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lake posted an update 10 years, 7 months ago
I’m going for my run, and I have a very specific set of ideas I plan to evolve as I do. Here is everybody’s assignment for today (and do share what you can!). Think about your next outing or planned time together that you will be spending with your other… And come up with a way that you will surprise them! A twist, a risk, a way to make the moment super charged… Get their panties in your pocket, give them something fabulous to wear that is out of their comfort zone way, dare them to flirt, challenge yourself to find a way to get what you want, inspire an incredibly connected moment that makes the world around stop… PLAY, tickle, wrestle, or slow down… Whatever it is CREATE a plan, and let’s live all of them next week!
Yes. Let’s do this. The attempt is everything, and maybe we’ll post a few up on the blog.
Well, gang, I started the week with great ideas and intentions and sad to report the execution was a total failure. Better luck next week.
My execution starts tomorrow… If I don’t burst in the meantime!
Things are never a total failure, I am sure there is much from the planning
and intentions that will find its way again into the future, and for what it’s worth it made ME extremely happy to find out that you have been plotting this week… I do so love the idea of your mind plotting.
Let’s see if we can resuscitate the effort, here is a dare from me just for you to do today or tomorrow.
Find a public place I t can be your desk, a park, a restaurant, whatever, but people must be milling around you and you must be facing into the open not towards a wall. Close your eyes and spread your legs as wide as you possibly can. Keep your eyes closed no matter what happens. If someone talks to you if possible and it’s not actually unsafe reply back with your eyes still closed. Spread your legs even wider, they must be wildly inappropriately wide, your pussy must feel very open and exposed even if you have pants on.
Now think about your partner there using his hands his mouth his body beginning at your feet let your mind and body feel him as he travels up and over every inch of you, don’t open your eyes or let your legs pull in even the slightest (in fact actively push them wider) until there is no square inch of your flesh you have not felt open to and accept his touches. Inventory the response of your body, the places your mind goes… And of course report back to us in full!
When you said to spread my legs as wides as I possibly can, I thought of a Russian split, which I can do with a half way decent job. First thing this morning after I worked out at the gym, I positioned myself on a mat facing a bunch of muscleheads. I closed my eyes and stretched a number of ways, including arms back, chest forward, legs wide, toes pointed. I am sure they think I’ve gone nuts, giving them a show like that.
Then I thought about him. I followed your instructions for a short while. I could not get to a place to bask in sexual energy as you wished. Instead, my emotional ache deepened, my sexual frustration heightened. I miss him. I got off the mat, got off in the shower. I felt empty; I need him.
You have him.
Maybe try again, alone this time
sitting in a chair, first reread a love note from him, then be still, breath, become as present as you can to how immutably connected you two are, know it and let it fill what it can. You know the rest will come, now just distract yourself with something fun (for example me:))
“When I am with you, we stay up all night.
When you’re not here, I can’t go to sleep.
Praise God for those two insomnias!
And the difference between them.”
― Rumi
Also discovered a fabulous new energizing experience not quite a shoe salesman experience, but certainly a lite version in that vein. You know how when you are in a hair salon getting your hair washed, you have to schooch way down in that seat and your knees go wide and your head is titled back into that little sink and your eyes are closed and the man is standing over you staring down your body and slowly squirting and massaging your scalp? Well doing that in a short skirt and no panties when you are sexually super charged is completely fucking hot!!
I highly recommend this one. For the guys on your next flight. Book your seats not next to each other. Sit where you can see her, but she is next to strangers. Make sure she is wearing a short skirt no panties when you leave for the airport. A few minutes before boarding, slip a remote controlled egg into her pussy, we have the lelo version ( like my shameless plug? @him). Then get up and sit across from her. Have her spread her legs so she is flashing you. While she does this toy with the remote, so not turn it on, just finger it, maybe rest it against your chin… Look her in the eye and have a little fun with your expressions. You will be interrupted to board. Get on the plane. You will have about 20 minutes before you have to disconnect your wifi or cellular. Let her get settled and then begin sending her (you will have to have pre-written emails in your drafts, unless you guys do quick and dirty) the emails, so there is time for them to load into her device before everything has to be shut down. Now for the flight, enjoy having her read the emails, follow instructions or just be turned on, sync your use of the remote with the flow of what you have going on with the other messaging/instructions. Enjoy your flight!
“You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.”
― David Foster Wallace, Infinite Jest