprehensions to satisfy her curiosity.
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It is early afternoon and tonight I take my lady across a threshold. It is totally out-of-character for her. She is a beautiful woman, not just in my eyes as I am told by everyone that she is radiant. She is a young-older woman. Few guess her age. She is tall, full figured in the sense of beautiful breasts, trim stomach, round hips and gorgeous…[Read more]
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Yep. Add my voice to those clamoring for details.
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Beautifully described, and as I find myself repeating, its all those little details that turn one on – the tree line, the billowing dress, the backlighting. Really great. Thanks.
This is a beautifully described story. There is something about the long, slow heat soaked days of summer that always turn me on…and to come across such a pure and unadulterated display of two people who can not contain their sexuality and embrace the sultry eroticism of being outside at night on a hot evening…I would agree that it is hard to…[Read more]
Thank you – never know if anyone is out there, reading. Would be great to see a simple Like button like on Facebook to encourage postings
This is a great idea, and I’m going to try to figure it out ASAP. I absolutely love your updates from the edge of possibility, and I’m sure many others do too. It would be great to give them an easy way to show that.