I certainly agree with Luis that would be ideal, perfect.

I don’t have an answer to this one. Depends on the point in time, for which do I hurt and long more.

I know I have to have both, and more, there are certain things if we settle for not having, the price is too high. The question then becomes… Can you get them all from one person? For how long? What are the viable alternatives if you can’t create them all with one person forever, and you choose not to forfeit having them all. I would add trust and intimacy, also care and reliability.