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lake posted an update in the group
Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month ago Question for the guys: What’s the biggest mistake women make when courting?
lake posted an update in the group Your Experiments 11 years, 1 month ago
Question for the guys: What’s the biggest mistake women make when courting?
What do you consider “sloppy?”
hmmmmm …. assume that the relationship which hasn’t yet deceloped will be exactly like the one they implicitly imagine; or, conversely, assume that the person they’re courting with has specific attitudes and desires about the developing relationship which they don’t share …
Ah good one prance, this does SO get in the way of having the actual relationship that might otherwise be available.
So in other words, you like LOTS of things standing at attention! š
Don’t be fake. Be yourself.
No being themselvesā¦ It sounds counterintuitive, because we DO live in a world which seems to expect people to present themselves as “favorably” as possible, but the truth is that while giving a favorable impression may land someone the partner they have always dreamed of, the insecurity and inability to actually become something that you are not will always become an issue over the long runā¦
Usually right about the time that breaking up would cause the absolute most amount of disruption and heartache for all involved!
-James
Authenticity may indeed be the biggest turn on of all in the long run, if you ask me.