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posted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years, 11 months ago
I have always wanted to try to be dominated sexually in a relationship, and a few of my G/F’s that I have dated stated they have always wanted to be on the giving-end of sex, meaning they wanted to get a strap-on so they can feel the thrill of pounding a guy from behind.
This opportunity came one night when I was hanging out with one of my female friends. In the middle of playing around with her, I was flat on my stomach with “C” on my back giving me a massage. She was lying on top of me, rubbing her bare tits on my back, rubbing my arms and shoulders when she whispered in my ear, “This is very HOT and I know how we can make it even better.”
I simply moaned and “C” continued “I’ve always enjoyed having you fuck me, so why shouldn’t I return the favor.”
I sort of said, ‘what?’ and she said, “Well I mean plenty of men enjoy getting finger fucked up the ass, especially when I am trying to hit their G-Spot. I got myself a strap on dildo a couple days ago and I’d like to be able to do you, which might give you that different avenue of pleasure.”
Since this was an experience I had thought about numerous times but never shared, I was more than a little skeptical about the pleasure, I replied, “What are you talking about?”
“Well I think it would enhance your sexual experience if I take the dominant position sometimes along with something we both would come to enjoy. I want to fuck your ass what do you say?” said “C” rather forcefully.
I replied, “Well that’s something I’ve thought about but have never done.”
“C” slapped my ass and said, “Well neither have I but there’s got to be a first time for everything right.”
I know when “C” sets her mind to something she is relentless so I said, “Then OK but just take it slowly.”
“C” laughed as she scrambled off the bed to get her strap-on saying, “Fuck Yes!!!…of course I’ll take it easy, I don’t want to hurt you I just want to bang your butt.”
“C” walked back towards the bed wearing an 8 inch strap-on dildo with a tube of lubricating gel in her hand. “OK big boy up on your hands and knees, you’re familiar with doggy style you’re just the front dog this time.”
I got into position and “C” worked her well-greased fingers up into me, taking time to tickle my balls and work my cock in between.
Finally “C” decided I was ready and said, “Now relax, take a deep breath and I’ll punch your ticket to a new adventure.”
Getting right behind me my “C” spread my ass cheeks and gently inserted her dildo into my ass. It was more shock than pain when it went in but “C” took it slowly while firmly holding my hips and gently reaming my ass.
With me relaxed now and my ass accepting her dildo “C” began pumping it deeper in me and really getting into it. “C” stated with a newly excited tone in her voice, “Oh fuck I can’t believe the feeling of power to be able to fuck somebody like this. I just love fucking your ass and I am so lucky to have a friend willing to give me this opportunity for another type of pleasure.”
“C” held my hips and firmly and steadily fucked my ass until I could feel her belly bouncing against my cheeks with each stroke meaning she was pumping the full 8 inches up my ass. I guess in a strange way the fact that I was able to take all of “C’s” dildo up my ass was a bigger surprise to me than knowing this chic was fucking me up the ass which showed the state of mind I was in.
Finally “C” pushed the dildo all the way in and held it there while reached around to jerk my surprisingly stiff cock. “Oh this is just awesome, giving it to you up the ass and getting you off at the same time, it’s a whole new world.”
“C” continued to jerk me off with long firm stokes until I came. I then pitched forward onto my stomach; “C” pulled out and laid down on top of me whispering in my ear, “Now we can be so much more adventurous. You’re my man ass man and I’m so lucky to have you as a friend.”
We fell asleep next to each other and I wondered how much adventure was now in store for us.
I love ass play so this is a provocative story with a decided twist. It was very brave of you to post such an…intimate…experience, but I am actually very glad that you shared this. I have never punched this particular ticket, but I am actually a little surprised by that fact.
My lovers are all too familiar with my own relentless pursuit of their “nether regions” and I love being able to share my passions as fully as they will allow and being able to challenge their own perceptions and witness the discovery of the incredibly unique and intense pleasure which this part of their bodies can create.
You have definitely challenged my own thinking about what the right scenarios or situations that would warrant my own explorations in this area would be, which is why I love being on this site.
-James
PS: They almost always “allow” my advances, and based on their reactions, I would have a real hard time believing any of them who claim after the fact that they didn’t really enjoy it even if they couldn’t totally understand or process the experience! I say this as much for the women who have resisted advances in this area as much as for the women who would like to bring this experience to their man! Be straightforward and frank, build the trust, take your time to show him you won’t judge him and then fuck his ass like you mean it!
I can assure you that many men share with you, this private pleasure. And many women enjoy the bit of role reversal. For me, it is deeply erotic. Thanks for sharing.
The nice part of this story is that I am “far from gay” or “even bi-sexual”. I LOVE the female form, textures, lines and smells. I enjoy how they move, and pose at every turn.
Some try to really explore their womanhood, but yet some can be dominating and willing to strap on toys to satisfy their fantasies.
It is the females in my life which have created the desire for this type of experience. Some of the gals I have been with have openly shared their fantasies, and eroticism along with their playful ways which seemed to focal on a little ass play.
I find being open to some of their suggestions make the foreplay even more fun and intense.
Hear Hear to that! I think you nailed it right on the head. I am hyper attuned to picking up on what women are thinking and feeling (well at least sexually) and I agree there is a serious charge that I get from being with someone who wants to go somewhere that I haven’t been. I am first in line when it comes to being ready to try something as much for their experience as it is my own. If I happen to find something that I didn’t think I would enjoy in the process bonus for me, but for me there is this magical place that I am transported to when I witness women in the throes of sexual ecstasy. I crave the feeling I get and the experiences that can be had so greatly that I am down for almost anything that will take us there. Oh, and don’t think I am not getting exactly what I want in the process. Think of it like the ultimate “top from the bottom” where the bargain is I can and will take you wherever you want to go, but I always end up getting what I really want in the end…(not that end)!
-James
PS: People wonder how you get women to do some crazy thing and to me it is simple…make them cum harder than they ever have before and you can get them to do pretty much anything!
BTW…to make it clear that I am not an @sshole, I can categorically state that any woman who can make me cum harder than I ever have before could get me to do pretty much anything she wants as well!