1. Scavenger hunt: I hid my panties in a public place; go find it.

2) have a special signal (like burning a special candle) to signify that not only will he be getting lucky, but that tonight will be extra kinky. Light it early so he has lots of time to think about it. Even better, light it when there are others around (like when hosting a dinner party) so that only you 2 know of the meaning … and he will have to wait until all the guests leave

3. You’re in the next room, but let’s Skype – and surprise me. (Happy to offer a good prize for 100. Any ideas?)

3) Undressing each other – the slower the better

4) play a game using 2 dice and a deck of cards… roll the first die (1-lips, 2-neck, 3-chest, 4-butt, 5-groin, 6-your choice) roll second die (1-kiss, 2, lick, 3-finder touch, 4-ice, 5-genitals, 6-your choice) – then one person pulls a card. if it’s red the man does the actions to the girl, if it’s black he girl does it to the man. the number on the card is the number of minutes the activity will last. If you get a face card then you decide the amount if time

6) Naked Massages

7. I am going to be romantic on this one Kissing
8. Teasing me at work texting naked picks of her self
9.

13) surf the net (or your private stash) of porn to find positions to use during sex

14. Feeding him while blindfolded

Sorry people we are only up to 13.
13. Morning report (photo sent via Snapchat) of what stockings I am wearing.

14. Responding to Mr X’s #3 and Mrs M’s #4, yes let’s Skype and the game strip dice. Five articles of clothing allowed.

17. Playing with remote vibrator while eating dinner with his parents

18. Letting me know she’s not wearing panties in public

19. Having a heated and intelligent conversation about some of the projects we as a couple are working on

Touching him while he’s driving

20. Reminiscing the first time we met, we kiss, we had sex.

22. Going shopping for toys

23. Watching her flirt with someone while we are at the bar

24. Slow, artful, erotic, slutty devouring a banana.

24. Watching Alex play with beds

26) the anticipation while being tied to the bed – slowly knotting the rope, adjusting the tension… it may take 20 minutes with out any sexual touching

27. A whisper, “later…” into left ear. Or a nibble, a lick. (The left ear has been shown in some research to be the route to the emotional side of the brain.)

30. Groping — hands!!

31) play truth or dare

This is really fun. Did it at a stripper bar once with a group, a work acquaintance (that I had known for years, but we had always been somewhat awkward around each other) suddenly announced to the girls that we were married. It was perfect, and we finally became comfortable with each other after that, nothing like sharing strippers all night, to get over the hump.

32) Give or receive ‘preparation’ instructions.

33) Long, deep, honest, insightful, and revealed email exchange before getting together.

34) speaking of preparation… have him shave you

Ha, we would have so much fun with this Luis!

35) I have to sit somewhere and expose myself, hold the position till he gets there.

37. Hot breath, wet tongue, nibbling teeth on neck. Thoughts on emotional, physical state, words on what actions you will take uttered into {left!!] ear.

38. No words, no touching, stare at each other for as long as it takes, with Frank Sinatra’s The Way You Look Tonight playing in the background.

39) Long hot bath or shower where you wash each other

I ADORE you, Luis.

42. Tape/hang a blindfold on the mirror in the bathroom to greet him/her in the morning. Write on the mirror: “Later…. you? or me?”

43. Email him/her, after lunch, a short audio recording of a long and tortured moan.

45.) Tell them why they enchant you.

46. Slap my ass… and keep slapping it.

47. Emailing a photo of tonight’s outfit [only].

48. Stripped naked, blindfolded, noise canceling headphones put on, a command to spread your legs, and then Vivaldi loud through the headphones.

49. The right music to match the particular mood —

50 — Reading SE together . .. There in a blatant move for site promotion, I give you #50

Impressive work so far. I feel as if we’re engaged in some very important project to change the future of fucking. Is there a Nobel Prize for sex? We should check on that. In the meantime…another prize: 1) if the prospect of reading it interests you, I’ll accept a dare from the crowd (be gentle), and 2) I’ll post a very explicit dare I asked @mal8899 to perform a while back (she’s agreed). Does that tempt you into another 50 tips? Hope so, and if not, tell me what else you want.